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User Topic: Boundaries and Consequences 101 for all new BS
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, May 7th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5810 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, May 12th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((lilacs40))))


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1863 | Registered: Nov 2010
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, May 14th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, May 19th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

whyme52


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1863 | Registered: Nov 2010
annb
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Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, May 21st (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Posts: 7389 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
nooneeverthought
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it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you

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Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 12:53 AM, June 6th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch


Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
sherran
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Default  Posted: 1:28 AM, June 6th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thank you for your post. It makes things clearer for me, I need the boundaries to keep me strong.


Karma will kick him in the arse

BS 34
WH 35
together: 13 yrs
M 2 1/2 yrs
DDay 19/5/11
A & OW - not sure how long?? no answers given


Posts: 33 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Australia
lordhasaplan?
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Target  Posted: 8:14 AM, June 27th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1863 | Registered: Nov 2010
belladolcegirl
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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, June 27th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for this post. I can see a lot of myself in what you wrote and I will defintely be considering these points as I make my mind up to confront. Thank you for taking the time to share this!

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hathnofury
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Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, June 27th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for this. Very helpful. I need to put mine in writing, so it is clear.


BS 43, SAWH 38. M 15years, together 17. Body count in the triple digits. Both in recovery, trying to R.
Three kids under age 11.

Posts: 1459 | Registered: Jun 2011
Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, June 30th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch


Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
isadora
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Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, July 2nd (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: BW Him: WH
Married: 10 yrs
4 children: DDs 6&4; DSs 2& baby
2 Affairs - 2010 year long PA/EA, 2008 2 month online EA
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.


Posts: 4501 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Back home again in Indiana
jb3199
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BH-46
WW-44
2 boys-17 & 20(special needs)
Married 21yrs.(together 27yrs.)

All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary Puckett
D-Day: 9/18/09 D-Day#2: 2/19/10 The Marriage Killer: 6/6/11
Heading for D


Posts: 1998 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: northeast
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, July 11th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

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Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, July 18th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, July 23rd (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, July 27th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5810 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
MrsSprky99
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Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, July 27th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

lordhasaplan?

Thank you so very much for taking the time to post this information!!! Helps a newbie like me to get a hold of a seemingly out of control situation :)


BW (me) - 47
WH (him) - 53
Married - 14 years
3 Children - 25, 24 from first relationship & 10 y/o with WH
D-Day: June 11, 2011

Posts: 78 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Northern IL
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 7:48 AM, August 5th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

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