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kernel
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Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, January 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping in the new year


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, January 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5060 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
mountainmomma
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Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, January 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpity bump


Me 37
WS 42 (Mitty)
4 kiddys 9,7,4 &20 mths no5 due August 14
seeing hookers, NSA sites, escorts, anyone willing from 07/08 (i didn't know)left to do full time with no restraints 2010 Returned home march 2011 in R DDay 2.4.2010 OW 30+ age 18-60

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annb
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, January 10th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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annb
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annb
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Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, January 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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thisissogross
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, January 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"A pair of powerful spectacles has sometimes sufficed to cure a person in love." -Friedrich Nietzsche

i edit frequently because i have to


Posts: 234 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: southern us
5454real
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Default  Posted: 11:49 PM, January 20th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

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annb
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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, January 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Skan
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Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, January 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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MonsterBride
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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, January 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

love this!


Me: BW, 36
Him: WH, 39, serial disappointment
Crimes: secret girlfriends, strippers
Status: preparing for divorce

Posts: 86 | Registered: Dec 2012
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 1:08 PM, January 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpin' for newbies


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

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annb
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, February 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

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wouldbewhere
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Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, February 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is so AWESOME!!!!
Reconciling wasn't an option for me, but this is something everyone should read.


ME-51
STBXWH-SOB-44 A W/Ho-Worker
Married 16 1/2 yrs
DD 9/29/2012 Left 9/29/2012
Filled 10/14/2012
We all meet our maker. When my file is opened to be read, before I cross the pearly gates. I'm sure glad it won't say "I cheated on

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annb
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, February 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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exhausted lady
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Default  Posted: 1:41 AM, February 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumpity bump


Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, February 8th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


It is better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie. -Russian Proverb

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lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, February 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

newbees!


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

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annb
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Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, February 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Skan
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, February 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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