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Neznayou
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Member # 40654
Default  Posted: 12:38 AM, November 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Duh... Thanks, Aubrie.


The consequences of telling the truth are that one becomes trustworthy... not all that other shit I worried about.

Me: luckiest FWW ever
Him: strong and loving BS
A: 58 days
DDay: 8/10/2012
Married 19 yrs, shooting for 40+


Posts: 106 | Registered: Sep 2013
pizzalover
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Member # 38336
Default  Posted: 12:09 PM, November 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This post was tremendously helpful. Thanks for the bump.


Repulsed daily by my actions

Me - WW 39
Him - BH 39 (mpb1974)
2 Furrbabies - the sweetest cats you could ever meet!

Met - 8/13/99
Started dating - 9/11/99
Moved in together - 3/03
Engaged - 6/5/09
Married - 8/21/10
DD - 1/24/13


Posts: 321 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: PA
Unagie
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Member # 37091
Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for Elasticman.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


Posts: 2622 | Registered: Oct 2012
Aubrie
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Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, January 13th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for newbies


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6041 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Aubrie
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Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for EMO


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6041 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Aubrie
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Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Rescuing from the last page before it drops off.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6041 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Aubrie
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Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, May 3rd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6041 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
SandAway
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Member # 37775
Default  Posted: 7:43 AM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


fWW
BH Tred
M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


Posts: 431 | Registered: Dec 2012
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 10:50 PM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
ďI have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.Ē
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2534 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
roseglasses
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Member # 43537
Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, May 31st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Amen

Posts: 7 | Registered: May 2014
Wayflost
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Member # 41583
Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, June 6th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me: WW
Him: BH (totalheartbreak)
Both: 30s
Learning to love myself.
"A successful relationship requires falling in love many times,
always with the same person."
ó Mignon McLaughlin

Posts: 357 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Southwest US
Aubrie
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Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, June 22nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for Lovemywife.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6041 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Katz13
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Member # 41886
Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, June 27th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is great. Still feel like this 6 months out with a very remorseful WH.

Posts: 83 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: USA
meplusfour
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Member # 38958
Sad  Posted: 11:41 PM, June 29th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Needed this today


BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."

Posts: 348 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
BrokenButTrying
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Member # 42111
Default  Posted: 2:12 AM, June 30th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

T/J

Where has Hufi gone?

End t/j


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - 01/10 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1140 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
HUFI-PUFI
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Member # 25460
Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HUFI is more of a lurker right now ... I decided some months ago that I needed to take a break from SI and concentrate on work.

While my affair was not work related, I think its fair to say that the initial distraction of the affair and then the consequences of being caught ultimately cost me the job that I was holding in 2009. In fact, I think it can be argued that the subsequent job after that was also a casualty of the affair insofar as my focus was on self-healing instead of work performance.

So, here I am, lurking and reading and very seldom posting.

HUFI

Stilllovinghim - You have got to work every single day on yourself and on your M if you want this to survive. This is the most important thing in your life. This is the air in your lungs. Don't squander it.


Donít listen to your head, itís easily confused. Donít listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

Posts: 3226 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario
BrokenButTrying
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Member # 42111
Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad you're ok and haven't disappeared completely.


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - 01/10 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1140 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
lovemywife4ever
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Member # 42834
Default  Posted: 7:43 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for this.


Me-WS
Her-BS (deena04)
Upper 30s and kids at home (hers/mine/ours)

Posts: 42 | Registered: Mar 2014
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