Topic: Honey, they always affair down
Member # 30528
| Posted: 7:32 PM, March 4th (Friday), 2011|
Not happy, sexy vamps- sad, lonely, pathetic, desperate women.
I saw a picture of the OW and was completely shocked. She is unattractive, skanky, and looks like a wannabe porn star (but a really bad immitation). I showed friends of mine her picture and the look on their faces is priceless. "He left you for that???!!!"
I hear she has three little kids - really interesting as STBX never wanted kids (although he has a son from a previous relationship). She has left a relationship to be with STBX and convinced him to do the same ("whether you leave her today or next year, you're still going to hurt her"). STBX has moved in with OW the day after d-day to the "haven" she created for them. STBX has no money, has maxed out his credit cards, is battling depression, has restricted visitation with his son, is hanging on to his job by a thread, and his friends and family want nothing to do with him. Now they will be combining families. Nice role models for your children, you two!!
STBX always said he didn't think he was enough for me - I've come to realize now he was right.
BS (me) : 53 Freshly divorced and so very happy. To infinity and beyond!!
Trying to understand the behaviour of some people is like trying to smell the number 9.
Posts: 661 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Canada
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Member # 31493
| Posted: 11:46 AM, March 11th (Friday), 2011|
[This message edited by Deeply Scared at 12:00 PM, March 11th (Friday)]
His D-day: May 2007
My D-day: Mar 2 2011
Together: 13 years
NC: Mar 3 2011
Trying to reconsille
Posts: 2 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Ottawa, ON
Member # 22386
| Posted: 7:55 PM, March 11th (Friday), 2011|
Posts: 7738 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
Member # 30079
| Posted: 2:16 PM, March 15th (Tuesday), 2011|
Bump for SadCat22
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Posts: 1957 | Registered: Nov 2010
Member # 28555
| Posted: 7:43 AM, March 17th (Thursday), 2011|
bump for horse crazy
"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".
Posts: 1187 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Texas
|stronger than he|
Member # 31533
| Posted: 10:22 AM, March 17th (Thursday), 2011|
Thank you for this.
"The world is a stage, but the play is badly cast." - Oscar Wilde
Posts: 92 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 26133
| Posted: 11:39 AM, March 29th (Tuesday), 2011|
Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.
Posts: 5205 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
Member # 28625
| Posted: 11:43 AM, March 29th (Tuesday), 2011|
This has always been one of my favorite posts and I can attest that it exactly spot on!
Thanks for the bump
Me, BW, old enough
D-Day dates.. tired of 'em Let's just say it happened, I'm over it and have moved on.....very happy
Despite my screen name, I am very much a woman and hell yeah I wish I could change that name to gladshesgone
Posts: 1765 | Registered: May 2010 | From: The Land of Guilder
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Member # 31669
| Posted: 5:47 PM, March 29th (Tuesday), 2011|
Just what I needed to hear.
Thank you so much!
BW 35 (me)
One daughter - age 5
Married 10 years
"It´s open season on liars and I´m hunting"
from Pretty Little Liars
Posts: 27 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 23549
| Posted: 9:27 AM, March 30th (Wednesday), 2011|
bump for moonshine and lotstoloose
I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...
Posts: 1254 | Registered: Apr 2009
Member # 30158
| Posted: 10:37 AM, March 30th (Wednesday), 2011|
Bravo. I want to print this out and post it on my office all.
me: BW 41
him: WH 41
married 9 years, together 17
2 great kids, both under 4
Posts: 82 | Registered: Nov 2010
Member # 23674
| Posted: 4:36 PM, April 5th (Tuesday), 2011|
You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
God's hand was an avocado branch
Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
Member # 30493
| Posted: 11:55 AM, April 6th (Wednesday), 2011|
"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on" - Robert Frost
Posts: 224 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: FL
Member # 31714
| Posted: 12:23 PM, April 6th (Wednesday), 2011|
I love this thread. It is so spot on. Sometimes I lurk on some "other women" websites, and it is amazing how they see themselves. Needless to say, they don't often see themselves as they are described in this thread. But those other websites do provide good entertainment.
Posts: 283 | Registered: Apr 2011
|East of Eden|
Member # 31763
| Posted: 8:29 PM, April 6th (Wednesday), 2011|
Love this! Thanks so much!
BW- Me (35) WH- Him (35)
D-day #1 3/13/2011
D-day #2 5/2/2011
D-day #3 6/10/2011
Status: REALLY pissed off....
Posts: 281 | Registered: Apr 2011
Member # 31349
| Posted: 8:42 PM, April 6th (Wednesday), 2011|
This one needs to be kept fresh forever! Thank you! I'll be referring as many BS's as I can.
"The evil that is in the world almost always comes of ignorance, and good intentions may do as much harm as malevolence if they lack understanding." -Dr. B. Rieux
Posts: 19109 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 31518
| Posted: 8:58 AM, April 7th (Thursday), 2011|
I need help. I feel like he didn't affair down. Now I personally don't think she is attractive. From what I know of her, she is single, 4 or 5 years younger than me, a has a degree, is the same high job level my H is (same big company), into sports he likes and wine like him.
I on the other hand didn't finish school and have been a SAHM until last year when I went back to work part time. My not working apparently a BIG issue in his unhappiness.
The only bad thing I can say is that she was a little clueless and in denial. He never told her he was married and had 3 kids. She told him AFTER I confronted them together, that she saw his ring but then he wasn't wearing it anymore so she thought he was separated, yet she never asked him.
Words of wisdom, 2 x 4's anything will help!
I guess another bad thing is she took him back after finding out about me and kids. He "claims" he not involved with anyone now, but like I can believe him.
[This message edited by dontwantthis at 7:12 AM, April 16th (Saturday)]
Posts: 54 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 31776
| Posted: 12:15 PM, April 7th (Thursday), 2011|
dontwantthis - he did affair down. She wants to take him after KNOWING what he is able to do to his wife and family.
The OW in my situation is pretty (except for the huge mole on her face) and petite, but you know what - anyone who wants or tries to take someone's spouse is second best, and your spouse knows that you are a better person than she is. No matter what they look like or what their job is, they are a downgrade.
DDday: March 1, 2011
Married June 2009, together 8 years
OW: ongoing EA/PA, started October 2010
Separated March 24, 2011
Divorced Summer 2012
Signed D paperwork end of March, 2012; currently waiting for certificate that D is
Posts: 316 | Registered: Apr 2011
Member # 31518
| Posted: 8:28 AM, April 9th (Saturday), 2011|
Thank you Bluebells. I know you're right, a good person wouldn't be ok going after someone else's husband. Her character is lacking, mine isn't.
Posts: 54 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 16994
| Posted: 10:53 AM, April 18th (Monday), 2011|
Whenever I have a down day I read this post and feel better!
You're not having a bad day. You are having a normal BS day. You are fine.
Posts: 1622 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: what's worse than hell?
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