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User Topic: Has anyone read Women Who Love Psychopaths?
SierraGrace
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Default  Posted: 7:41 AM, January 26th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Has anyone read Women Who Love Psychopaths, Inside the Relationships of Inevitable Harm With Psychopaths, Sociopaths & Narcissists by Sandra L. Brown

I bought it, haven't read it yet but plan to start and was wondering if anyone else had heard of it or read it.

I subscribe to her newsletter and each one has a featured article. The last two hit home. It sounds like making a case for the 180 otherwise continue to be drawn into their drama and trauma. Even though I haven't seen or been around xWSO in a long time I'd still been letting him draw me in via phonecalls and texts and this makes a case for cutting him off from contact completely.

Apparently since the material is copyrighted I thought I'd better delete it and just provide the website insead:

www.saferelationshipsmagazine.com

[This message edited by SierraGrace at 4:05 PM, February 2nd (Wednesday)]


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unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 8:00 AM, January 26th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I haven't read the book but that's great stuff!


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SierraGrace
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Default  Posted: 8:04 AM, January 26th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi Uni! I've been subcribing to her e-newsletter for at least a year and haven't gotten the hint until now....slow learner I am!

This fits my interaction to him to a tee. The things he has said and done had continued to create emotional reactions in me and I can't remember what it's like to NOT have the adrenalin rushes so it's time for me to "get it" that he truly has a disorder that is long since out of my hands.

He called three times last night to my no answer....and I need to read and re-read this AND the book to continue to gain and maintain my strength in this very sick situation!


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unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 11:55 AM, January 26th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, I'm proud of you for resisting getting back on the wacko rodeo with him. It's really a tuff habit to break, but you're getting there.

Did I miss the link to the site? I'd like to get the emails too. I'm not married to or love a psychopath but I am related to more than one, sigh...


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

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SierraGrace
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Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, January 26th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry Uni...here's the link:

http://saferelationshipsmagazine.com/

On the right hand side you will see where you can sign up for her newsletter that has the articles I posted above.

Really insightful stuff that I was admittedly resistant to for a while but just like I should have BELIEVED the red flags as they were popping up with him, it all continues to fall in place though has been a slooooow and loooong process.


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