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Red  Posted: 11:43 AM, March 17th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you so much for all the donations... after nearly two years, we are finally ready to move forward with the official SI Auction We apologize for the delay, however life’s many obstacles were thrown our way.

In the coming days, we will be adding more items, so please keep checking back here for updates.

Payment for items can be made either via PayPal or check/money orders. Our address is:

SI.com
395 Sawdust RD., #2164
The Woodlands, Texas 77380-2299

Once payment has been received we will then ship your item to whatever address you provide. The shipping and address information will be part of the private exchange between the member and MH or DS.


  • Each item donated will have its own thread with a description, picture and name of the donor.

  • If members would prefer to bid anonymously, please PM the auctioneer and your bid will be anonymously added to the appropriate thread.

  • The winning bidder will assume the shipping costs and we will ship all items UPS ground unless otherwise specified by the winning bidder. UPS ground automatically insures every package up to $100.00. If you require additional insurance for shipping purposes, please advise us at the time of purchase and we will include that additional cost in the total shipping charges.

[This message edited by MangledHeart at 3:11 PM, July 4th (Sunday)]

[This message edited by MangledHeart at 4:10 PM, July 4th (Sunday)]


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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, July 4th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How long does the bidding last?


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FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

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Posts: 36981 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
Deeply Scared
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Red  Posted: 7:22 PM, July 4th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We will treat each item individually. Once an item no longer (maybe 2 days) has activity, we'll shut down that auction thread and the item will go to the highest bidder.

Also, we are respectfully asking that no one use any of these threads to joke/banter on. They must remain dedicated to the auction only.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Going To Make It
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Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, July 4th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How do we donate items for auction?


BW 47
M 1982 4 Adult Children
2 Grandkids - the light & loves of my life.
LTA Started before we were married and lsted until 9/02 DDay 4/4/04, TT till 9/24/2011

Posts: 948 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Still Wandering in the Desert
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, July 4th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You can send items to our donation box

SI.com
395 Sawdust RD., #2164
The Woodlands, Texas 77380-2299

Also, please make sure to enclose your username, a valued amount and description and whether you would like to have us publicly acknowledge your donation with your username attached.

[This message edited by Deeply Scared at 8:26 PM, July 4th (Sunday)]


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Edie
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Default  Posted: 7:08 AM, July 5th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am going to go search my attic, DS,(because there are some treasures up there) but would I be right in thinking there are so few UK members for it to be not worthwhile for you, if I find anything?

ETA: This might seem a MAD suggestion - and I underline is NOT made as a joke - but it seems to me that so many of us have discarded our wedding rings, there MUST be something we can do with them - donate them to a special SI wedding ring repository? For melting/ selling? Set up a ring exchange as an international bonding exercise between survivors of infidelity?

[This message edited by Edie at 7:15 AM, July 5th (Monday)]


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

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Nurse73
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Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, July 5th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just an idea, but maybe you should list whether an item is new or used.

Some stuff may be obvious (like a gift basket), while others (like a purse) may not.


Me-BS(33)Him-WS(34) Together 15y Married- 7
DDay/CDay weekend 5/31 thru 6/3/07
In R and now a proud Mama to DD
"I know God will not give me anything I cant handle. I just wish He didnt trust me so much." Mother Teresa

Posts: 3226 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: NYC
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, July 5th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nurse...

That is a good idea...I've updated the descriptions to indicate "New" or "used".

As for the art work, I'm going to assume it wasn't taken of someone's wall and sent to us


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, July 5th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Edie...

If you want to donate something that would be wonderful! This is not exclusive to the US

As for the wedding ring idea...if people want to donate them, we'll leave that up to them


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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willowiris
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Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, July 5th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is a good idea...I've updated the descriptions to indicate "New" or "used".

It's not "used." It's "vintage" or "retro" or "neoclassical."

Oh sorry...i wasn't supposed to joke here, but I'm just sayin'.


D-day 09/2004
Filed for divorce 9/2006

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CookiesAZ
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Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, July 5th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WOW!! This an awesome idea. (getting credit card ready)


me FWW-40's
him BS-41
M-8 yrs.(together 10 yrs.)
1 dog (my baby) no children
DDay-7-25-08
Came home after 7 weeks, and in R since-7-28-08.

Posts: 1004 | Registered: Sep 2008 | From: Arizona
Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, July 5th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When an anonymous bid is placed, will the thread be updated with the current bidding amount?


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Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
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Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, July 5th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

RA...

Yes


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, July 5th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If I win something, can I pick it up instead of having it shipped. I'll spring for lunch or dinner if I can


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Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 7:15 PM, July 5th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Absolutely!!!!!!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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TXMommy
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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, July 6th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I make boutique clothing and bows for little girls... just wondering if there would be any interest in them here? I'd love to donate if there is!


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WH - 30
Married 9 years, together 11
2 kids: D8, S2
D-Day: June 10th, 2010
Trudging through R.

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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 9:03 PM, July 6th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When the reserve price is met, will there be a notification?


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, July 6th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

TXMommy...

We would certainly welcome any goods you would like to donate...we have lots of parents on the site

Wifehad5...

We will make sure to update once the reserve price is met


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Defiance
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Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, July 6th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DS, I would be happy to donate another framed print at 11x14 of ANY print I have. (could link to my site for selection).

-D


Success is not measured by what you accomplish but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds.

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 6:58 AM, July 7th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That would be great! Your photo's are very popular!! But please do not link to your site, that would violate that guidelines.

Thank you so much!!

[This message edited by Deeply Scared at 7:22 AM, July 7th (Wednesday)]


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My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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