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User Topic: Support Through Prayer- Part 2
Maia
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Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, August 31st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Father thank you, thank you for these dear souls who are seeking life and redemption and compassion and strength. Thank you for this place where You move in your love to help them. Thank you for each family and thank you for the work you are already doing to heal.

Lord I lift up each member right now and ask for your healing love and grace to pour out like a flood.

amen


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
justjul
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Member # 36383
Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, September 2nd (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dear Lord. Please help.


DDay: 6 August 2012
Me: BS (30s)
Him: WH (30s)
Together 2001; Married 2009
No children

Posts: 151 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: On the other side of the world (most likely)
nealos
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Member # 35284
Default  Posted: 12:23 AM, September 3rd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

God-- relieve me of the bondage of self, so that I may better do thy will. Please guide me from this feeling of uselessness.


31yo WS-SA

“When we disclose the thought and intents of our hearts in surrender, we identify with one another at depth.”


Posts: 258 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: 5280'
lost2012
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Member # 35325
Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, September 9th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers to all of you on here! I like to pray that your spouses "get struck by lightning" and they realize what they are losing. Can I ask for lots of prayers too? Dday for me was about 6 months ago. He has seen an IC for about a month. He moved out two months ago.He will not go to MC with me. He says he will work on himself. It's my fault he got validation from her, and if he's just a friend in his head, what is wrong with that? You can read my profile, but basically they took our kids out on weekends when I work 12 hours as a nurse, and he called her every day. I'm going out of town for a week and he wants to file for D when I get back. My only hope is that I went to a new counselor this week who suggested that I have him come in and talk to my counselor about how awful I am and how to fix me, and hopefully he can be convinced that it took two. Cuz I'm a crazy nag and I dont let things go and I certainly wont let this go.so it's all my fault.So I know anything can be accomplished through Christ, or Christ just has different plans for me and my children.


Dday- March 1, 2012
M 17 years
EA? 4 years
2 boys ages 10 and 12
Divorced- 12/17/2012

Posts: 96 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Illinois
justjul
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Member # 36383
Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, September 10th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Father, allow nealos to feel Your presence, Your compassion and love. Fill nealos with Your wisdom and guidance.

Father, I pray for lost2012 that you lead her according to Your will, that you fill her with comfort and strength and wisdom. Watch over her children and keep them safe and protected. I also pray for her WH, that You open his heart to the truth of his actions and help him face them.

Amen.

--

Can I request prayers too. I'm sort of falling apart anew, worse perhaps than DDay. Long, horrendous panic attacks. Fear of everything that's paralyzingly me.. A WH who's so extremely foggy who's still seeing / talking to OW.. "just friends" but "just friends" don't have fantasies about being married! My heart hurts..figuratively AND literally. I'm lost

[This message edited by justjul at 12:51 PM, September 10th (Monday)]


DDay: 6 August 2012
Me: BS (30s)
Him: WH (30s)
Together 2001; Married 2009
No children

Posts: 151 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: On the other side of the world (most likely)
justjul
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Member # 36383
Default  Posted: 4:31 PM, September 15th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I keep getting shattered over and over again. I feel so alone, so lost..


DDay: 6 August 2012
Me: BS (30s)
Him: WH (30s)
Together 2001; Married 2009
No children

Posts: 151 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: On the other side of the world (most likely)
crushed again
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Member # 26138
Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, September 15th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending up immediate prayers to Father God for everyone on here. Our God is Soveriegn and YES, He cares.


"Don't you worry your pretty little mind because people throw rocks at things that shine!"
~I guess living in limbo is my "new normal"- stinks!~

Posts: 713 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: Dreaming of a far better place!
nealos
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Member # 35284
Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, September 18th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

God, thank you for the insights you've revealed to me these past few weeks. Thank you for the healthy relationships you've opened up in my life. Thank you for not giving up me when I gave up on you.

Please grant me courage to change the things about myself that I can change-- help to swiftly understand your will for me. Soften me to your love... help me find you within.


31yo WS-SA

“When we disclose the thought and intents of our hearts in surrender, we identify with one another at depth.”


Posts: 258 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: 5280'
ShellyBean2012
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Member # 36268
Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, September 19th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please pray that I will get a full-time job soon. If I don't find FT work soon, I don't know what I'll do.

I'm so scared.


Me: BW (44 yo then); Him: WH (46 yo); No kids
DDay: 6-15-12
M 13.5 yrs; T 14 yrs (at the time)

Onward!


Posts: 225 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: the South
justjul
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, September 19th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, Father, for sending me messengers to remind me that, yes, You are with me and I am not alone. I needed and continue to need that.

Continue, Lord, to guide nealos, to show him Your will. Let him know Your presence and ever powerful, constant love for him.

Comfort ShellyBean, Father, in this time of uncertainty, because even though we don't know what will happen, You do. You know our needs and You will always, always provide. Open doors of opportunity for her so that she may find a fulltime job, Lord. Bring her into a place where she will not only be a blessing, but receive blessings as well.

Amen.


DDay: 6 August 2012
Me: BS (30s)
Him: WH (30s)
Together 2001; Married 2009
No children

Posts: 151 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: On the other side of the world (most likely)
ShellyBean2012
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Member # 36268
Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, September 19th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, Justjul.

Father, I ask that you give us all what we need right when we need it most: your comfort, your forgiveness, your strength, and your protection.

Help me be a blessing to another.


Me: BW (44 yo then); Him: WH (46 yo); No kids
DDay: 6-15-12
M 13.5 yrs; T 14 yrs (at the time)

Onward!


Posts: 225 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: the South
ptsdrecon
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Member # 36031
Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, September 20th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I pray and pray for God to keep his hand on me. Please add me and my wife and family to your prayers.

I have been in IC since right before DD, and it is helping me to get out a lot of pain and my emotions are all over the map. (Crying, sobbing, laughing, laughing and sobbing at the same time...) I finally said it out loud... She broke my heart. As most of you know, the pain is excruciating. Lord, bless me indeed...

Please pray for my wife. She is struggling and just started IC. She is trying to focus on herself and is facing difficult things. When I broke down last night she said, "Would it be easier for you if I leave?" Not easy for me to hear, but her pain and fear hurt me and add uncertainty...

The OM was supposed to be our friend. That adds to both our hurts... We are not joining intimately either, so please pray for us to be bound together as God intends and when he intends it.

I pray for strength, compassion and Grace for us both... Please lift us up!


Me BH (48)
Her FWW (39 + 1/2)
Married 12+
2 Angels 8 10
D-Day Feb 1 2012
6 month EA PA

Posts: 159 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: USA
justjul
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Member # 36383
Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, September 23rd (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending a prayer up for everyone here, for continued strength and comfort, for discernment and wisdom, for forgiveness and love.


Would like to add my prayer request for a job, too.


DDay: 6 August 2012
Me: BS (30s)
Him: WH (30s)
Together 2001; Married 2009
No children

Posts: 151 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: On the other side of the world (most likely)
windows
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Member # 14054
Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, September 24th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dear God,
Please help me find our cat. And please tell him I am sorry I made him move....:(. Please keep him safe...Me

Posts: 398 | Registered: Mar 2007
justjul
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Member # 36383
Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, September 29th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Windows, did you find your cat? *hugs*


I'm lost again. I'm feeling numb...Had been hoping for some sign... And instead got the opposite. I know it is not to be my will... But I'm feeling lost...I don't know where to go from here.


DDay: 6 August 2012
Me: BS (30s)
Him: WH (30s)
Together 2001; Married 2009
No children

Posts: 151 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: On the other side of the world (most likely)
justjul
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Member # 36383
Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, October 3rd (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The pain is too much, Lord. It's too much.


DDay: 6 August 2012
Me: BS (30s)
Him: WH (30s)
Together 2001; Married 2009
No children

Posts: 151 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: On the other side of the world (most likely)
ShellyBean2012
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Member # 36268
Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, October 7th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dear Lord,

Please comfort justjul. Let her rest in the palm of your hand and feel your strength during this rough time.

Lord, please strengthen all of us suffering during our difficult situations. Let us know that you are with us and holding us up as we move forward in our lives.

And please please send me a job with healthcare soon so I can support myself.

I ask for all these things in Jesus' name. Amen.


Me: BW (44 yo then); Him: WH (46 yo); No kids
DDay: 6-15-12
M 13.5 yrs; T 14 yrs (at the time)

Onward!


Posts: 225 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: the South
DontTreadOnMe
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Member # 35240
Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, October 11th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm writing here to request prayer. My wife and I are madhatters. Her DDay was very recent. I'm praying that she is able to heal, and finds forgiveness some day. I'm also praying for help in my recovery from addiction. Thanks fellow SIers.


Me: WH/BH, 27 (addict in recovery)
Her: Lost333, BW/FWW, My DDay: 2/19/12, Hers: 9/29/12

Working on myself through IC, NA meetings, intensive outpatient program, and lots of digging. Praying for R.


Posts: 230 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Midwest
nealos
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Member # 35284
Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, November 13th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

god please help me to be patient-- please hep me to trust in your will


31yo WS-SA

“When we disclose the thought and intents of our hearts in surrender, we identify with one another at depth.”


Posts: 258 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: 5280'
nealos
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Member # 35284
Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, November 17th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm scared, God. I want to surrender my will to you-- please grant me the strength and courage to do that. Please protect and care for J.


31yo WS-SA

“When we disclose the thought and intents of our hearts in surrender, we identify with one another at depth.”


Posts: 258 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: 5280'
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