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Cee64D posted 5/28/2011 01:17 AM

Rise_Above posted 6/6/2011 00:48 AM

bump

Junebug0525 posted 6/6/2011 00:50 AM

I can read this over and over. I love it!

WarInside posted 6/6/2011 00:54 AM

There's a lot of truth to what is written here... but as the BS of a WW who cheated with another married man, it's still hard to read.

Cee64D posted 6/13/2011 21:35 PM

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Cee64D posted 6/15/2011 22:05 PM

jadedheart posted 6/16/2011 05:37 AM

AMEN AMEN AMEN! DBB you are so wise! Thank you for sharing such an awesome post! You have touched many with your words!

LionessQn76 posted 6/16/2011 07:22 AM

WOW JUST WOW

that is the most empowering speech I have read. thank you girl for this!

forever.haunted posted 6/16/2011 09:37 AM

Amen! OW is not at all on my level. H KNOWS he affaired WAY down and is very ashamed.

And in the end, after H threw OW under the bus, she knew for a fact that she was the "back of the pack"

Edie posted 6/21/2011 14:14 PM

Bump for sad, sad husband

phoenix34 posted 6/21/2011 14:21 PM

Remind me to read this whenever I feel rubbish about myself!

Cee64D posted 6/23/2011 01:07 AM

Rise_Above posted 6/30/2011 16:04 PM

bump

rockbottom2468 posted 6/30/2011 16:26 PM

After learning more about the OW....I need a *like* button for this post.

notjessie posted 7/2/2011 09:53 AM

Thanks to all who bumped this. The original post is great and it does help me to make sense of this--a tiny bit. Or at least gives me another way to look at stuff.

Laura28 posted 7/2/2011 18:01 PM

HI

Most often he leaves her where he found her, at the end of the row, at the back of the pack – even weaker and more injured than when he found her. She’s worse for the wear.

Who can imagine Arnie playing house with Patty???

Yeh right

Laura

keepingcalm posted 7/4/2011 14:24 PM

So true. I could read this 100 times a day!

UKgirl posted 7/19/2011 09:44 AM

Bumping for a newbie.

kitkat22 posted 7/19/2011 10:32 AM

I read this post before just after D-Day and it helped me so much. After re-reading it now, just as I am approaching my first antiversary, it means sooooo much more and it is all true. He did affair way down, he did toss her aside immediately for me, and he has done everything in his power since to make our marriage whole again. Thank you for this delicious post...I love it.

fenrustf posted 7/19/2011 11:08 AM

That's funny... I had this exact conversation with a friend who also had a WW.

In my case my WS betrayed me for another guy who can't be honored with the title of man.

I actually have very little self esteem issues as a result of being betrayed. Without sounding egotistical, I know that I am a great man. I have been a kick ass provider, I'm reasonably good looking, I'm smart and funny, I'm a good father, I stay in shape and I play guitar in a band!

Seriously what woman wouldn't want that?

The OP she was having an affair with is still a boy. He works only 2 hours a day if that and spends the rest of his time playing video games. In short he is the epitome of a douche bag! I still can't wrap my brain around why my WW would throw away all the things I gave to her but I know it has everything to do with her.

I gave her the life she wanted - there was nothing that she was without.

In my case I truly believe that my WW was not ready to grow up and was not happy with her life as a house wife. I can understand to a point about not being satisfied with her daily life but she knew that it was only temporary. She had been staying home to raise our young son but as soon as he started going to school she was going to get another job and become more independant again.

The irony is that we were almost there - she had only a few more months to wait before she would have had what she needed. So close to the end and she got weak. She threw it all away.

But I have not taken a hit to the ego in the process! I must be a rarity. At least I have that going. Now I will have to struggle through a difficult divorce process and adjust to becomming a single father - that's what scares me. But I know I'm strong and I will get through it.

Thanks so much for this topic!

myalterego posted 7/19/2011 15:39 PM

wow, just wow.

The OP just hit home. I'm tempted to forward this to my WH. Or the OW. But that won't accomplish anything except make me feel better for a moment. And feeling better for a moment isn't what I need. Because its like a high that goes away and leaves you at a new low. Instead, I will keep my equilibrium and strength and smile when I think of this.

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