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User Topic: Great Posts for Newbies to Read
OnlyLonely
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Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, August 18th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

this thread could really help some of our newer members, so I'm bumping.


Me: BS
Him: FWH
Married: 18 years

Status: In R


Posts: 7555 | Registered: Apr 2007
Feelforgotten
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Member # 32929
Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, August 18th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you

Posts: 122 | Registered: Jul 2011
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 8:19 AM, August 24th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For (((exhaustedmum)))


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1897 | Registered: Nov 2010
Cee64D
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Cool  Posted: 8:10 PM, August 25th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
PositivePrincess
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, August 26th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, this is amazing! So glad you guys bumped this! After reading about the toughest part of infidelity I feel like a warrior woman!


dday - 5/15/2011
"When the Japanese mend broken objects, they aggrandize the damage by filling the cracks with gold. They believe that when something's suffered damage and has a history it becomes more more beautiful. ~Barbara Bloom

Posts: 71 | Registered: Jul 2011
annb
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, September 3rd (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 7515 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:38 AM, September 8th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25259 | Registered: Aug 2011
lordhasaplan?
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Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 9:09 AM, September 9th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1897 | Registered: Nov 2010
4myheart
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Default  Posted: 3:11 PM, September 12th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump

(((((to all the newbies))))


"Have you ever been so lost.... Known the way and still so lost." Katy Perry

Posts: 546 | Registered: Sep 2008 | From: I da ho....... no she da ho!!!
bumbed
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Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, September 13th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for our new friend


I rather suspect like all the worst things in life, making sense of it will not happen.


25 year relationship D day 1/28/11
The we door is closed but the ME doors are opening


Posts: 471 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: a better place in Michiagn
Edie
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, September 19th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 5101 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
Will-I-Ever-Know
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Default  Posted: 12:10 AM, September 22nd (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me BS:21
Him F?WH:23
OW:34!!??
DDay #1 June 2010
Full blown 6 month long PA: OW was his 2nd Girlfriend.
Many DDays & TT for the rest of this year!
In R, Married on June 25th, 2011.

WARNING: I am long-winded. Sorry in advance. :)


Posts: 157 | Registered: Jul 2011
SerJR
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, October 11th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17093 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, October 12th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5822 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
unarmbears
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Default  Posted: 9:41 AM, October 15th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


FBS-Me, 60
FWH-Him, 55
2 Sons 26 and 31
2 Daughters 29, 24 And 4 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

Posts: 4891 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: From where the trees lean east...
unarmbears
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Default  Posted: 8:32 AM, October 22nd (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


FBS-Me, 60
FWH-Him, 55
2 Sons 26 and 31
2 Daughters 29, 24 And 4 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

Posts: 4891 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: From where the trees lean east...
grownapair
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, October 22nd (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad this was bumped as I needed a re-read to kick me in the backside. Again. Should just print it all out and put it somewhere for quick reference. :-)


BS - me, 38, WH - 40
Kidlets 6 and 8
DD1 - I love you but... Jan 2010
DD2 - 5 Jan 2011, booted him out
R attempted April 2011, False R
DD3 - 5 Sept 2011, booted him out again
Dec 2011 - living together as a family
Jan 2014 - separated...AGAIN!

Posts: 162 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: UK
StrgrThanIThght
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, October 29th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just found this. So much helpful information in one place. Thanks for compiling it.


Me - BW (40)
Him - FWH (43) (he has earned the "capital" F)
D-Day - Sept 2011
Us: Working concurrently on ourselves and R

Posts: 391 | Registered: Oct 2011
Take2
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Default  Posted: 7:04 AM, October 31st (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4113 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 2:10 AM, November 1st (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

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