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btl1980 posted 8/17/2012 21:25 PM

deathbybetrayal - those were the most empowering words i've read to date (and heaven knows i've read a lot!!).

i think i'll make it a habit to read that at least once daily. thanks so much!

mka0811 posted 8/17/2012 21:33 PM

Thank you for those words. . . It made me cry the whole way through.

Getting to Happy posted 8/18/2012 09:57 AM

DBB~

Thanks so much for these very true words. I have to remind myself to read them from time to time, I get so low.

I think about the amount of lying and planning...thinking that she must have been really something for him to make this much effort.

But when their nasty trysts were found out, whoa! Whorestein was thrown WAAAAY under the bus. She lost her job, and a lot of work friends. Her parents and siblings are ashamed that she is a common whore, (I told them in person!) Some of her employers now know she will suck dick for a job...OUCH!

And he is in overdrive trying to make things right. We are getting better, 15 months out from DD.

So thanks from the bottom of my broken heart.

BEM817 posted 8/23/2012 12:24 PM

Bumped. Six months out and needed to read this again!!!

TheTooGoodWife posted 8/27/2012 09:15 AM

Bump love this

s+++forbrains posted 9/2/2012 11:44 AM

I need to read this every so often to remind myself what it says! Thanks!

Icannotbehere posted 9/2/2012 11:53 AM

I needed this last week when I read it for the first time.

invictus posted 9/7/2012 23:35 PM

Read this again and feel much better.

THANK you so much for sharing!

feeling bi polar posted 9/8/2012 00:23 AM

Thanks I needed to read that today. My self esteen has taken a beating lately and it is not all A related.

tinysteps posted 9/23/2012 21:29 PM

Bump

DeeA posted 9/24/2012 05:04 AM

Very well said!

deeplyblue posted 9/25/2012 14:54 PM

Bump!

Edie posted 9/28/2012 11:58 AM

Bump

FindMyselfAgain posted 9/28/2012 21:26 PM

Thank you for this. In the case of my WH it most certainly rings true. Just need to remind myself when I'm stuck on what he thought was so great about her.

FenixRising posted 9/29/2012 00:56 AM

Haha wow this is sooo true of my WH and the OW. She is trash and truthfully nowhere near as attractive as I am. WH has even said she is nothing special. Yet he can't give her up. They can just be trash together then.

Diva0702 posted 9/30/2012 17:44 PM

This post brings so much comfort to us all. In my case the O@W was indeed shorter, fatter, and definately uglier than I am. My FWH even said at the very beginning of my discovery that she was nowhere near as glamorous as me. Dumbass

sevensisterhood posted 9/30/2012 18:02 PM

THANK YOU!! Wow did I need that today, after getting a nice helping of TT with "I fell in love with her over the summer, just before I told you..." "But I didn't really love her, I love you. " Umm...?
In the Costco Parking Lot! sheesh.

this is a great post, thanks so much.

evephoebe1 posted 10/1/2012 20:40 PM

Yeah, my FWH had an affair with a woman 20 years my junior. I was prepared for a truly beautiful woman.

Instead, I was thrilled to discover a frumpy, obese woman sporting chia pet hair whilst wearing a tent dress for a shirt. She pushed a dinky cart of books around at the library.

It was also refreshing to discover that she doesn't look much younger than I do.

Brandon808 posted 10/6/2012 10:34 AM

bump

Noexcuse2012 posted 10/9/2012 18:12 PM

Bumping xx

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