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User Topic: Boundaries and Consequences 101 for all new BS
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 1:05 AM, December 23rd (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5780 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
lordhasaplan?
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Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, January 5th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1796 | Registered: Nov 2010
Fighting2Survive
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Member # 28410
Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, January 9th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
bufffalo
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Member # 21854
Default  Posted: 12:27 AM, January 15th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5780 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
2_4giving4_2long
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Default  Posted: 4:24 PM, January 15th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

oooooooooh. I just asked about boundaries on another forum. This makes so much sense to me now. Thank you.


Me 52
He 49
DDay 11/06/11
Married 23 years
2 adult children.

Posts: 159 | Registered: Nov 2011
numbandnauseous
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Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, January 15th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thanks - really helpful for us newbies!


BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
Divorcing

Posts: 827 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: the other side
AttemptStrength
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Default  Posted: 12:06 AM, January 23rd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


Posts: 1991 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Wisconsin
lordhasaplan?
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Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 10:31 AM, January 24th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1796 | Registered: Nov 2010
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, January 24th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for Emily's


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1796 | Registered: Nov 2010
OnAnIsland
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, January 25th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you.


D-day: Christmas 2011 when i saw a text from MarriedOW to WH
D-day 2: 3/28/2013: confessed phone sex over 10 years ago (2000 or 2001) with another OW

Married for over 14 years
2 beautiful boys in elementary school


Posts: 1419 | Registered: Dec 2011
unarmbears
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, January 29th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


FBS-Me, 60
FWH-Him, 55
2 Sons 25 and 30
2 Daughters 28, 24 And 3 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

Posts: 4886 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: From where the trees lean east...
annb
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Posts: 7260 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
wonderingbull
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The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor


Posts: 5893 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: A better place
LisaP
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Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, February 12th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me BS

Divorced!

~Feel your emotions, but control your behavior~ Unknown


Posts: 2160 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Oregon
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, February 15th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1796 | Registered: Nov 2010
nowiknow23
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You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


Posts: 22587 | Registered: Aug 2011
al35118
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, March 1st (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Bh 48
FWW 31
Married Jan 24th 2012
D-Day June 17 2011
Then TT until Oct 19,2011

Posts: 79 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Bama
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 11:12 AM, March 3rd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5780 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
DixieDiamondfly
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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, March 7th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you so much for this post. I struggle with setting boundaries, so this really underscores the importance of it. I've just go to figure out what the boundaries should be.


BS: Me, 53 yrs. young
WS: Him, 56 yo
KIDS: 29 yo son, 27 yo son, 22 yo daughter...and three wonderful grandsons
Married 31 yrs.
D-Day #1: 2/8/12
D-Day #2: 7/16/2012
Beginning R

Posts: 126 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Gulf Coast
SuperDuperWonderboy
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My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


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