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isadora
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Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, December 20th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me: BW Him: WH
Married: 10 yrs
4 children: DDs 6&4; DSs 2& baby
2 Affairs - 2010 year long PA/EA, 2008 2 month online EA
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.


Posts: 4500 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Back home again in Indiana
Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, December 25th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump- our little gift to newbies this Christmas day. You're not alone. You are worth more. You do have a say.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

❣I hope my issues don't discourage ur healing. I've buried a lot & my WH hasn't done his part in R❣


Posts: 10988 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Limbo
SerJR
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Default  Posted: 6:17 AM, December 29th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17093 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
4myheart
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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, December 30th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump dity bump


"Have you ever been so lost.... Known the way and still so lost." Katy Perry

Posts: 546 | Registered: Sep 2008 | From: I da ho....... no she da ho!!!
FeelUnloved
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Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, January 1st (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 198 | Registered: Aug 2010
4myheart
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Default  Posted: 4:57 PM, January 5th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"Have you ever been so lost.... Known the way and still so lost." Katy Perry

Posts: 546 | Registered: Sep 2008 | From: I da ho....... no she da ho!!!
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 7:23 AM, January 6th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpity bumpbumpbump Humpty bump


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
lostsuol
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Default  Posted: 9:01 PM, January 7th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ditto!

Posts: 810 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: Canada
knockedsideways
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, January 8th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping up


Me: BW (46)
Him : (F)WH (46)
D-Day 8th June 2010
23years of M (25 together)
2 teenagers

Posts: 166 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Europe
knockedsideways
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Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, January 8th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great help thanks


Me: BW (46)
Him : (F)WH (46)
D-Day 8th June 2010
23years of M (25 together)
2 teenagers

Posts: 166 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Europe
justsoshocked
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Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, January 9th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping for newbies


Me, 42 BW
Him, 39, FWH
D-day: 4th of July 2009.
Three kids, 2,5,and 7
Still in R...so far, so good.
Living my life...loving my kids....even enjoying my M again...:)

Posts: 2168 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: SC
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, January 9th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpage


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
Mrs.Confused
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Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, January 10th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

[This message edited by kdny at 5:27 PM, January 13th (Thursday)]


It has been said, 'time heals all wounds.' I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone. ~ Rose Kennedy ~

Posts: 351 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: USA
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 3:31 AM, January 12th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumpity


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
painfulordeal
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What?  Posted: 3:35 PM, January 12th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you so much for this post. I am new here and have clung to every word I have read and have suggested this site to many of my friends.
This has helped my with the pain more than I can ever express.
So here it is BUMP!


42 and Riding Solo

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nooneeverthought
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Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, January 19th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, January 20th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 4919 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, January 21st (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for Iris0127 and other newbees.


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1860 | Registered: Nov 2010
southsidecali
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Default  Posted: 12:04 PM, January 21st (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BUMPING TO ADD TO MY LIST

Posts: 740 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: CA
hurttothebone
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Default  Posted: 10:17 PM, January 21st (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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