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Boundaries and Consequences 101 for all new BS

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thisissogross posted 1/17/2013 23:31 PM

Rella posted 1/19/2013 11:44 AM

BUMP!

5454real posted 1/20/2013 23:46 PM

bump

lordhasaplan? posted 1/30/2013 13:08 PM

Bumpin' for newbies

lordhasaplan? posted 2/13/2013 15:43 PM

newbees!

lordhasaplan? posted 3/1/2013 09:24 AM

Weekend Bumps for Newbies

Jpapageorge posted 3/9/2013 19:28 PM

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Rella posted 3/10/2013 16:53 PM

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thisissogross posted 3/15/2013 02:57 AM

kernel posted 3/20/2013 20:56 PM

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jackie89 posted 3/20/2013 23:53 PM

A great post. LOVE it, can still be applied!

Another reminder on how I wished I had found this site, when I was in denial/shock at the very beginning! My 1yr of hell TT, that I wasted!

I never looked up the word "infidelity" was always looking up "betrayed"

Thank You

Ashland13 posted 3/21/2013 08:27 AM

Family and friends on boths sides of our M knew about the A and did not tell me.

So, I don't consider them friends of our M.

One, to this day, continues to let WH spend overnights at her house and he told me during false R, "I chose her cause she lets me do what I want". She is also someone who thinks so differently than me that I can't consider being "friends" right now, never mind later.

WH does not understand this, but its not a surprise.

A few boundaries that I put out that I don't see on the list atop this thread:

-NC with me from OW's house where he has lived for a year;

-NC to OW if he has to come to "our" house;

-no trading resources between OW's family and "our" house; yes, he realy thought this was ok.

-limited texting/electronics when WH visits with DD, shouldn't time be one-on-one with her?

lordhasaplan? posted 4/29/2013 09:06 AM

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lordhasaplan? posted 5/16/2013 08:06 AM

For ((Calikid))

AFrayedKnot posted 5/27/2013 19:07 PM

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lordhasaplan? posted 6/5/2013 10:35 AM

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jjct posted 6/18/2013 06:33 AM

bemp

Jennifer99 posted 6/20/2013 09:17 AM

I think the key here is "detach".

I do, then I get all happy when its working, we get close, he gets stupid again.

I'm thinking my next boundary just may be that there is a limit to the number of times I'll through this cycle with him.

When I say he gets stupid again I don't mean he cheats again its all the other stuff - mean with words, impatient, treating me like the enemy - what we were even BEFORE the EA.

Skan posted 6/26/2013 09:19 AM

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Jpapageorge posted 7/4/2013 03:18 AM

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