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Topic: Great Posts for Newbies to Read
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ThriveNotSurvive
♀ Member
Member # 22093 |  Posted: 4:39 PM, June 30th (Wednesday), 2010 |     |
Hurting,
Many of these posts have been around for a while, and people have tried to keep them bumped to the front pages. But with our membership growing so quickly and posting so much they can get to the back before you know it! Once it gets to the end of page 25 a post is gone.
Luckily I saved a bunch and as I said they will be added to the Healing Library when our lovely leaders can.
I hope they helped! [This message edited by ThriveNotSurvive at 4:39 PM, June 30th (Wednesday)]
Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, it was inside of me all along - India Arie
Some women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick if we have to...cuz we're flexible that way.
Posts: 1582 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Las Vegas |
AwareNow
♀ Member
Member # 28387 | | Posted: 5:50 PM, June 30th (Wednesday), 2010 | |
Thank you so much for putting these all together! I will copy and past and use for the future.
I don't know much about SerJ. Was she able to repair her marriage? Is she a psychologist? Whatever she is, I'm very impressed!
D-day 12/09 and still stunned.
BW-me-mid 50s
WH-him-early 60s
Eyes wide open now.
Posts: 54 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: CA |
ThriveNotSurvive
♀ Member
Member # 22093 | | Posted: 6:25 PM, June 30th (Wednesday), 2010 | |
SerJR is one of our male members. He did divorce, but I understand he is currently engaged to a wonderful woman and is very happy.
So many of our members who have been here a while and are further along in thier healing stay to help out others. SerJr, just seems to focus a lot of his wisdom on helping those in JFO.
Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, it was inside of me all along - India Arie
Some women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick if we have to...cuz we're flexible that way.
Posts: 1582 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Las Vegas |
Broken10
♀ Member
Member # 27949 | | Posted: 6:41 PM, June 30th (Wednesday), 2010 | |
Thank you, thank you. Just what I needed today!
BW- 30s
WH- 30s
Posts: 115 | Registered: Mar 2010 |
SerJR
♂ Member
Member # 14993 | | Posted: 8:36 PM, June 30th (Wednesday), 2010 | |
Thanks for collecting this Thrive - you rock!! 
AwareNow,
Yes, I did divorce as my exwife continued to date other men after d-day and I told her I would rather make the marriage work - I wasn't going to accept that behaviour continuing. I am engaged to a wonderful woman and we are planning to marry in September.
Unfortunately, things have been rather busy with a career change and I haven't been able to post as much the past few months, but I still do pop in from time to time.
The one thing I can tell you though, is that no matter what - if you can stay true to your principles and keep faith in yourself that you will be okay
Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.
Posts: 16800 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South |
AwareNow
♀ Member
Member # 28387 | | Posted: 9:39 PM, July 3rd (Saturday), 2010 | |
Thank you for replying SerJR! I am honored.
It really seems that you have healed and moved on. Your journey in healing is an inspiration to us all. Thank you for all your hard work in writing your posts and giving hope to others. I'm new here, but I can see how grateful to you everyone here is.
And congratulations on the upcoming wedding! [This message edited by AwareNow at 9:40 PM, July 3rd (Saturday)]
D-day 12/09 and still stunned.
BW-me-mid 50s
WH-him-early 60s
Eyes wide open now.
Posts: 54 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: CA |
Edie
♀ Member
Member # 26133 | | Posted: 3:08 AM, July 6th (Tuesday), 2010 | |
Bumped.
Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 51
FWS 54
Together 27 years; 2 DDs 13 & 10
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.
Posts: 4858 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK |
ThriveNotSurvive
♀ Member
Member # 22093 | | Posted: 9:42 AM, July 6th (Tuesday), 2010 | |
I recently found out that Holly-Isis is the author of the wonderful "BS Bill of Rights" post.
Thank you so much Holly for taking the time to put together such a powerful tool! It's so helpful not only to the newbies, but to those a little farther out that need to be reminded of there rights.
A few of these weren't written by SerJr. If you wrote them or know who did please send me a PM so I can give credit to the author! [This message edited by ThriveNotSurvive at 9:45 AM, July 6th (Tuesday)]
Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, it was inside of me all along - India Arie
Some women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick if we have to...cuz we're flexible that way.
Posts: 1582 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Las Vegas |
ThriveNotSurvive
♀ Member
Member # 22093 | | Posted: 4:21 PM, July 8th (Thursday), 2010 | |
Bump
Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, it was inside of me all along - India Arie
Some women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick if we have to...cuz we're flexible that way.
Posts: 1582 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Las Vegas |
Lotsa
♂ Member
Member # 28078 | | Posted: 2:18 AM, July 11th (Sunday), 2010 | |
Bumpity bump...
Posts: 871 | Registered: Mar 2010 |
socold
♂ Member
Member # 17400 | | Posted: 5:19 PM, July 13th (Tuesday), 2010 | |
NY BUMP
fuggedaboutit
(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010
Posts: 2584 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: in a van down by the river |
ThriveNotSurvive
♀ Member
Member # 22093 | | Posted: 9:46 PM, July 15th (Thursday), 2010 | |
Bump
Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, it was inside of me all along - India Arie
Some women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick if we have to...cuz we're flexible that way.
Posts: 1582 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Las Vegas |
feelingstupid09
♀ Member
Member # 22946 | | Posted: 11:03 PM, July 15th (Thursday), 2010 | |
WOW, thanks so much. These are great. I am not JFO but boy these helped me.
thanks again!
BS: me 50 (not feeling stupid now)
WS: him 48
DDay 2/7/09 gave me most of it, but full
disclosure came 8/30/09 about 15+ years of hookers/strippers/other women.
We are reconciling; we will make it.
Married for 22 years with 2 beautiful children:
Posts: 170 | Registered: Feb 2009 |
ThriveNotSurvive
♀ Member
Member # 22093 | | Posted: 11:31 PM, July 18th (Sunday), 2010 | |
Bump
Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, it was inside of me all along - India Arie
Some women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick if we have to...cuz we're flexible that way.
Posts: 1582 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Las Vegas |
ThriveNotSurvive
♀ Member
Member # 22093 | | Posted: 10:21 PM, July 21st (Wednesday), 2010 | |
Bump
Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, it was inside of me all along - India Arie
Some women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick if we have to...cuz we're flexible that way.
Posts: 1582 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Las Vegas |
ThriveNotSurvive
♀ Member
Member # 22093 | | Posted: 11:58 PM, July 25th (Sunday), 2010 | |
Bump
Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, it was inside of me all along - India Arie
Some women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick if we have to...cuz we're flexible that way.
Posts: 1582 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Las Vegas |
Edie
♀ Member
Member # 26133 | | Posted: 9:07 AM, July 27th (Tuesday), 2010 | |
bump
Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 51
FWS 54
Together 27 years; 2 DDs 13 & 10
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.
Posts: 4858 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK |
sharonons
♀ Member
Member # 24462 | | Posted: 10:40 AM, July 27th (Tuesday), 2010 | |
This is so awesome. Im on my second d day and post quite a bit in the divorce and seperation forum. I kicked him out.BUt this helps my soul heal a little bit. I have posted them to word and read them when i need a boost. thank tou so much.
Posts: 568 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: NY |
SuspiciousWife
♀ Member
Member # 18108 | | Posted: 9:46 PM, July 27th (Tuesday), 2010 | |
another bump, just in case
Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session
Posts: 557 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: East Coast |
ThriveNotSurvive
♀ Member
Member # 22093 | | Posted: 4:44 PM, August 3rd (Tuesday), 2010 | |
Bump
Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, it was inside of me all along - India Arie
Some women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick if we have to...cuz we're flexible that way.
Posts: 1582 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Las Vegas |
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