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User Topic: The Life Boat
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38611 | Registered: Sep 2007
Teach8
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Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, September 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me: BW. Him: WH. Dday: 4/26/12. TT until 8/15/12 LTA 7 years. Trying to R

Posts: 509 | Registered: Aug 2012
SurprisinglyOkay
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Member # 36684
Default  Posted: 6:03 AM, September 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


FWS me 36 (recovering addict)
BS him 39 AFrayedKnot
Together 7 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1140 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
wincings_sparkle
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Member # 27129
Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, October 7th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump :)


"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
- Catherine Ponder
Me-FWW. BH-wincing_at_light

Posts: 1594 | Registered: Jan 2010
BaxtersBFF
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Member # 26859
Default  Posted: 9:54 AM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump.


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6103 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
wincings_sparkle
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Member # 27129
Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, November 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
- Catherine Ponder
Me-FWW. BH-wincing_at_light

Posts: 1594 | Registered: Jan 2010
Unagie
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Member # 37091
Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for Elasticman.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


Posts: 2795 | Registered: Oct 2012
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, January 13th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6412 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Joanh
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Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, January 13th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the bump I just came to to post on the crap that just hit me. I was having a good morning in fact we both were and I went to do my nails and bam, the crap the guilt the sadness the loss the anger all of it just dropped back to the bottom.

I need to post this or tag it in a return to spot or in my journal. To remind myself .

Thank you , I will crawl out of that headspace and tie myself back in. and keep cleaning out the muck and maybe one day I can forgive myself.

Thank you for the bump.


BH 39
WW 43
D day November 9, 2012
3 children 22, 8, 6
Just....

Posts: 437 | Registered: Apr 2013
Sparkle0504
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Member # 40379
Default  Posted: 7:03 AM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me 44 (BS) Him 52 (SAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011

The truth hurts, but nowhere near as much as the lies
"Sounds harsh, but she's my wife and I'm supposed to be there when she's having sex" Sal1995


Posts: 246 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: England
Prayingforhope
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Member # 41801
Default  Posted: 4:56 AM, February 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Big BUMP! I just read this because Hufi-Pufi recommended it and I am so glad I did. I am in this boat and I am bailing out the water with everything I got!!!


WH 41
BS 40
D-Day Oct 28th, 2013
Together 18 years
Three amazing boys 12, 9 & 6
Praying for hope daily

Posts: 260 | Registered: Dec 2013
Shayna71
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Had to post here so I can come back to it any time I want. Will be sharing this with my H as soon as I can.

Wonderfully Written!


Me: BW 46
Him: WH 42
3 month EA and PA w/a mutual friend
DDay 09/20/2013
Married over 20 years
DS 26, DS, 19 DD, 18
Currently in R

Posts: 130 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Indiana
Simple
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Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just read this, awesome analogy!


Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
beautytoashes5
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Default  Posted: 12:10 AM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gave it to my WH to read. He loved it.

Posts: 97 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Southern California
HotMessInTX
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Member # 42417
Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Second time reading this.. one of the posts I read on here that has been the most helpful. Thank you!


DDay: 2/01/14

Posts: 31 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Texas
time2grow
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Member # 35983
Default  Posted: 10:20 AM, February 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good analogy! For those in R, I wish you the best.

Posts: 1721 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Missouri
4everfaithful83
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Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump - I love this post


Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...

ME: 31
WBF: 27
Together 7 years
1 doggie
DDay: June 24, 2013
IN R...


Posts: 565 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Lobo
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Member # 42456
Default  Posted: 5:11 AM, March 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is powerful stuff, thank you.


Imagine a world where the words you speak appear on your skin. Would you be more careful of what you say?

Posts: 32 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Australia
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6412 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
brokeback
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, thank you. :)

Amazing.

[This message edited by brokeback at 2:31 PM, April 24th (Thursday)]


ME 43
BS 38
1 Child 3 years old
Married 18 years
DDay - 10/2013. EA 9 months. PA 4 months. Ended the affair 11/2014



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