Return to Forum List

Return to Just Found Out® > Just Found Out

You are not logged in. Login here or register.

Codependency in the Marriage: A BSís common mistake

Pages: 1 · 2 · 3 · 4 · 5 · 6 · 7 · 8 · 9

Spelljean posted 9/18/2012 14:56 PM


OathswornDad posted 9/18/2012 15:44 PM

Thank you. I needed to read this. It will hurt so bad not having a partner. But I have to be comfortable with myself if I am going to have any chance at R

[This message edited by OathswornDad at 3:45 PM, September 18th (Tuesday)]

ThoughtIKnewYa posted 9/29/2012 15:35 PM


kannan posted 9/30/2012 10:59 AM


[This message edited by SI Staff at 6:28 AM, December 30th (Tuesday)]

Hannelore posted 10/1/2012 00:06 AM

I just finished reading this whole thread, and I'm literally smiling! I'm codependent and know it! I've made some big scary changes in the last 6 months - I won't say I'm codependent no more but well on my way! Full disclosure is coming up soon, maybe it wont be as horrifying as I imagine ... Do I feel a glimmer of hope for a brighter future?

Hannelore posted 10/1/2012 00:11 AM

Oh - and thank God for this site and all you good people. I take what I need and just leave the rest. Feeling so hopeful is so weird after all these months of darkness and despair. Wow.

deeplyblue posted 10/5/2012 02:48 AM


Diva0702 posted 10/5/2012 04:14 AM

Simply excellent

scangel3 posted 10/5/2012 19:31 PM

Thank you for this, unfortunately me and my wh are at the part where you say:

This can often deteriorate into the sort of marriage where the two partners can neither live together nor live apart

scary place to be!!!

Carrie22 posted 10/6/2012 11:29 AM

I needed to read this in the wake of a current Dday 2, and wish I had found it in the aftermath of DDay1. Thank you

ThoughtIKnewYa posted 10/13/2012 15:10 PM

weekend bump.

diditagn posted 10/17/2012 22:36 PM

Bump for newbies

lordhasaplan? posted 10/22/2012 10:08 AM

Bump for Newbies

lordhasaplan? posted 11/26/2012 15:12 PM


lordhasaplan? posted 11/27/2012 08:38 AM

bump for beforeandafter

lordhasaplan? posted 12/10/2012 10:32 AM


Elaine2012 posted 12/10/2012 12:57 PM

Bump for me.

lordhasaplan? posted 12/24/2012 10:33 AM


lordhasaplan? posted 1/3/2013 10:26 AM

Bump for newbies.

thisissogross posted 1/18/2013 00:02 AM

lordhasaplan? posted 1/30/2013 13:08 PM

Bumpin' for newbies

Pages: 1 · 2 · 3 · 4 · 5 · 6 · 7 · 8 · 9

Return to Forum List

Return to Just Found Out

© 2002-2015 ®. All Rights Reserved.