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circlinggirl posted 10/9/2012 18:20 PM

You are amazing, DBB! Thank you so much for this. Obviously as this is a 36 page long thread, you have helped MANY with your inspiring words. I will be showing this to my WS, as well. You have articulated so beautifully what is not always obvious. THANK YOU!

tinysteps posted 10/12/2012 21:32 PM

Bump.
This ALWAYS makes me feel better

Lost33 posted 10/12/2012 21:53 PM

This is the thread I remember seeing its so great

hurtandscared30 posted 10/14/2012 03:29 AM

Thank you...this made me feel a little bit better. I'll have to keep re-reading it as time goes by, when it might help more.

Edie posted 10/24/2012 14:19 PM

Bumped for notsaralee.

shattered123 posted 10/27/2012 09:33 AM

Great post!

DixieD posted 11/8/2012 08:30 AM

bump for newbies

itfeelsunreal posted 11/9/2012 08:22 AM

I still love this post.

Edie posted 11/23/2012 11:08 AM

bump

Blameitontherain posted 11/23/2012 12:09 PM

I never thought of it that way at all. You have given me a moment of peace and clarity. I hope that I can draw strength from this.

Thank you very much! I am so very glad I clicked on this thread.

Zebo1434 posted 11/23/2012 15:44 PM

Thank you, this was a read I really needed today. More then anything I miss the feeling of security, confidence and self worth.... And this helps. Even knowing the OW was a hag, and a very ughhh person, readibg it in this perspective is helpful.

Thank you.

brunette posted 11/23/2012 22:20 PM

Well said! The only thing that I could add to this is that She is the victum and he is the rescuer. Then the roles reverse and he is the victum and she is the rescurer and the whole ugly circle keeps perpetuating itself. Two sick people thinking that they have something special because they can talk to each other. What shit! While you are at home taking care of the house and kids and everything else so he can be with his soulmate pouring out his heart to the one that he thinks he loves.

jojo42 posted 11/24/2012 13:24 PM

Thank you for bumping this- I loved it

Tiseye posted 11/24/2012 18:26 PM

Thanks you... even though we're the ones "not doing something wrong" it still feels awful and I love your perspective.

Edie posted 11/28/2012 14:51 PM

Bumping for rugirlie

Edie posted 12/22/2012 05:06 AM

Bump

notwarmorfuzzy posted 12/22/2012 09:36 AM

WOW!!! This post is amazing! Inspiring! True words of strength, pride, wisdom & IMPOWERMENT! Truly amazing! Thank u!!!!!!!
👍👍👍👍🙏

Getting to Happy posted 12/22/2012 10:23 AM

I love this post.

I read it early on and it really gave me strength.

Thanks DBB!

SadFlower posted 12/22/2012 16:53 PM

Deathbybetrayal, I just found your posting, and wow. Well said. I especially like, "She accepts the very worst parts of our husbands; the liar, the cheater, the deceiver, the broken man. His behavior is lower than low, but that’s okay with her. She’s accepts trashy behavior, because she is trash."

Edie posted 1/6/2013 14:36 PM

a bump for a new year and new view

Getting to Happy posted 1/6/2013 14:51 PM

Thanks for the Bump Edie!

This post never gets old!

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