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mamajen00 posted 7/14/2014 23:21 PM

I wish I had seen this a few months ago when I first stumbled onto this site. Great information!!

littleflower posted 7/26/2014 14:15 PM

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Hurtingnnc posted 7/29/2014 10:56 AM

I am glad I found this. It made me feel a lot better

Jpapageorge posted 8/2/2014 22:11 PM

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Things can get a little slow around here on the weekends but there is always someone here to help.

For those of you who just found us, welcome to the best site you never wanted to join. You are safe here and will find others who have been where you are.

It does get better.

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brkn_heartd posted 8/4/2014 19:17 PM

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jjct posted 8/9/2014 07:57 AM

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Edie posted 8/22/2014 02:28 AM

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Sadandscared posted 8/24/2014 17:00 PM

We were lying on the bed chatting and he answered his phone. I wasn't suspicious. I've never been suspicious.
He had a short call , I remember him saying that he didn't know what his plans were and he'd call later. I asked ' who's that'?
He said his friend and they were arranging golf
I said - but that was a woman's voice - was it his GF? ( they are both our friends)
He said no- it was his friend/
I didn't think anymore
I didn't even get a ripple of suspicion .
He got up and left the bedroom
5 minutes later he's back and looking bad.
I know he's done something wrong - I ask him what he's done ( I don't think it's an affair)
He says
I'm so sorry . You were right. It was a woman. I've been having an affair . I don't want to loose you. I'm so sorry.
What are you going to do. Don't leave me. I'll never see her again. I don't want to hurt you. I'm sorry. It's my fault. I'm in the wrong.I want to be with you. I don't like myself. I don't feel good about this.
We went for a long walk. I said he must finish it stat. I said we can try and work it out.
He says trust me . I will never do this again. I ask him why - he says because I can't hurt you again
I don't want to be strong and tell him what to do. I just want him to do it .
I don't want to be posting this here but what can I do with the pain?
I need time to think - scared if I go away this week as planned I'm just going to be obsessing about him. He should be at work but that's when he's been seeing her - instead if going to work he stays at hers if pops round for a couple of hours every so often.
Can I go away? If I don't it'll be difficult to make excuses to family
Oh and I had an operation 10 days ago and still recuperating so not only emotional shock but body shock too.

jjct posted 8/27/2014 10:58 AM

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jjct posted 9/26/2014 09:36 AM

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Deeply Scared posted 10/6/2014 17:59 PM

All of the threads with the target icon have been added to the Healing Library

sarahstar posted 10/6/2014 21:25 PM

such a good read....

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