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User Topic: Support Through Prayer- Part 2
girlsbird
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Default  Posted: 10:44 PM, April 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Amen


D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: arizona
heartbroken0903
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, May 19th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to people of good will.

We praise You, we bless You, we adore You, we glorify You. We give you thanks for Your great glory.

Lord God, Heavenly King, O God, Almighty Father.

Lord Jesus Christ, Only Begotten Son. Lord God, Lamb of God, Son of the Father. You take away the sins of the world, have mercy on us. You take away the sins of the world, receive our prayer. You are seated at the right hand of the Father, have mercy on us.

For You alone are the Holy One, You alone are the Lord. You alone are the Most High, Jesus Christ. With the Holy Spirit, in the glory of God the Father.

Amen.

[This message edited by heartbroken0903 at 8:05 PM, May 19th (Sunday)]


Me: WS, 30s
XH: BS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

Reconciled after divorce

"Someday you'll look back on all these days
And all this pain is gonna be invisible." - Hunter Hayes, "Invisible"


Posts: 2091 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
Cyzygy
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am asking for prayers that the Holy Spirit touch my WH's heart.

Thank you so much.


Me: 37, BS
Him: 39, WH
Married: 6 years, together for 9 years
2 boys, ages 3 & 4, he has a 15yo we never see
DDay: 5/21/13 (OW is a coworker at Walmart...he quit on Dday.)

Posts: 25 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Columbus, OH
Ostrich80
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Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 4:02 AM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi, I'm new to this thread but not SI.
A little background.
Almost 4yrs ago confirmed DD. Suspected for 3yrs I knew ow. I'm pretty sure its PA but since I only found hundreds of texts between them on phone bill, he only admitted to that. 2yrs later I found he's still having daily contact, it never stopped.
Something.is wrong with me because I can't discuss this with him. I'm pretending I don't know. I'm not afraid of him, I just can't go it. I'm watching him spiral into a severe porn addiction now on top of the A. He's looking at hook up sites.I don't know if he's meeting ppl or just looking. I'm watching all this but can't confront him. I know he's going to be embarrassed and ashamed andits really hard for me to see that in anybody. We used to go to church, very involved. He stopped going before A started. I feel like he's going down in flames and I'm just standing there with nothing coming out.of my mouth.
Please pray for me to snap into reality and bring this into the light and out of the dark. I need to find my voice. Please pray for my family because I don't know what's going yo happen to.us. thank you


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 4901 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers sent.

I found my voice by having faith.


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2560 | Registered: Aug 2012
jk5366
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Member # 39140
Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please pray formula mom, who has a biopsy on the 16th of August. There are crystals in her breast. Wtf. I also found out today that my cohort in crime, she plays bells with me in church, is with hospice now. Her cancer is winning. One more, and I don't want to sound selfish, But pray for my h and I. That We make it through this ea mess. Give me strength to push through.
Thank you.


This sucks.

Posts: 30 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: MI
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 1:52 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you Chico. It's weird because I do believe and have faith but I sometimes feel like maybe its not my turn yet..idk I've seen the power of prayer but this sich just isn't moving. Maybe Gods waiting for me to.make a move. The thought of bringing this subject up absolutely freezes me. No words will come out.of my mouth. Thanks again


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 4901 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
ifinallyfoundme
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Default  Posted: 4:54 AM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just wanted to bump this thread and say GOD does hear our prayers. He has given me all that I needed.

Posts: 180 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: United States
HurtButHopeful?
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Default  Posted: 11:58 PM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think I am addicted to the adrenalin I get from reading the terrible stories at SI. It has been 4 years since H's A and 1 1/2 years since Dday2 over porn. He has quit porn, and is transparent about the A.

I think that reading SI is not helping me anymore, but hindering my progress...but I can't stop! Please pray I can quit, and get my endorphins back in order, so I can begin working on changing myself for the better.


Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

Posts: 1716 | Registered: Aug 2009
stillstruggle
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Default  Posted: 3:49 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Needing prayer from many sources right now. Been struggling w/my H's recent OEA w/my long-time BFF. I am deeply hurt and betrayed. I no longer want to loathe and blame myself for what happened and pray for RR in our M and not D. I have been having terrible nightmares about being attacked by demons and growling @ myself in the mirror. Please pray that the Lord gives me peace as he fights these battles for me and patience for my H to turn himself around bcuz he is good and He is good and w/prayer my H can change to become the man I so desire him to be: strong, humble, kind and faithful.

Posts: 4 | Registered: Aug 2013
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 4:41 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for all of us!!!


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2560 | Registered: Aug 2012
mixedintherut
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Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for all.

When I first found this point, it disappointed me, that it is so slow. Perhaps I was hoping for more of a religion based thread as opposed to just a prayer thread.

Though I truly believe in the power of prayer, and will be praying for everyone!

Please pray for R for our family. The thought of D and ripping our family apart, is the hardest part in all of this!


DD 1: PA 12/4/09 He spent 2.5 years with OW1
R: 8/31/2012
DD 2: EA 8/16/13
BS: 26
WH: 25
1 young daughter.
Terribly disgusted. He refuses to give up his "friend". Headed towards D.

Posts: 136 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: kentucky
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, September 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers sent mixedintherut. For you and for all of us.


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2560 | Registered: Aug 2012
LonelyBird461
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Default  Posted: 3:27 AM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would like to ask for prayer as I know that only God can reach in to WS heart and melt the stone in there. Only He can covict her of the wrong she has done and open her eyes to truth because she is so wrapped up with the father of lies right now. I would truly appreciate prayer for:

1. My precious children that God would shield their hearts from this hurt and pain and thhat he would show them mercy by drawing near to them.

2. That He would give me strength to seek and follow His will in all that is to come from this day forward. That He would grant me wisdom in how to act and what to say and when.

3. That he would pierce my WW heart and break down her pride that she might be able to admit she was wrong, is wrong and that she is at least willing to try for R.

If you have time, please also pray that I would receive a positive response from the letter I sent her.

Thank you so much! I know there is incredible power in prayer and I intend to lift each of you up as well. May God strengthen each of us, BS and WS alike, to live a life worthy of the calling we have received. We are all sinners and are in need of His abundant grace and mercy.


Posts: 14 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: LonelyBird461
looking forward
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Default  Posted: 6:32 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For those who have struggled with maintaining sobriety I pray for you.
I pray that this journey continues as long as you breathe life. You can do it
with God's Grace and Love.


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 2839 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 4:56 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers sent (((lonelybird461)))

(((Looking forward))) I say that same prayer multiple times a day, everyday along with thousands of other people. Thank you!!!


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2560 | Registered: Aug 2012
morethantrying
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Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am 8 months out but could use prayers. He had two/three affairs and I understand all the "reasons" and I "forgive" him but I struggle with "loving' him again...he is doing everything right...why cant't I feel love for his efforts, why do I struggle still after 8 months..God, help me to see the good he is doing and love him afresh. Married 31 years.


Affairs - hard on us both - but love will win.
Me: BS 55
Him: WS 62
Married 32 yrs.
dday TT from 12/2012-2/2013)...

Posts: 278 | Registered: Sep 2013
SurelyNOT
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Default  Posted: 4:17 AM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cannot sleep and I am struggling. This weekend is Thanksgiving (Canada) and my WH is coming by and gathering his stuff to officially move in with his ap. He works outta town a lot and will be leaving again on Tuesday morning for another out-of-town stint until mid December. So although he is moving in with her, he won't actually be living with her, because his job is some 4000 miles away. The majority of their relationship is done by text/telephone.
At any rate, I still love him and I want him back, and I am absolutely distraught, how can I pick up the pieces of my shattered life and be a good Mom to our two daughters?
He has discarded us and is not in touch, he has no photos, and has requested none. All is lost, I'm afraid.
I pray regularly myself, but at this moment in time, I really could use others' good intentions.
Please pray for my two daughters, that they can be strong and get through this somewhat unscathed, and be happy. If possible, can someone up above shine a beacon that will illuminate the way for me, I feel so lost and alone.
Prayers to all that need them, and strength to bear this terrible burden. May God Bless us All.

Posts: 95 | Registered: Sep 2013
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 4:27 AM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((SurelyNOT)))
Prayers sent for you and your family.

And for all of us!!!


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2560 | Registered: Aug 2012
strongerdaybyday
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Default  Posted: 5:50 AM, October 24th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((surelynot)) I'm a little late! But I've included u in my prayers. Prayers, strength, guidance and wisdom to all here as well


Me-BW Him - WH
Married 6 years, together 13+ years
D-Day Summer 2013
children-3
If it is what it is then what is it?

**If I edit I'm correcting a typo!**


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