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Codependency in the Marriage: A BSís common mistake
Thank you. I needed to read this. It will hurt so bad not having a partner. But I have to be comfortable with myself if I am going to have any chance at R
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I just finished reading this whole thread, and I'm literally smiling! I'm codependent and know it! I've made some big scary changes in the last 6 months - I won't say I'm codependent no more but well on my way! Full disclosure is coming up soon, maybe it wont be as horrifying as I imagine ... Do I feel a glimmer of hope for a brighter future?
Oh - and thank God for this site and all you good people. I take what I need and just leave the rest. Feeling so hopeful is so weird after all these months of darkness and despair. Wow.
Thank you for this, unfortunately me and my wh are at the part where you say:
This can often deteriorate into the sort of marriage where the two partners can neither live together nor live apart
scary place to be!!!
I needed to read this in the wake of a current Dday 2, and wish I had found it in the aftermath of DDay1. Thank you
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