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mamajen00
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Default  Posted: 11:21 PM, July 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wish I had seen this a few months ago when I first stumbled onto this site. Great information!!


BS- me 37
WH- him 38
1 son - almost 5
Married 8 years
Together 13 years
DDay 4/19/14
9 months of intense EA
2 days of PA

Posts: 58 | Registered: Jun 2014
littleflower
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Member # 42673
Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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DD 13/1/14
Him WH
OW now X BFF
3 kids under 4

Posts: 98 | Registered: Mar 2014
Hurtingnnc
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Member # 44284
Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am glad I found this. It made me feel a lot better


Me: BGF 45
Him: WBF
DD#1 5/30/14
DD#2 6/7/14
DD#3 6/18/14
It looks like we are done 9/15/14.

Posts: 72 | Registered: Jul 2014
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 10:11 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump.
Things can get a little slow around here on the weekends but there is always someone here to help.

For those of you who just found us, welcome to the best site you never wanted to join. You are safe here and will find others who have been where you are.

It does get better.

Jp


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1739 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
brkn_heartd
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Member # 30396
Default  Posted: 7:17 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me-51 BS
Him 58-WS
Married 31 yrs, together 34
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

Posts: 1591 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Northwesten US
jjct
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Member # 17484
Default  Posted: 7:57 AM, August 9th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BUMP!

Posts: 6572 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Edie
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Member # 26133
Default  Posted: 2:28 AM, August 22nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 5101 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
Sadandscared
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Member # 44629
Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, August 24th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We were lying on the bed chatting and he answered his phone. I wasn't suspicious. I've never been suspicious.
He had a short call , I remember him saying that he didn't know what his plans were and he'd call later. I asked ' who's that'?
He said his friend and they were arranging golf
I said - but that was a woman's voice - was it his GF? ( they are both our friends)
He said no- it was his friend/
I didn't think anymore
I didn't even get a ripple of suspicion .
He got up and left the bedroom
5 minutes later he's back and looking bad.
I know he's done something wrong - I ask him what he's done ( I don't think it's an affair)
He says
I'm so sorry . You were right. It was a woman. I've been having an affair . I don't want to loose you. I'm so sorry.
What are you going to do. Don't leave me. I'll never see her again. I don't want to hurt you. I'm sorry. It's my fault. I'm in the wrong.I want to be with you. I don't like myself. I don't feel good about this.
We went for a long walk. I said he must finish it stat. I said we can try and work it out.
He says trust me . I will never do this again. I ask him why - he says because I can't hurt you again
I don't want to be strong and tell him what to do. I just want him to do it .
I don't want to be posting this here but what can I do with the pain?
I need time to think - scared if I go away this week as planned I'm just going to be obsessing about him. He should be at work but that's when he's been seeing her - instead if going to work he stays at hers if pops round for a couple of hours every so often.
Can I go away? If I don't it'll be difficult to make excuses to family
Oh and I had an operation 10 days ago and still recuperating so not only emotional shock but body shock too.


Posts: 12 | Registered: Aug 2014 | From: London
jjct
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Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, August 27th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Posts: 6572 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, September 5th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1739 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
UpInTheAirNow
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Member # 37777
Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, September 8th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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ME 44
WW 50
DDay 6/13/12
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.
Its a deal breaker!

Posts: 143 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: NY
yearsofpain25
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Member # 42012
Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, September 8th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2054 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
UpInTheAirNow
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, September 9th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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ME 44
WW 50
DDay 6/13/12
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.
Its a deal breaker!

Posts: 143 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: NY
UpInTheAirNow
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Member # 37777
Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, September 9th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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ME 44
WW 50
DDay 6/13/12
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.
Its a deal breaker!

Posts: 143 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: NY
UpInTheAirNow
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Member # 37777
Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, September 10th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump.


ME 44
WW 50
DDay 6/13/12
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.
Its a deal breaker!

Posts: 143 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: NY
UpInTheAirNow
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Member # 37777
Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, September 11th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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ME 44
WW 50
DDay 6/13/12
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.
Its a deal breaker!

Posts: 143 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: NY
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