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User Topic: Support Through Prayer- Part 2
emotiona hell
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Default  Posted: 5:46 AM, September 28th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I go for another pap test next week.
There was possible cancer cells on the first.I know you can have a false- positive.And there may be no need to worry.I believe I should start with prayer first, so please pray that everything is ok.



Me BS 41
WH 43
DS 12 DD 21
Married 23 years
DDay 6/26/10
Filed for divorce 11/23/11

Posts: 218 | Registered: Apr 2011
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, September 28th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My IC (a Christian, like me - or at least like I was six months ago...hard to say now) wants me to pray for the strength to pray for my STBXH. I'm not sure I even have that in me.

I need prayers for strength, healing, and faith.

I'm in a very broken/angry place and having trouble accepting that I still need the Lord in my life.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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shocked4
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Default  Posted: 9:29 AM, September 29th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so glad I found this post. It feels like faith is the only thing that will get me through this. My prayers are with you all.


D-Day August 17, 2011
M-23 years
4 children ages 10-23

Posts: 136 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Ohio
Laura28
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Default  Posted: 12:41 AM, October 13th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi

I'm bumping this thread for a devout friend who needs a lot of help. I have told him about SI and hope he joins the forum soon.

Hugs

Laura


Married 32yrs Me BW 57Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

Posts: 2748 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
bellamaxjoy
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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, October 20th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

so glad to have found this thread! One of the things that has made it bearable for me is prayer. If I did not have the Lord to lean on, I would be so lost.
Amazonia, I am praying that you remember that God says He will NEVER leave you or forsake you.
Please pray for my husband to continue to be convicted of his wrong doing, and that he is open and honest during this reconciliation time. Please pray that I only respond to him in the way God wants me to. Pray for physical healing as well

Posts: 31 | Registered: Jul 2011
npain
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, October 20th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I pray daily with one of the ministers fom my church and it's really helping me to get through this rough time. My WH is totally remorseful/unrepentful and I'm parying for God to break him and take the scales off his eyes so he can see what he has done to me, his children and all those involved (he cheated for 4 yrs with another woman in our church so her family is badly affected too). He is still blameshifting and acting like he is the victim and everyone else needs to change. May God have mercy on his soul.


S,beginning D

Posts: 508 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: New York
rcantbleveit
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Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, October 29th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I continue to pray for everyone that has been through this nightmare.

I pray that reconciliation and restoration happens for every marriage.

I pray for the WS to realize what they have done to their spouses and families.

I pray that the BS can forgive and continue loving.

I pray that if none of the above happens, that God will hold us closer & heal us in order that we may love and be loved again.

So far, God has answered so many of my prayers, it's been freaky. The one prayer he hasn't answered is bringing WS home.

I heard that God is not going to give you something that is not good for you so I pray that he change WS heart and shows him how to come home again.


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jjct
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Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, December 22nd (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all of us today.
Lord grant us strength through these times.
Praying for woundedby2 and her little ones and dad.
Her mother passed away this morning.
Lord lift us, give us strength.

Posts: 6581 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Maia
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Default  Posted: 10:14 AM, January 22nd (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for you guys.

Please pray for me and family, that we get through a difficult time. Specifically if you could pray through psalm 91, aloud, on our behalf, that would be a great gift. I am being led to pray aloud through Scriptures, especially in intercession and I think it does make a difference in some way, even if it is just to strengthen our own faith.

__________________


Let us dwell in the secret place of the Most High and remain stable and fixed under the shadow of the Almighty [Whose power no foe can withstand].

Help us to say of You, "He is my Refuge and my Fortress, my God; on Him I lean and rely, and in Him I [confidently] trust!"

Deliver us from the snare of the fowler and from the deadly pestilence.

Cover us with Your pinions. Under Your wings let us trust and find refuge; Your truth and Your faithfulness are a shield and a buckler.

Let us not be afraid of the terror of the night, nor of the arrow (the evil plots and slanders of the wicked) that flies by day,

Nor of the pestilence that stalks in darkness, nor of the destruction and sudden death that surprise and lay waste at noonday.

Even though a thousand may fall at our side, and ten thousand at our right hand, let it not come near us.

You said "Only a spectator shall you be [yourself inaccessible in the secret place of the Most High] as you witness the reward of the wicked."

We believe that and choose to trust you, let us walk in that truth.

We make YOU our refuge, and the Most High our dwelling place,

Let no evil befall us, nor any plague or calamity come near our tent.

Give Your angels [especial] charge over us to accompany and defend and preserve us in all our ways [of obedience and service].

They shall bear us up on their hands, lest we dash our feet against a stone.

Let us tread upon the lion and adder; let us trample the young lion and the serpent underfoot.Guide us in paths of righteousness.

Christ set his love upon the Father, therefore you delivered him; We are in Christ, and now we need your deliverance. Deliver us Father. You have set us on high with Him, let us know and understand Your name [have a personal knowledge of Your mercy, love, and kindness--trust and rely on You, knowing You will never forsake us, no, never]

We call upon You now, answer us quickly for we are distressed; be with us in trouble, deliver us and honor us.

With long life satisfy us and show us Your salvation, your Yeshua. We ask all this in the name of Jesus.

thank you Father. Amen

[This message edited by Maia at 10:43 AM, January 22nd (Sunday)]


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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Maia
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Default  Posted: 6:07 AM, January 23rd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying psalm 91 for us today.

http://www.pray-the-scriptures.com/praypsalm91today/praypsalmtoday91html.html


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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Maia
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Default  Posted: 6:18 AM, January 24th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for you all.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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Maia
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Default  Posted: 9:29 AM, January 25th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for the staff of SI and for our families.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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remindme11411
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Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, January 25th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I need some prayers. Things have gotten really bad on my end.


BSO - Me (24)
WSO- Him (28)
13 month old DS
Status - not sure most days

Posts: 327 | Registered: Aug 2011
Maia
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Default  Posted: 11:12 AM, January 26th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

remind ...adding you to my list.

praying psalm 91 for us again today. If you have need of help, pray it aloud and then when doubt hits you, say aloud the promises of God that you know. or just say... "god is always working"

it is by these spoken acts of faith that we battle spiritually.

if you are struggling today, let this encourage you.


http://youtu.be/ntd18gxdSGk

[This message edited by Maia at 11:32 AM, January 26th (Thursday)]


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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BrokentoPieces10
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Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, January 30th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

May I please ask for prayers that I will have the courage to continue on the journey of self recovery, maintain NC, and that I will some day find peace within myself and be able to cope with the damage that I have done and feel like a human being again...

I also would like to ask for prayers for my BH...that he will also find peace within himself, and to not blame himself in any way for the pain that I have caused him. That he will regain his pride and feel like the man he was before he found out about my selfish choices.

My days are hard as hell to get through, but I can't even imagine how hard it is for him.

I just want him to be happy whether that means we will some day be reunited, or that our paths with continue to go separate ways.

Thank you.


WW: (Me) 20
BH: 20
Married: 10/11/2010
D-Day: 1/19/2012 :(
It was a dealbreaker--divorcing..

"After all this has passed, I still will remain. After I've cried my last, there'll be beauty from pain" -The Superchick


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Maia
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Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, January 31st (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Broken, am praying for you and your H. You must forgive yourself.

Praying for us all. Ps 91.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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Maia
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Default  Posted: 4:57 PM, February 4th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 5:37 PM, February 4th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending love and prayers to my SI friends. My heart has been heavy today for all the heartache here. May we heal and be well.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


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Maia
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Default  Posted: 2:41 PM, February 6th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying through my list for you guys.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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Maia
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Default  Posted: 6:54 AM, February 8th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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