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Simple
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
Simple
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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
hard_yards
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Default  Posted: 10:17 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

Posts: 1242 | Registered: Apr 2009
HurtButHopeful?
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Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for maddmurph.


Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

Posts: 1716 | Registered: Aug 2009
Blackhair
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Default  Posted: 3:41 AM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!


M: 10 years
DD:5 DS Twin: 2 yrs old
DDay: Earlier 2013, WS flew/met many times with a Philippine girl found online (20 yrs younger)
SA finalized 6 months after DD. divorcing...
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken heart!

Posts: 177 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Canada
Skan
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Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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Drowninginitall
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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you! I am saving this so that I can remind myself and I will one day send it to my H.

Posts: 111 | Registered: Oct 2013
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2257 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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Skan
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Default  Posted: 11:22 AM, October 24th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4962 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

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Skan
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4962 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Simple
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Default  Posted: 6:47 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 9:12 AM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is one of my favorites.


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2257 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
catatonic
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BUMP

Posts: 113 | Registered: Sep 2013
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1756 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping for newbies


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8738 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Simple
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Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1912 | Registered: Nov 2010
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