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AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, May 4th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


BS 40
fWS 37 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2694 | Registered: Aug 2012
norabird
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Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 2:41 PM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4238 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
tushnurse
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Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8899 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
mountainmomma
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Member # 34388
Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpity bump


Me 37
WS 42 (Mitty)
4 kiddys 9,7,4 &20 mths no5 due August 14
seeing hookers, NSA sites, escorts, anyone willing from 07/08 (i didn't know)left to do full time with no restraints 2010 Returned home march 2011 in R DDay 2.4.2010 OW 30+ age 18-60

Posts: 180 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: U.K
tushnurse
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Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 4:57 PM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump bump


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8899 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
tushnurse
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Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 6:37 PM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8899 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
BlackHorse
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Member # 43459
Default  Posted: 6:56 PM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks "tushnurse" for looking out for us newbies.


Not together long enough - too many long separations due to her continuing medical issues.
Me - Canadian.
She - American.
Both of us in our fifties.
D-Day - 04/30/14 (while she was away seeking medical assistance in her homeland)

Posts: 82 | Registered: May 2014 | From: The West Coast of Canada
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 3:34 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2556 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
omoiyari1985
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Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is really disappointing, if I only would discovered this website and this topic 6 weeks ago. I would've realized my WS wasn't ready for reconciliation.

Now I she has destroyed my perception of her and continuously lying that R isn't on my radar for 2014


BS, BH : 29
WS, WW : 28 (PA, EA) Bipolar, depression, anxiety.
OM, HW, AP: Starbucks barista lives with his mom
DD: beautiful 6 yr old
Married: 3 yrs, together 7+
Dday May 25th

Posts: 18 | Registered: May 2014 | From: Houston
mchercheur
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Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BUMP


Me: BW
Him: WH --Had 7 mo. PA with COW;
Married 20something years with kids
Trying to R

Posts: 1465 | Registered: Dec 2012
lordhasaplan?
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Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 10:45 AM, May 30th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1937 | Registered: Nov 2010
Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 1:53 AM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumpity bump


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1811 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
norabird
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Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4238 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
annb
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 7666 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
norabird
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Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4238 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
BuckeyeBlues
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for this - I am happy to report that my husband appears to be truly remorseful...he has done the majority of things needed for reconciliation. He has been honest with me about the OW, answering all my questions, has written a NC letter (even though he broke it off before I found out), lets me see his phone and tablet any time I ask (many times offering it to me if I haven't asked), let me put a GPS tracking device on his phone, so I can see where he is. He has not blamed me at all....says it's all him.


Married for 19 years
Me: 44, BW
Him: 53, WH
2 teenagers
D-Day: 5/7/14
Taking it one day at a time...

Posts: 22 | Registered: May 2014
yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 2:32 PM, June 19th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

Posts: 2487 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
UpInTheAirNow
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Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, June 25th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


ME 45
WW 50
DDay 6/13/12
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.

Posts: 239 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: NY
UpInTheAirNow
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Member # 37777
Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, June 27th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for the new members.


ME 45
WW 50
DDay 6/13/12
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.

Posts: 239 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: NY
Schadenfreude
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, July 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump. A lesson that needs repeating

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