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User Topic: How much does my BS hurt? ...
Neznayou
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Member # 40654
Default  Posted: 12:38 AM, November 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Duh... Thanks, Aubrie.


Me: WW
Caught at AP's house: 10 Aug 2012
Admitted PA: 12 Aug 2012
TT ended: Jan 2014

"Power, Lincoln, real power comes not from hate, but from truth."


Posts: 294 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: America to Europe
pizzalover
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Member # 38336
Default  Posted: 12:09 PM, November 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This post was tremendously helpful. Thanks for the bump.


Trying to rebuild each day

Me - WW 39
Him - BH 39 (mpb1974)
2 Furrbabies - sweet cats

Met - 8/13/99
Started dating - 9/11/99
Moved in together - 3/03
Engaged - 6/5/09
Married - 8/21/10
D-Day - 1/24/13
Affair started 5/09


Posts: 473 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: PA
Unagie
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Member # 37091
Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for Elasticman.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


Posts: 2756 | Registered: Oct 2012
Aubrie
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Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, January 13th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for newbies


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6259 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Aubrie
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Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for EMO


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6259 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Aubrie
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Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Rescuing from the last page before it drops off.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6259 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Aubrie
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Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, May 3rd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6259 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
SandAway
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Member # 37775
Default  Posted: 7:43 AM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


fWW
BH Tred
M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


Posts: 437 | Registered: Dec 2012
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 10:50 PM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
ďI have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.Ē
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2872 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
roseglasses
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Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, May 31st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Amen

Posts: 7 | Registered: May 2014
Wayflost
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Member # 41583
Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, June 6th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me: WW
Him: BH (totalheartbreak)
Both: 30s

Appalled by my actions, and the choice to set off several atomic bombs in my life.


Posts: 399 | Registered: Dec 2013
Aubrie
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Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, June 22nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for Lovemywife.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6259 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Katz13
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Member # 41886
Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, June 27th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is great. Still feel like this 6 months out with a very remorseful WH.

Posts: 84 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: USA
meplusfour
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Member # 38958
Sad  Posted: 11:41 PM, June 29th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Needed this today


BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."

Posts: 369 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
BrokenButTrying
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Member # 42111
Default  Posted: 2:12 AM, June 30th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

T/J

Where has Hufi gone?

End t/j


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - 01/10 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1235 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
HUFI-PUFI
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Member # 25460
Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HUFI is more of a lurker right now ... I decided some months ago that I needed to take a break from SI and concentrate on work.

While my affair was not work related, I think its fair to say that the initial distraction of the affair and then the consequences of being caught ultimately cost me the job that I was holding in 2009. In fact, I think it can be argued that the subsequent job after that was also a casualty of the affair insofar as my focus was on self-healing instead of work performance.

So, here I am, lurking and reading and very seldom posting.

HUFI

Stilllovinghim - You have got to work every single day on yourself and on your M if you want this to survive. This is the most important thing in your life. This is the air in your lungs. Don't squander it.


Donít listen to your head, itís easily confused. Donít listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

Posts: 3266 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario
BrokenButTrying
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Member # 42111
Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad you're ok and haven't disappeared completely.


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - 01/10 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1235 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
lovemywife4ever
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Member # 42834
Default  Posted: 7:43 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for this.


Me-WS
Her-BS (deena04)
Upper 30s and kids at home (hers/mine/ours)
Cheater-me 2.5 years into relationship, 2 months before engagement, 1.5 year before M...this is not an excuse but a timeline of our life

Posts: 161 | Registered: Mar 2014
BaxtersBFF
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Member # 26859
Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
lostcovenants
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Member # 40637
Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, July 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope my WS will read this thread. We lost our first grand child in stillbirth. That was, then, the worst pain of my life. I have the faith that I will see her in the next life.

But, this, - 14 YEARS of cheating - how can I survive this? He thinks he "gets it" now. I would think no one could ever "get" the pain that would cause someone to consider suicide, many times over the past 12 month of hell.


BS 60; fWH 59; 2 children, 1 grandchild; Married 37+ years, he is my only; D-day 7/8/13; Married OW, PA 2009-2011; sexting with same MOW 2012-2013. Broke it off about a week before I found out.

Update-Sexting on cheating forums 14 YEARS. Idiot me


Posts: 162 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: USA
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