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User Topic: West With the Night Book Group
nikki35
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Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, August 20th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am voting for sections..

Posts: 33 | Registered: Aug 2010
waiting2see
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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, August 21st (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My book still isn't here. I'm annoyed. I ordered it from a private seller b/c it was half the price as directly from Amazon but the shipping is slower.

I hope I get it Monday so I can start reading the first section.


me: BS
him: XWS

Much of your pain is self-chosen. ~Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, 1923

"It's not livin' that you're doin' if it feels like dyin." Ray Lamontagne


Posts: 1932 | Registered: Feb 2007
mellowmood
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, August 21st (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Me too waiting. Did the same thing, and Amazon is slow with this one. Usually it is only a day or 3.

Posts: 2755 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: oceanside, calif.
nikki35
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Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, August 21st (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

still waiting for book

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manAscending
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Default  Posted: 11:18 PM, August 21st (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've requested my copy via inter-library loan. Hope it gets here soon.

Posts: 1648 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Ontario
really trying
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Default  Posted: 12:57 AM, August 22nd (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have to get mine as well. I wanted to remind everyone that if you purchase from amazon from SI, SI get's a %.

Right NA? Now why is my ? so small????????


Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness


Posts: 10397 | Registered: Sep 2004 | From: California
NewAttitude
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Default  Posted: 9:00 AM, August 22nd (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do we need to put off starting the book for a couple days?
I have no problem with that since there are quite a few who are still waiting.

Thoughts?


Pain is inevitable; suffering is optional.

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punky
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Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, August 22nd (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I vote yes. But I do have mine.


Be a lion, not a mowess...
The Cowardly Lion

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nikki35
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Default  Posted: 1:05 PM, August 22nd (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I vote yes

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summerbaby
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Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, August 22nd (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't get mine til tomorrow. But we have a week to read 57 pages. Even if I didn't get mine til next wknd, I would have time before Monday to get it read. I vote stay on same time schedule.


"Find out who you are, and do it on purpose.- Dolly Parton

Posts: 1582 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: Oklahoma
hope4tomorrow
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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, August 23rd (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I say wait since some don't have theirs yet. I got mine yesterday from the library.


Me BW
Him WH-SA
Married 12 years
3 Beautiful girls 8 and under

Posts: 346 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: California
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, August 23rd (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm fine with waiting or pushing ahead.

The folks that havent received their books yet would be the best judge of whether they can 'catch up' (ie read the first section) by the end of the week.

I say let them have the final say!


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

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Posts: 6527 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
howcouldhe1
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Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, August 23rd (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I haven't got mine yet. <pouts> But I am a quick reader, so as long as it gets here before the weekend I should be able to catch up.

I checked the delivery dates and it said between 21st Aug and 3 September!! I think it's being delivered by tortoise.


Me BS 54 FWH (BT) 52 M 22 years D Day 4/11/06 Over a year of trickle truths. March 08. D Day 2. Online porn and SA. Just when I thought we'd be ok, July 19 08. BT had accident. Severe brain damage, in persistent vegetative state. I lost him anyway.

Posts: 5488 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Kent UK
waiting2see
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Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, August 23rd (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got mine today. I can definitely be ready by Mon but if others haven't received theirs we should accomodate them


me: BS
him: XWS

Much of your pain is self-chosen. ~Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, 1923

"It's not livin' that you're doin' if it feels like dyin." Ray Lamontagne


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really trying
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, August 23rd (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Darn, I don't have mine yet. If I get it by Wednesday I'll be okay with Monday discussion.

It's Monday, right?


Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness


Posts: 10397 | Registered: Sep 2004 | From: California
NewAttitude
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Default  Posted: 8:00 AM, August 24th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, it was supposed to be Monday.

Maybe Wed. we can do a last check and see who is still waiting for their book and see if we are waiting or not?


Pain is inevitable; suffering is optional.

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waiting2see
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Default  Posted: 1:27 PM, August 24th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That sounds good.


me: BS
him: XWS

Much of your pain is self-chosen. ~Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, 1923

"It's not livin' that you're doin' if it feels like dyin." Ray Lamontagne


Posts: 1932 | Registered: Feb 2007
howcouldhe1
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, August 24th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hurray, it's arrived.


Me BS 54 FWH (BT) 52 M 22 years D Day 4/11/06 Over a year of trickle truths. March 08. D Day 2. Online porn and SA. Just when I thought we'd be ok, July 19 08. BT had accident. Severe brain damage, in persistent vegetative state. I lost him anyway.

Posts: 5488 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Kent UK
mellowmood
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Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, August 24th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got mine today, a little worse for wear. But it is here!!!!!!

This morning I looked on Amazon where they will show you parts of the book. Read from page 1 to 16 and then it jumped to page 60. Was thinking that people who don't have the book could do that, but no go.


Posts: 2755 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: oceanside, calif.
Skye
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, August 24th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just a suggestion for the future--maybe we should give our readers 2 weeks to a month after we decide on a book, so we all have a chance to get hold of it. I know IRL, this has been a problem.

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