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AttemptStrength
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, September 1st (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Post the songs that you listen to when you are feeling sad here.


BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


Posts: 1992 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Wisconsin
milia
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Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, September 1st (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So many of these to choose from.

Okay, my age is showing here, but a bad one for me is by Johnny Matthis (I know...I can hear you young uns going Johnny who?)
Title is The Twelfth of Never...it was "our" song. I cannot get through it without crying. Sigh... invokes too many memories.


Courage, you have to have courage to love somebody,
Because you risk everything, everything. ~ Maya Angelou

BS (me) age 55
WS (him) age 58
Married 39 years
2 short term liasons with 2 different women
LTA 2 years with yet another


Posts: 1020 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Maryland
wantmore
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Default  Posted: 6:51 AM, September 2nd (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Uhm. When I'm sad I don't listen to music. Sometimes music can make me sad, though. Traditional jazz when I'm alone at night is really depressing to me, for some reason. Daytime or when I'm with others I like it. Go figure.


Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. Of course it helps to know you *have* enemies.

Posts: 2889 | Registered: Nov 2004 | From: Florida
AttemptStrength
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Default  Posted: 7:31 AM, September 2nd (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Script - Breakeven: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9yZ1uI5yPbY&a=4oVf-d_DwKBUxbFJjPKyGEuMsx4Z5xum

Beyoncé - Resentment:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5O0_2PX2HAc

[This message edited by AttemptStrength at 7:50 AM, September 2nd (Thursday)]


BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


Posts: 1992 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Wisconsin
icbtih8
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Default  Posted: 11:34 AM, September 2nd (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Torn - Natalie Imbruglia
I do - Lisa Loeb
Stay - Lisa Loeb
Sleep to Dream - Fiona Apple
Pretty Noose - Soundgarden
Paint it Black - the Rolling Stones

in spanish (FWIW):

No - Sharika
Dejame Llorar - Ricardo Montaner
Me Va a Extranar - Ricardo Montaner
Hasta Que Te Conoci - Juan Gabriel
Me Voy - Julieta Venegas

[This message edited by icbtih8 at 11:43 AM, September 2nd (Thursday)]


D-day #1 - April 29, 2009

Beauty is a calling...a call "to transfigure what has harden or was wounded within you"
-- John O'Donohue


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obrian
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Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, September 2nd (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ben Harper's "More than Sorry." I lost it the first time I listened to it after Dday, never putting it in the context of a lifeless marriage that led to infidelity.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5RwRKJSTRWk

Lyrics:

goodbye
hasn't been so good to me
stepped out into the night
back against the moon
i saw ten thousand hands with candlelight
we all think that we're right
it's hard to tell
if the night is full of hope or doom

what more than sorry can i say
what more than sorry can i be
before our love fades away
what more than sorry
do you want from me

my eyes
burn with unshed tears
my body is weak
from so many silent years
too many people say goodbye
before they say hello
step into the morning
and disappear

what more than sorry can i say
what more than sorry can i be
before our love fades away
what more than sorry
do you want from me

what more than sorry can i say
what more than sorry can i be
before our love fades away
what more than sorry
do you want from me


Me (BS): 38
Her: 37
Married almost 12 yrs (together about 19)
Kids: 5, 7
Dday: 6/22/10

Posts: 119 | Registered: Jun 2010
obrian
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Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, September 2nd (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Killers' "Mr. Brightside." My wife and I loved this song before her A. Now I can't listen to it at all. She's apologized for ruining so many songs.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SrkeWsQZNyU

Lyrics:

I'm coming out of my cage
And I've been doing just fine
Gotta gotta gotta be down
Because I want it all
It started out with a kiss
How did it end up like this
It was only a kiss, it was only a kiss
Now I'm falling asleep
And she's calling a cab
While he's having a smoke
And she's taking a drag
Now they're going to bed
And my stomach is sick
And it's all in my head
But she's touching his—chest
Now, he takes off her dress
Now, let me go

I just can't look its killing me
And taking control
Jealousy, turning saints into the sea
Swimming through sick lullabies
Choking on your alibis
But it's just the price I pay
Destiny is calling me
Open up my eager eyes
'Cause I'm Mr Brightside

I'm coming out of my cage
And I've been doing just fine
Gotta gotta gotta be down
Because I want it all
It started out with a kiss
How did it end up like this
It was only a kiss, it was only a kiss
Now I'm falling asleep
And she's calling a cab
While he's having a smoke
And she's taking a drag
Now they're going to bed
And my stomach is sick
And it's all in my head
But she's touching his—chest
Now, he takes off her dress
Now, let me go

I just can't look its killing me
And taking control
Jealousy, turning saints into the sea
Swimming through sick lullabies
Choking on your alibi
But it's just the price I pay
Destiny is calling me
Open up my eager eyes
'Cause I'm Mr Brightside


Me (BS): 38
Her: 37
Married almost 12 yrs (together about 19)
Kids: 5, 7
Dday: 6/22/10

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tennispro4
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Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, September 3rd (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What Hurts the Most - Rascal Flatts
My Immortal - Evanescence


I don't know if I'll make it, but watch how good I'll fake it

Posts: 1140 | Registered: Mar 2010
AttemptStrength
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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, September 10th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Kesha - Blind - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wdkkfrvN-b0

Laura Marling - Your only Doll: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XPtqjHOPhgo

[This message edited by AttemptStrength at 10:43 AM, September 10th (Friday)]


BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


Posts: 1992 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Wisconsin
AttemptStrength
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Default  Posted: 9:42 AM, September 29th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Linkin Park - Burning in the Skies

I used the deadwood to make the fire rise
The blood of innocence burning in the skies
I filled my cup with the rising of the sea
I poured it out in an ocean of debris

Ooooooooh!

(Chorus)
I'm swimming in the smoke
Of bridges I have burned
So don't apologize
I'm losing what I don't deserve

What I don't deserve

We held our breath when the clouds began to form
But you were lost in the beating of the storm
And in the end we were made to be apart
The seperate chambers of the human heart

Ooooooooh!

(Chorus)
I'm swimming in the smoke
Of bridges I have burned
So don't apologize
I'm losing what I don't deserve

It's in the blackened bones
Of bridges I have burned
So don't apologize
I'm losing what I don't deserve

What I don't deserve

(Solo)

(Chorus)
I'm swimming in the smoke
Of bridges I have burned
So don't apologize
I'm losing what I don't deserve

The blame is mine alone
For bridges I have burned
So don't apologize
I'm losing what I don't deserve

What I don't deserve
What I don't deserve
What I don't deserve

I used the deadwood to make the fire rise
The blood of innocence burning in the skies


Linking Park - Blackbirds

[Mike Shinoda feestyle]

Drop the mic, get up
Take to the streets
Of Iraq, yeah, get up
Face full of teeth
When it's hot, yeah, spit up
Tasting the beat
Like a beast

Rock on your block oversea

Speak from your gut
Like a rush of blood
Paint red on the stage
To the ones above
Lay the sick ones down
And the bells will ring
Put pennies on the eyes
Let the dead men sing

[Chester]

I shiver and shake
Through warm air cold
I'm alone
On my own
In every mistake
I dig this hole
Through my skin
And bones

It's harder starting over
Then never to have changed

With blackbirds following me
I'm digging out my grave
They close in swallowing me
The pain it comes in waves
I'm getting back what I gave

I sweat through the sheets
As daylight fades
As I waste
Away
It traps me inside
Mistakes I've made
That's the price
I pay

It's harder starting over
Than never to have changed

With blackbirds following me
I'm digging out my grave
They close in swallowing me
The pain it comes in waves
I'm getting back
What I gave

[Mike Shinoda]

I drop to the floor
Like I did before
Stop watching I'm coughing
I can't be more
What I want what I need
Over constant war
Like a well full of poison
A rotten core
The blood goes thin
The fever stings
And I shake from the hell
That the habits bring
Lay the sick ones down
The bells will ring
Put pennies on the eyes
Let the dead men sing

[Chester]

Blackbirds following me
I'm digging out my grave
They close in swallowing me
The pain it comes in waves
I'm getting back
What I gave

I'm getting back
What I gave

I'm getting back
What I gave

[This message edited by AttemptStrength at 9:46 AM, September 29th (Wednesday)]


BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


Posts: 1992 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Wisconsin
lulykr
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Default  Posted: 11:31 AM, October 2nd (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I Dont Believe You
Pink

Posts: 589 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: Gainesville FL
lulykr
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Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, October 2nd (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So Broken
Bjork
This one doubles up with sad and angry. Two in one baby.

Posts: 589 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: Gainesville FL
Recoveringwife
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, October 3rd (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Porcelain, MOBY

Bad, U2

If you twist and turn away
If you tear yourself in two again
If I could, yes I would
If I could, I would
Let it go
Surrender
Dislocate
If I could throw this
Lifeless lifeline to the wind
Leave this heart of clay
See you break, break away
Into the night
Through the rain
Into the half-light
Through the flame

If I could through myself
Set your spirit free
I'd lead your heart away
See you break, break away
Into the light
And to the day

Oooh oooh, oooh oooh, oooh oooh oooh...

To let it go! And so fade away
To let it go!
And so fade away
I'm wide awake
I'm wide awake
Wide awake
I'm not sleeping, oh no, no, no

If you should ask then maybe they'd
Tell you what I would say
True colors fly in blue and black
Blue silken sky and burning flag
Colors crash, collide in blood shot eyes

Oooh oooh, oooh oooh, oooh oooh oooh...

If I could, you know I would
If I could, I would
Let it go

This desparation
Dislocation
Separation
Condemnation
Revelation
In temptation
Isolation
Desolation
Isolation

Let it go
And so fade away
To let it go, oh yeah
And so fade away
To let it go, oh No
And so fade away
I'm wide awake
I'm wide awake
Wide awake
I'm not sleeping oh no no

[This message edited by Recoveringwife at 4:00 PM, October 6th (Wednesday)]


BW: (me)38
2 kids
dday Feb 2008
Recovering


Posts: 847 | Registered: Sep 2008
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, October 3rd (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't listen to sad music when I'm sad; I don't want to push myself over the edge...

However, the song that makes me saddest is Still The One by Orleans. It came out right before stbxwh & I became engaged; every time I hear it, it makes me sad because I always thought of it as 'our' anthem. He was 'still the one' after almost 30 years--till d-day


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

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