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User Topic: Honey, they always affair down
thecosmogirl
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Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The original post on this thread just made me smile :)


Me: BS
Him: doesn't matter anymore...or does it...

Being very, very careful

D-day 14 June 2013


I'm smart, good looking and gosh darn it, people like me!


Posts: 155 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: trying to figure it out
byHisGrace
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Default  Posted: 11:21 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I needed this. I found the OW on Facebook and I feel like she's prettier and she is definitely thinner. But when I look at the child support papers and see that she has 3 children by 3 different men (sadly one being my husband) I realize that she is less then me. I have never cheated, my only child is with my husband and she is more beautiful then his other child because she was created out of love not lust (I do feel sorry for the OC because of this though).


Me - 25
FWH (BF at the time of A) - 27
DD - 10 weeks
His other daughter - 1 1/2

DDay - May 9

"You are strong and brave." - My fortune shortly after DDay, the cookie knew just what to say.


Posts: 19 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Tennessee
HurtButHopeful?
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

Posts: 1716 | Registered: Aug 2009
Brokenuma
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Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you so much for this post. I needed this so much today. I am a new found out and absolutely reeling from the pain and shock. My first husband was a serial cheater and we divorced many years ago. I thought I had found a good egg but sadly he has fallen to the OW looking to build his self esteem after 16 years. He swears she did not know he was married and feels bad he deceived us both. He was the lion and we were the innocent prey he said. I think it is much different than that, but time will tell. She was his massage therapist and we were both registered in their system. So I feel she knew exactly what she was doing and went in for the weak one as you said. Thank you for giving me the strength today to see I am not at the back of the pack. I am in front and will only grow stronger as time goes on.

Posts: 11 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: CA
Jannarae
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Default  Posted: 10:16 AM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is just an awesome post!! Put a huge smile on my face and I think it will stay there the rest of the day!!

Posts: 25 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Colorado
ILY7079
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Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

deathbybetrayal, I feel as if you wrote this for Me. Thank You Very Much. It lifted my spirits a bit.

Posts: 9 | Registered: Jul 2013
feelingfoolish
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Default  Posted: 11:47 AM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you. I really needed to read this today.


me-44y
H-45y M-12 yrs
2 DS-21,15

06.30.12-- full PA with 24y ho-worker
08.16.12 DDay #2-are you f**king kidding me?
R-??? trying
07.21.13-Dday #3-filed for divorce the next day
R #2-hopeful but cautious.


Posts: 524 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: emerald city, oz
dargirl
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Default  Posted: 11:49 AM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

why is it that I NEED to know all the details.. I search and search.. I feel consumed with it.. I feel sad, numb, hollow, help me

Posts: 26 | Registered: Jul 2013
hellandback
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Default  Posted: 11:52 AM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG..Did I need this..soooo true and something I never thought of..Thanks

Posts: 4 | Registered: Jul 2013
daisychains
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Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Two ow's in my case - both knew he was married - both had alcoholic ex husbands that cheated on them - nuff said.


LTA 3.5 years

Posts: 83 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: uk
DOmomma09
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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ah, I really needed this right now. Hard to have insight and perspective from where I'm standing.

Posts: 53 | Registered: Jul 2013
Jewlz
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH definitely did!


Me = BW, 35
Him = WH, 39
Married 13 years
4 children, 14, 10, 9, 1 yr old
DD = April 14, 2013
Left me for OW (x friend in same town with 4 children)
July 2013 - WH wants to R
December 2013 - in R? limbo?

Posts: 116 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: New Jersey
Phoenix9572
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Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What an empowering post! Thank you for the insight and positive perspective on what happened. I will definitely need to revisit as I work through these emotions.


Me - 40
WH - 42
Married 18 years
kids - 14, 12
DD - May 13, 2013
DD2 - Aug 4, 2013
DD3 - Aug 27, 2013
Status - Legally separated; really wanted R but don't think that is possible anymore

Posts: 103 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Southern Indiana
kickboxer
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Default  Posted: 11:04 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yup.

What she said.


BW - 42 (Me)
WH - 39 (2 ONS, 6m EA)
Married 13 years, 3 children
DD: 7/13/13
Status: Rugsweeping, I guess.

Posts: 248 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Somewhere Out There
hard_yards
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Default  Posted: 3:42 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump



I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

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stupidgirlme
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is absolutely perfect!!!!

scans the herd for the easiest to kill.

I'm so glad I had just swallowed my last sip of coffee, or I would be mopping it off the monitor right now. I'm still laughing! Your analogy has definitely made my day! Thank you!


~~I love listening to lies when I know the truth~~

Posts: 47 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Florida
krazy8516
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great words. Thanks to whoever moved this up so I could read it.


me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day

married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m

"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."


Posts: 368 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas
Cliffhanger101
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Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's nice to laugh! Love this.

Posts: 10 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: CliffHanger101
Nicnac
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you.

I think today I finally came out of the shock and was hit with reality. I really needed something like this. I am printing it and reading it everyday!


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Ammare888
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Default  Posted: 12:24 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad this got bumped. I really needed it today. It's so true.

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