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Skan
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Default  Posted: 10:01 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4120 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 4661 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1656 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
pmal64
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Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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.:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:.
BS-me-48
fWH -51

Posts: 553 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: down south
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better. Reconciled from the A's but still working hard for a better tomorrow.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2419 | Registered: Aug 2012
HurtButHopeful?
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Default  Posted: 7:08 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for livebythesea


Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

Posts: 1716 | Registered: Aug 2009
Skan
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Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4120 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Pedalguy4800
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Default  Posted: 1:43 AM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me-BS 37
Her-WS 34
D-Day July 21, 2013

Posts: 7 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Ogden, utah
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5782 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 4661 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 4661 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
jjct
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Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

boomp

Posts: 6012 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
fourever
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Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, September 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BUMP! Read this!


In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!


Posts: 847 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Northeast
kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 4661 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Blackhair
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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump!


M: 10 years
DD:5 DS Twin: 8 months
DDay: Earlier 2013, WS has been chatting and flew/met many times with a Philippine girl (20 yrs younger)
Divorcing.... Sep.Agreement finalized on Oct 18
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken hea

Posts: 142 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Canada
Broken6
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump. This should be a self help book. So good to read.


The grass isn't greener on the other side, it is greener where you water it.

Posts: 58 | Registered: Aug 2013
Simple
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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
forlornheart
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Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Must keep and reread daily! Amazing information in here!


Me: 48- BW
Him: 45-WH-chronic cheater, PA and EA
Current Her: Mid to late 30's fatassed, no necked, troglodyte
D Day: August 23, 2013
Separated: August 23, 2013


Posts: 52 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Michigan
Camalus
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Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping because this is a 'must read'.


Me–BS age 60
Her -- WS age 58
Married for 33 years
One child, 30yrs

I changed my username to Camalus...the Celtic God of War, Sky, and Retribution.
Camalus wore the horns for a brief period of time


Posts: 93 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Near Houston Texas
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