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Codependency in the Marriage: A BSís common mistake
[This message edited by littlemrsV0813 at 10:54 AM, November 20th (Wednesday)]
It's great that you've got to the point of realising this. Now you need to work on getting respect and love from him, and making those dealbreakers dealbreakers!
Bumping for flayed
OK re-reading this as I kick myself in the butt for getting more wrapped up in WH's business than my own
right = I can only control me
not God's business
not other people's business
Bump for m'self.
Yes, I see myself in here a bit. Great post, first time I saw this one. My tendency is to value the M more than myself. This is wrong. I can't fix it by myself, need a willing partner.
Thanks,Lordhasaplan, for this post. it is a lot both intellectually and emotionally to take in. I am trying hard to heal. Your words are helping.
Horseluvr ....thank you for sharing your story....I related so o much .....I lol all day everyday ....how my h and dd1 & dd2 look fantastic ...are stress-free & I'm the hot mess that happened I have no idea what confidence feels like ..before dday...I had questioned my wh and checked his phone repeatedly. ..he actually became angry in my lack of trust in him ........saying ** your so damn insecure**. ..its sad...stop living in the past! All along he was indeed involved in ea & debating seeing a prostitute...bc he had fantasies of acting out really disrespectful sexual porn like stuff ....that he could never do with me bc im his wife and mother of his children....gee he's so considerate ..NOT!