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crushedhim (original poster new member #29099) posted at 7:47 PM on Monday, September 6th, 2010
...without my BH. Oh how I miss our times together and fun with family. Praying BH will come home one day soon.
I know it is a lot to ask, so I do not ask...but that doesn't mean I can't pray and hope for it everyday.
Life is not complete without BH in it completely! Meanwhile, I stay strong and take the best care of our kids as I can. 
[This message edited by crushedhim at 2:12 PM, September 6th (Monday)]
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 10:48 PM on Monday, September 6th, 2010
I know it is a lot to ask, so I do not ask.
Maybe he's waiting for you to ask. Maybe he wants you to show him how much you want to make it work. (I don't know, just putting it out there)
Holidays are hard in the aftermath of cheating. What are you doing to work on you?
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 12:24 AM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
1985 ( member #28171) posted at 9:44 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
Tell him. Over and over again. He needs to know that you mean it. That you feel it; crave it. That yo would get on your knees and beg if it would help.
You see, what you did leaves him feeling devoid of power; emasculated; worthless. He needs to feel just the opposite of those. So telling him repeatedly how important he is to you -- maybe that will help get him back to where he can come back without feeling as if HE is crawling and being weak.
Me-BH now 70
Her-fWW now 69 Still beautiful to me
DDay: June 1985. 5 years after A ended
Still married - actually in love
2 grown kids; 5 grandkids
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