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thecosmogirl posted 7/6/2013 22:37 PM

The original post on this thread just made me smile :)

byHisGrace posted 7/6/2013 23:21 PM

I needed this. I found the OW on Facebook and I feel like she's prettier and she is definitely thinner. But when I look at the child support papers and see that she has 3 children by 3 different men (sadly one being my husband) I realize that she is less then me. I have never cheated, my only child is with my husband and she is more beautiful then his other child because she was created out of love not lust (I do feel sorry for the OC because of this though).

HurtButHopeful? posted 7/24/2013 21:38 PM

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Brokenuma posted 7/25/2013 09:49 AM

Thank you so much for this post. I needed this so much today. I am a new found out and absolutely reeling from the pain and shock. My first husband was a serial cheater and we divorced many years ago. I thought I had found a good egg but sadly he has fallen to the OW looking to build his self esteem after 16 years. He swears she did not know he was married and feels bad he deceived us both. He was the lion and we were the innocent prey he said. I think it is much different than that, but time will tell. She was his massage therapist and we were both registered in their system. So I feel she knew exactly what she was doing and went in for the weak one as you said. Thank you for giving me the strength today to see I am not at the back of the pack. I am in front and will only grow stronger as time goes on.

Jannarae posted 7/25/2013 10:16 AM

This is just an awesome post!! Put a huge smile on my face and I think it will stay there the rest of the day!!

ILY7079 posted 7/25/2013 10:34 AM

deathbybetrayal, I feel as if you wrote this for Me. Thank You Very Much. It lifted my spirits a bit.

feelingfoolish posted 7/25/2013 11:47 AM

Thank you. I really needed to read this today.

dargirl posted 7/25/2013 11:49 AM

why is it that I NEED to know all the details.. I search and search.. I feel consumed with it.. I feel sad, numb, hollow, help me

hellandback posted 7/25/2013 11:52 AM

OMG..Did I need this..soooo true and something I never thought of..Thanks

daisychains posted 7/25/2013 12:32 PM

Two ow's in my case - both knew he was married - both had alcoholic ex husbands that cheated on them - nuff said.

DOmomma09 posted 7/25/2013 12:42 PM

Ah, I really needed this right now. Hard to have insight and perspective from where I'm standing.

Jewlz posted 7/25/2013 12:49 PM

My WH definitely did!

Phoenix9572 posted 7/25/2013 13:13 PM

What an empowering post! Thank you for the insight and positive perspective on what happened. I will definitely need to revisit as I work through these emotions.

kickboxer posted 7/25/2013 23:04 PM

Yup.

What she said.

hard_yards posted 8/6/2013 03:42 AM

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stupidgirlme posted 8/6/2013 12:48 PM

This is absolutely perfect!!!!

scans the herd for the easiest to kill.

I'm so glad I had just swallowed my last sip of coffee, or I would be mopping it off the monitor right now. I'm still laughing! Your analogy has definitely made my day! Thank you!

krazy8516 posted 8/6/2013 12:55 PM

Great words. Thanks to whoever moved this up so I could read it.

Cliffhanger101 posted 8/8/2013 08:59 AM

It's nice to laugh! Love this.

Nicnac posted 8/8/2013 12:13 PM

Thank you.

I think today I finally came out of the shock and was hit with reality. I really needed something like this. I am printing it and reading it everyday!

Ammare888 posted 8/8/2013 12:24 PM

I'm glad this got bumped. I really needed it today. It's so true.

DancinOnThinIce posted 8/10/2013 22:13 PM

Bump again.

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