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We were lying on the bed chatting and he answered his phone. I wasn't suspicious. I've never been suspicious.
He had a short call , I remember him saying that he didn't know what his plans were and he'd call later. I asked ' who's that'?
He said his friend and they were arranging golf
I said - but that was a woman's voice - was it his GF? ( they are both our friends)
He said no- it was his friend/
I didn't think anymore
I didn't even get a ripple of suspicion .
He got up and left the bedroom
5 minutes later he's back and looking bad.
I know he's done something wrong - I ask him what he's done ( I don't think it's an affair)
I'm so sorry . You were right. It was a woman. I've been having an affair . I don't want to loose you. I'm so sorry.
What are you going to do. Don't leave me. I'll never see her again. I don't want to hurt you. I'm sorry. It's my fault. I'm in the wrong.I want to be with you. I don't like myself. I don't feel good about this.
We went for a long walk. I said he must finish it stat. I said we can try and work it out.
He says trust me . I will never do this again. I ask him why - he says because I can't hurt you again
I don't want to be strong and tell him what to do. I just want him to do it .
I don't want to be posting this here but what can I do with the pain?
I need time to think - scared if I go away this week as planned I'm just going to be obsessing about him. He should be at work but that's when he's been seeing her - instead if going to work he stays at hers if pops round for a couple of hours every so often.
Can I go away? If I don't it'll be difficult to make excuses to family
Oh and I had an operation 10 days ago and still recuperating so not only emotional shock but body shock too.
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