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Simple
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
Simple
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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
hard_yards
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Default  Posted: 10:17 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

Posts: 1216 | Registered: Apr 2009
HurtButHopeful?
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Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for maddmurph.


Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

Posts: 1716 | Registered: Aug 2009
Blackhair
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Default  Posted: 3:41 AM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!


M: 10 years
DD:5 DS Twin: 8 months
DDay: Earlier 2013, WS has been chatting and flew/met many times with a Philippine girl (20 yrs younger)
Divorcing.... Sep.Agreement finalized on Oct 18
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken hea

Posts: 143 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Canada
Skan
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Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4123 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Drowninginitall
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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you! I am saving this so that I can remind myself and I will one day send it to my H.

Posts: 90 | Registered: Oct 2013
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: BS 44
Her: fWS 47 (same sex partner)
Together: 17 now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 1861 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot

Posts: 14717 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Skan
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Default  Posted: 11:22 AM, October 24th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4123 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1797 | Registered: Nov 2010
Skan
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4123 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Simple
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Default  Posted: 6:47 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 9:12 AM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is one of my favorites.


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: BS 44
Her: fWS 47 (same sex partner)
Together: 17 now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 1861 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
catatonic
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BUMP

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Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1656 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping for newbies


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 14 & 16
Married for 21 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 6616 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Simple
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Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

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