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areyoukidding posted 3/4/2011 19:32 PM

Not happy, sexy vamps- sad, lonely, pathetic, desperate women.

EXACTLY!!

I saw a picture of the OW and was completely shocked. She is unattractive, skanky, and looks like a wannabe porn star (but a really bad immitation). I showed friends of mine her picture and the look on their faces is priceless. "He left you for that???!!!"

I hear she has three little kids - really interesting as STBX never wanted kids (although he has a son from a previous relationship). She has left a relationship to be with STBX and convinced him to do the same ("whether you leave her today or next year, you're still going to hurt her"). STBX has moved in with OW the day after d-day to the "haven" she created for them. STBX has no money, has maxed out his credit cards, is battling depression, has restricted visitation with his son, is hanging on to his job by a thread, and his friends and family want nothing to do with him. Now they will be combining families. Nice role models for your children, you two!!

STBX always said he didn't think he was enough for me - I've come to realize now he was right.

Dyantha posted 3/11/2011 11:46 AM

BS Only

[This message edited by Deeply Scared at 12:00 PM, March 11th (Friday)]

annb posted 3/11/2011 19:55 PM

bump.

lordhasaplan? posted 3/15/2011 14:16 PM

Bump for SadCat22

whatdoto posted 3/17/2011 07:43 AM

bump for horse crazy

stronger than he posted 3/17/2011 10:22 AM

Thank you for this.

Edie posted 3/29/2011 11:39 AM

Bump

afraidshesgone posted 3/29/2011 11:43 AM

This has always been one of my favorite posts and I can attest that it exactly spot on!

Thanks for the bump

-GSG

hurtinbrzl posted 3/29/2011 17:47 PM

Just what I needed to hear.
Thank you so much!

hard_yards posted 3/30/2011 09:27 AM

bump for moonshine and lotstoloose

lotstolose posted 3/30/2011 10:37 AM

Bravo. I want to print this out and post it on my office all.

Rise_Above posted 4/5/2011 16:36 PM

alacabump

LostandGuilty posted 4/6/2011 11:55 AM

Bump

Betty Betty posted 4/6/2011 12:23 PM

I love this thread. It is so spot on. Sometimes I lurk on some "other women" websites, and it is amazing how they see themselves. Needless to say, they don't often see themselves as they are described in this thread. But those other websites do provide good entertainment.

East of Eden posted 4/6/2011 20:29 PM

Love this! Thanks so much!

Jrazz posted 4/6/2011 20:42 PM

This one needs to be kept fresh forever! Thank you! I'll be referring as many BS's as I can.

dontwantthis posted 4/7/2011 08:58 AM

I need help. I feel like he didn't affair down. Now I personally don't think she is attractive. From what I know of her, she is single, 4 or 5 years younger than me, a has a degree, is the same high job level my H is (same big company), into sports he likes and wine like him.

I on the other hand didn't finish school and have been a SAHM until last year when I went back to work part time. My not working apparently a BIG issue in his unhappiness.

The only bad thing I can say is that she was a little clueless and in denial. He never told her he was married and had 3 kids. She told him AFTER I confronted them together, that she saw his ring but then he wasn't wearing it anymore so she thought he was separated, yet she never asked him.
Words of wisdom, 2 x 4's anything will help!
I guess another bad thing is she took him back after finding out about me and kids. He "claims" he not involved with anyone now, but like I can believe him.

[This message edited by dontwantthis at 7:12 AM, April 16th (Saturday)]

Bluebells posted 4/7/2011 12:15 PM

dontwantthis - he did affair down. She wants to take him after KNOWING what he is able to do to his wife and family.

The OW in my situation is pretty (except for the huge mole on her face) and petite, but you know what - anyone who wants or tries to take someone's spouse is second best, and your spouse knows that you are a better person than she is. No matter what they look like or what their job is, they are a downgrade.

dontwantthis posted 4/9/2011 08:28 AM

Thank you Bluebells. I know you're right, a good person wouldn't be ok going after someone else's husband. Her character is lacking, mine isn't.

mom22kids posted 4/18/2011 10:53 AM

Whenever I have a down day I read this post and feel better!

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