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User Topic: Boundaries and Consequences 101 for all new BS
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 2:33 PM, July 2nd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 7:43 AM, July 4th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1909 | Registered: Nov 2010
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, July 6th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is great info!


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 2217 | Registered: Jan 2012
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 5:45 PM, July 16th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1909 | Registered: Nov 2010
WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, July 16th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


This needs to go in the healing library.

Great post!


WHG


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 5376 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
pmal64
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, July 17th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


.:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:.
BS-me-50
fWH -54

Posts: 576 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: down south
hank9898
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, July 23rd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me - BH (46)
Two great kids
Son (20) US Army
Daughter (18) College student

Posts: 149 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Minnesota
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, July 31st (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
Keepcalm
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Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, August 2nd (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree Healing Library.


BS Me 57
WS Him 55
Married 30 yrs
DDay 1/28/2012
I have no idea what is going on

Posts: 178 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Virginia
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 6:47 AM, August 9th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1909 | Registered: Nov 2010
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, August 11th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1909 | Registered: Nov 2010
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, August 15th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
Gr8Lady
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, August 15th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I SO needed this information, especially today.
Thank you...


BS: Me (63yo)
FWH: HIM (65yo) serial infidelities over past 35 years
OW: Many, most recent 1/2 his age
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2012 when I presented evidence, plus LTA with his friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over past year
So done,

Posts: 618 | Registered: Jul 2012
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, August 27th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10383 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for Brybry


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1909 | Registered: Nov 2010
sickrn
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Default  Posted: 10:53 AM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No matter how many times I read this, I get something new out of it each time. Thanks for bumping and the post...I seem to need constant reminders to do anything good for me....


M=23 yrs
DD-22
BW=46
WH=46
DDAY 6/12

In R....trust but verify!

The truth can't hurt you, it's just like the dark.
It scares you witless,
But in time you see things clear and stark - Elvis


Posts: 89 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Purgatory
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, September 5th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 2:55 AM, September 8th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5828 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, September 9th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, September 14th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1909 | Registered: Nov 2010
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