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annb
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Default  Posted: 6:48 AM, April 10th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 7662 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
bufffalo
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Member # 21854
Default  Posted: 10:11 AM, April 16th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5881 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, April 18th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1933 | Registered: Nov 2010
isadora
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, April 19th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: BW Him: WH
Married: 12 yrs
2 DDs and DSs all under 10
2 Affairs - 2010 year long PA/EA, 2008 2 month online EA
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.


Posts: 4521 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Back home again in Indiana
kernel
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, April 23rd (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5337 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
socold
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Member # 17400
Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, April 27th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

Posts: 2584 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: in a van down by the river
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, April 29th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, May 7th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5881 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 10:25 PM, May 7th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump again


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, May 9th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5337 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, May 14th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
nooneeverthought
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Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, May 25th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you

Posts: 8493 | Registered: Jul 2008
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 1:18 AM, May 28th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 12:49 AM, June 6th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch


Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
sherran
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Default  Posted: 3:23 AM, June 7th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thank you :)


Karma will kick him in the arse

BS 34
WH 35
together: 13 yrs
M 2 1/2 yrs
DDay 19/5/11
A & OW - not sure how long?? no answers given


Posts: 33 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Australia
ladies_first
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Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, June 11th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us." ~J. Campbell
"In the final analysis, it is your own attitude that will make or break you, not what has happened to you." ~D. Galloway

Posts: 2143 | Registered: Jun 2009
punky
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Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, June 12th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping for cobraadvice and others.


Be a lion, not a mowess...
The Cowardly Lion

Posts: 11295 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: A whole 'nother country
momma3times
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Default  Posted: 9:11 PM, June 12th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for all the newbies!!!


Me: BS (37 yrs.)
Him: FWS (39 yrs.) EA via emails and phone calls that lasted 2-3 months.
Married 13 yrs, together for 19 yrs.
2 DDs (ages 9 and 5), 1 DS (3)
DDay 1/13/2010 (while I was 9 months pregnant!). Confronted him on 3/21/11

Posts: 76 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Southern part of Missouri
Take2
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Default  Posted: 8:40 AM, June 15th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4171 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 10:05 PM, June 15th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

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