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Edie posted 2/19/2013 16:19 PM

betrayedhusband posted 2/20/2013 13:40 PM

I am struggling with this. Haven't read all the posts in this thread, but where does my WW fit in here? Did she A down or did her MOM A down?

Reads like it is always the man who A's down. Somehow that doesn't make me feel much better.

heforgotme posted 2/20/2013 13:55 PM


They both affaired down.

OM's BS is better for him than your WW.

And we all know that you are better than OM : )

ihearthimstill posted 2/23/2013 12:33 PM

Thank you. I needed this today.

stillcrying4ever posted 2/23/2013 17:11 PM

Nice. I love this. And it is so true!

What2Thnk posted 2/26/2013 01:44 AM

I needed this. More than I knew.

HouseOfPink posted 2/26/2013 03:26 AM

YES! YES! YES! My WH went with a low life whore who slept around to feed her low self-esteem. She's short and obese/dumpy. A few people commented she looked like a pig when I showed them what she looked like . Even WH told me I was more gorgeous than her and my skin was smoother than hers eventhough she's more than 10 years younger than me.

EffairEmptyness posted 2/26/2013 20:50 PM

Wow, I needed that. Thanks!!!

englishrose posted 2/26/2013 21:20 PM

love it, it's so true

dindy posted 2/27/2013 04:12 AM

This is great thank you.

Me: BS
Him: xWS
Son: 3 years
Daughter: 10 months
DDay: 27-10-2013
False R: 4-02-2013
S: 20-02-2013

healingk posted 2/27/2013 07:26 AM

This is sooo true! It did take me a while to figure it out, but I finally got it!
Great Post.

flashgirlrider posted 3/11/2013 01:04 AM

this is great, so true

phoenixrivers posted 3/11/2013 09:18 AM

Me: Ph.D.

OM: Heating and Air Conditioning sales and repairman.

Go figure.

[This message edited by phoenixrivers at 5:59 PM, March 14th (Thursday)]

EffairEmptyness posted 3/11/2013 12:31 PM

I never commented when I read this, but it helped me so much, I'm glad I saw it again. In the last session, the MC asked if the EM had hurt my self esteem. Because of this post I was able to say "only initially, but then I realized she was lonely, pathetic, and desperate enough to settle for whatever morsels of attention she can get from a married man. I guess she was such a looser, she could not get any attention a single man" WS was like...damn. I'm so glad I had a chance to say that. The timing was perfect and it felt great. Btw, WS said it was stupid of him and I was prettier than all of them.

kleann posted 3/11/2013 13:03 PM

OMG. Thank you so much for that. I have been stuggling with my own self-esteem so bad since I found out, but you are so right. She is pathetic,not me. She is trash. I am way above anything she will ever be. You just made my day!

Vulcanized posted 3/13/2013 13:02 PM

In my case, OW looks like an older, busted up, shorter, fatter version of me. I thought she was my age when I saw her. (I regularly get mistaken for late 20's by folks in their 20's.)

Our mutual friends say she is stupid and mean. Winning combo ....

But ... this silly lass has been content fucking MY husband, eating my left-overs for 4+ years. WH isn't coming thru w/d he's been promising. OW still has stuck around. I can only guess WH's attraction is that OW is manageable, unlike me. I know for a fact that WH is cheating on OW. Yet, this broken, damaged excuse of a woman STILL sticks around.

So, yeah, they do affair down ... down to the depths of the sewer, if need be.

Edie posted 3/27/2013 05:32 AM

Bumpety bump

deepbluesky posted 3/27/2013 06:36 AM

This makes me feel so good. I have seen a picture of OW and just judging on looks alone he definitely went down a notch. From the other things that I have heard she is nothing like me...insecure, spacey and the likes.

kernel posted 4/6/2013 22:06 PM


Dawn58 posted 4/7/2013 11:31 AM

Thank you so much for this!! I saw the two of them together a few weeks ago and have been completely devastated by that. Wondering what she had that I don't have (big boobs). My friends at the same event told me that I am better looking, no comparison, but of course they would say that.
After reading this, my first impulse is to send it to the skank. Second impulse was the send it to him.
The truth is, I need it more than they do. One of my friends that met her said that she sensed she was desperate. Has been a single Mom for five years, so that explains why she would get involved with a married man. He is just a pig. He cheated on me, cheated on his second wife and will cheat on her. She will be devastated, it will hit her out of the blue. She will have no idea, but she will always worry that he is going to cheat on her because she KNOWS that he is a cheat. She may buy his story now about how lonely he was, how I neglected him, how I didn't care for him, that all I cared about was my classes. Right now, he's romancing her, spending money on her, telling her all the things that she wants to hear. How he loves her, how she makes him the man he was truly meant to be. All the lies. Then, he will start to suck her dry. It will be all about him. All the little things he will ask her to do for him. He will start to treat her like she is his secretary. She will see his temper when she disagrees with him. His job will always come first, she will only get the part of him that crawls into bed late at night. She will get tired of him waking her up to rub his back because he can't sleep. He will lie to her. He will control her with his money.
And in seven or eight years, her world will come crashing down when another tramp, just like her, approaches him and jumps.
And when that day happens, I will celebrate!!!! But I will have to get through their wedding day first.

Edie posted 4/9/2013 08:13 AM

bumped for imshockedandhurt

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