Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying
Welcome

Forums

Guidelines

Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library

Media

Contact Us
lies
cover
In Association with Amazon.com
Support
Infidelity -
-
like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
[Register]
Newest Member: JRconfused (45363)

I Can Relate Post Reply     Print Topic    
User Topic: Support for BS in Limbo
always-hope
♀ Member
Member # 27814
Default  Posted: 6:21 AM, January 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't know where else to post this. Still lost, still hurting. WH has yet to show remorse and I don't think he ever will.

I have an appointment for a consultation with a L next week.

I also have an appointment to start with a new IC.

I have to do something, WH told me he is just waiting until I come around. He is done with IC, went for a few months this time. He says he is fixed, I am the problem.

Hopefully these two steps help me break out of this limbo.


BW me- 51
WH 50
3 DS
M 27 yrs
STD/PA? in 91 Many EA's, LT(10 yr)EA/PA
DDays: many -started 2005
TT never stopped, don't think I will ever have the full truth
SOW- WH's former HS 'friend/whore'
Limbo

Posts: 307 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: The Heartland
Abbondad
♂ Member
Member # 37898
Default  Posted: 7:36 AM, January 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How could I have missed this sub-forum? It fits me to a tee.

Been in limbo for three months. WW moved out last week and is still in the affair fog. Reconciliation clearly does not seem likely so I am 180ing, working through my fears of being alone, and waiting for prozac to take effect so I can gather my strength to D. I never realized that hope can be such a powerful enemy.


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1627 | Registered: Dec 2012
lknup
♀ Member
Member # 37433
Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, February 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think I belong here, but I have been posting in the Divorce forum also. I do think we are headed for divorce, but I don't know the time frame.
Right now my WH is continuing the affair (secretly) and does not want to work toward R. I am a SAHM, but looking for work. The tension in the house is horrible, but we are getting along in front of the kids pretty well. How long will we continue the charade? I don't know. I need to find a way to ease the tension because it is killing me.
If I ask him to leave it will destroy the kids, and maybe me as well. He is the type to come out smelling like a rose in spite of his actions. I need some time to get my ducks in a row..... Because of that I am thankful he is not in a hurry to divorce. I am not clear on my next steps, except more IC and looking for work. Just hurting and at times feeling so hopeless.


Me: BW
He: WH
DD fall 2012
Getting a Divorce!

Posts: 180 | Registered: Nov 2012
hurt314
♀ Member
Member # 31042
Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, March 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been having a hard time coming to terms with who I am and what I am teaching my three daughters about life and marriage.

I never thought I would be someone who didnt stand up for herself, who didnt know how to walk away from a bad relationship. But I just can't. I'm afraid that if we split up we would have to split custody and I would never see my children. I'm afraid of what they would learn about life from just him without me there to help.

I'm afraid of being alone. Every time I think that it's so bad I should leave, be does a nice thing and I'm sucked back in, thinking I was just crazy anyway.

It just feels like there is something wrong with me and I'll feel like this forever.

I'm starting to think that I caused the A. When I think about how I was then, it makes sense. Of course he wanted to be with her. Young, fresh, fun, attractive. I was old, washed up, grumpy, no fun. I wouldn't have wanted to be with me either. And I sure wouldn't want to be with me now.


Me-W-34
Him 36.
3 little girls.
He ruined our lives. Currently married and trying to make the best life for my children. There is no hope for us but I have hope for them.

Posts: 713 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Not Portland, Oregon... But close
PiQue
♀ Member
Member # 17575
Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, March 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I stayed in limbo for way, way too long. Years. Due to my own FOO issues, it took me a long time to find my own self worth. I wish I had kicked my own butt far sooner than what I did. Living with their mother in limbo has adversely affected my daughters and how they relate to their significant others. Now I'm having to backtrack and try create a fix for the next generation to prevent continuation of both old and new FOO issues.

If there is not immediate remorse and NC, it is doubtful to ever occur. Get off the sinking ship while you can.


Me/BW 50+
Him/WH 60+ Long Distance LTA
NEVER ignore your gut.


Posts: 2881 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: Mid-Atlantic Region
confused777
♀ New Member
Member # 39629
Default  Posted: 2:42 PM, July 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a feeling this will be my home for a while. The relationship was not perfect before the affair. He has anger management issues and I shut down emotionally. We had become pretty distant. In a way the fact that I brought his behavior into the light has put fire back in the relationship. I actually do know what I want.

I want him to be the man I thought I married. I want him to control his temper, not cheat on me and be a good guy. He said he will go to counseling to change.

The real truth is that I don't know if he loves me enough to make changes for me. I think he wants to be with me because he always get his way. I don't think he'll like a changed me.

To further complicate matters, I have an 18 month son who loves his dada (but loves his mama more I guess I am waiting to see how things progress.


Choices are easy to make, even the most difficult of choices are made in the span of a heart beat. It is coming to terms with the results of these choices which can take a very long time indeed.

In limbo

At least this fence is mine to own and


Posts: 38 | Registered: Jun 2013
Hasslesmom
♀ New Member
Member # 39797
Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, July 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i also am in limbo. dday was a month ago tomorrow. we are in MC and he says he wants the marriage to work out but i dont believe it. i had checked on getting my own mortgage while still on ours together and thats a no go w/o a divorce decree. i had hoped by telling him what i have done that it would wake him up. nope, i think i truly want this to work out but i know it cant if i am the only one willing to put the effort into it. deep in my heart i feel like that he is just barely trying, just enough to say that he did. then when i finally say enought and leave his ass he wont be the bad guy because he kinda tried. i just dont think that he realizes he IS the bad guy already, idk what half ass trying will get him. its not going to make him look any better in my eyes anyway. if anything it just angers and hurts more. BTW today is our ten year anniversary!! yeah, real good days for me !! i told him that i am going to stop worrying about what he does or doesnt do and work on myself. i am doing alot of reading to try and figure out REALLY why i am still here. why not just walk away and try to start over. walking away just feels wrong though. this freaking sucks, but its good to know that i am not the only one in limbo!!

Posts: 16 | Registered: Jul 2013
Jennifer99
♀ Member
Member # 39551
Default  Posted: 2:07 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I guess I'm in limbo too.

EA-WH 1yr+ out from Dday and NC just now looking at ME, showing remorse a little, answering questions, etc.

I've been in IC for 2 mos.

I went in depressed and didn't know it, desperate, STUCK, ill, anxious, emotional and a total mess.

Yay for klonopin and prozac - once I started to sleep I felt a little better, then the proz kicked in and I'm feeling a little better everyday.

From Dday to my "give up moment" and starting IC I was working f/t and the sole support for our home/family, going to school f/t, having multiple health issues, and overwhelmed with all that and ds's activities. I was hanging on by a thread.

Over the last 2 mos since finding SI and going to IC I feel less crazy (gaslighted), more self-assured, more self-respect, more sure "i can do this" whatever "this" is, and calmer. It no longer seems insurmountable to look at this situation and think "what do I want to do".

My IC is seeming a little dang pushy about it all

I think she knows I want to D, has known, and just wants me to admit it and begin planning.

I'm still working out that I have no responsibility for his lazy, irresponsible, uncaring, selfish self. I don't have to make sure he has a home and food. I don't have to make sure he can be around for ds.

Not very long ago, week or so, my ds gave me the greatest gift - he freed me from my greatest fear and anxiety by telling me he could tell I was really struggling and he wanted me to know that no matter what happened he knows he is loved by dad and me and no matter what he'll be ok, with both parents together or one at a time.

So.

Why am I still feeling "limbo"?

I feel like if I tell WH that I want a divorce, move out or I'm moving out - I have to be ready to MOVE because he prefers to NEVER take any kind of action.

At this point I think moving would be stupid because I'm trying to finish school to hopefully get a better job and will move for that - how many times am I wanting to move in the near future?

So IC says "I understand that, no hurry right? Cautious and planning is good right? But what are you DOING?"

She is right - there is still some part of me that allows WH to affect me, reach me.

I did 180 for a long time before I even knew what it was. The only "errors" came when there was a ds-activity mostly regarding transport - we only have 1 car between us.

So now I have a list of things I want "done" before I can "move on".

But there is always a part of me that hopes WH "gets smart" before I get it all done.

Stupid of me and sometimes I reflect - maybe lazy of me - wanting company but not wanting to start all over again but then I think "is this the company I want forever"? Eh, ish.

So, count me in limbo but REALLY working on it.


Posts: 556 | Registered: Jun 2013
Shockedman
♂ Member
Member # 39376
Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hasslesmom:
I hear you! I just had my 10 year anniversary on July 12. I went to Vegas instead of staying home to pity myself. My WW had d-day 1 about 10 weeks ago and d-day 2 about 2 weeks ago. I think she has ended the A for good, but who knows. We seperated on d-day 1 and are pretty much just fighting on a daily basis. We both are in IC. She seems remorseful, but is still saying she doesn't know what she wants. I am not a patient man. We have been together for 17 years and married 10. If she can't decide in the next month that she wants to work towards R, then I am out.

i told him that i am going to stop worrying about what he does or doesnt do and work on myself. i am doing alot of reading to try and figure out REALLY why i am still here. why not just walk away and try to start over. walking away just feels wrong though. this freaking sucks, but its good to know that i am not the only one in limbo!!

Same for me! I have been trying to "diagnose" her for weeks and I decided this timne would be better spent on myself and my own healing. I was a good husband. We had problems. Everyone does, but nothing to justify this horrible mess. I keep thinking when she gives me a little shred of hope...."Maybe we could..." but then I come back to reality. She abandoned me, shit on our life and now I am the one still waiting for her to pull her head out of her ass. I was 60% done filling out the D paperwork and I stopped when she ended the A and the fog started to lift. but I do think the fog lifts in incremental stages and how long are we supposed to wait? What if it takes 6 months? A year? Then what? Limbo land? That suck and I am going to have to make a decision. I have a life to live and plans for my future. It is time for all of us to take the power back and not let our cheating partners control the shots. Take charge and forge ahead. It has to be better than this right?

Jennifer99:
Feeling the same way. I know D is the right direction, but I am afraid to admit it to myself. I have loved her for so long, I just keeping thinking......"What if...." and "Maybe she will...." but in reality I think I am just putting off the inevitable. She is too damaged for me and it will take too long. I can't wait and stop my life for someone who caused the whole mess to begin with. I have too many things (like you) to deal with. House, business with her, but I can't help but think God (or universe if you aren't religious) will take care of it for me. When I make a step, something will fall into place for me. Fear is a bitch. It keeps us stuck. We need to forge ahead. Good Luck!

[This message edited by Shockedman at 3:31 PM, August 6th (Tuesday)]


Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013
Jrazz
♀ Guide
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17860 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
kiki1
♀ Member
Member # 37184
Default  Posted: 2:59 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YEA!!!!!!

I didnt know this existed!!!

Yea!!!

thank you Jrazz


Posts: 617 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: new york
Holly-Isis
♀ Member
Member # 13447
Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, I begged for this thread then didn't really post because I didn't know what to say.

I just wanted to share that though I'm likely in limbo for a while still, it really pays off to work on yourself. I've been with a great IC and am getting so much better. When things are down, when we're fighting or struggling, it doesn't hurt me as much. I'm not looking at him to fix anything but himself and have accepted that he'll do it when he decides to...or not.

That said, when I'm ready to move on he can choose to try and catch up...or not. Heck, I might not even want to give him another chance. Every day together that he doesn't do the work is a chance wasted.

Every time I think he's found his rock bottom and will decide to truly work on himself, he manages to blameshift or deny the issue away. Working on myself has helped so much in not accepting that, not accepting the reality he seems to need to create to keep things in stasis. I can look at him and tell him that no, I don't own that. He made poor communication choices, or avoided an issue or went ahead and did it his way. So the result is his issue, his to own. Not mine.

Damn it feels good. IC says I need to work on engaging less, but this is still a big step.

He told me the night before last that one day I might truly understand he loved me and I'd be sad if it was after he was gone (ie- dead, not D). I told him the flip side of that was that one day he might realize just how unloved I felt for decades and that he could've changed it if only he didn't decide everything had to be done his way, on his terms.

Last night he said that he knew I will probably leave once I have enough money saved up now that I have a job. I didn't confirm or deny. Let him live in limbo for awhile.

[This message edited by Holly-Isis at 2:14 PM, August 18th (Sunday)]


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

Posts: 11229 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Just a fool in limbo
kg201
♂ Member
Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 4:59 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holly-Isis, Am I reading your post correctly that you are living with your WS but basically in an in-house separation?

I'm curious because one of the options my WW is pushing is for us to stay in the same house (we have 3 kids), but have an open marriage. I can't imagine doing this as I know it would be hard for me, but I am curious if this is what you are doing, and how that is going? It seems like you are finding peace with it.

K


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
---------------------------------
"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 725 | Registered: Aug 2013
Holly-Isis
♀ Member
Member # 13447
Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not really. We're M, we get along. He would call it R, I call it limbo because he's not doing the work.

He's been transparent, honest, gone NC...he just hasn't owned what he did beyond the umbrella term of an A. He also hasn't dealt with why he's cheated.

So I go to IC and work on myself not focusing on him. I work on how to deal with what my FOO issues and M have made me think about myself, how to handle the horrible emotions when there's a fight or I'm stressed.

I haven't told him I want to D, but I did basically tell him I feel like I'm in a loveless M. In the plain of lethal flatness. I'm at peace knowing that if I decide I'm ready to D, I've worked through my other issues and can focus on dealing with the D and making sure the kids are in the healthiest situation possible under the circumstances.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

Posts: 11229 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Just a fool in limbo
emotionalgirl
♀ Member
Member # 40184
Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel as if I have found a home on this thread...LIMBO, that is where I am. My situation is too new and this is a 25 yr marriage. I don't feel as if I can just walk away, but he won't give up his " friend" either. He swears this is just a friendship and that it is not a PA he can't see that his lying and sneaking around to see her still means it is an EA ( I have no proof it is anything but). He swears he doesn't want to lose me and our marriage and that he loves me but yet still maintains this "friendship". I am seeing IC working on me and trying to decide where life will lead. Right now staying is what works in my world, we have loans to pay and I need to get my house fixed up and in order. I also have to loose some weight so I can generally feel better about myself. Maybe then I can decide wether it is R or D....right now it is just a broken hearted Limbo 💔 .


1st D day: Saturday July 20,2013
2nd D day....when the s**t really hit the fan and the truth came out.Saturday August 3,2013
3rd D day: Friday August 16, 2013...NC sent Friday Aug 30 4th D day NOV 11
Me: BS
Him: WH
Married 25 years....finally in R

Posts: 373 | Registered: Aug 2013
Idkanymore
♀ New Member
Member # 40458
Helpless  Posted: 2:47 PM, September 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

New here, found out my husband was having an ongoing affair back in march.
I don't know all the codes yet sorry! :)
I just turned 30 we have 2 kids and we have been together for almost 15 years married for 3.
We have been trying to make things work after a brief stay at his parents house. But I am a mess. I am completely depressed, I know way too much information and its killing me. I don't know how to forgive and I know I will never forget.
The whole story is almost a made for tv drama.

Posts: 1 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Mass
Holly-Isis
♀ Member
Member # 13447
Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, September 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IDKA-
I'm sorry you find yourself here. These threads tend to move slow, post in JFO or General too, I know there are more people waiting to give you sympathy and support.

Take the time you need to make your decision.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

Posts: 11229 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Just a fool in limbo
TammG6210
New Member
Member # 40572
Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel like something is wrong with me.I am 19 years post D-day and for the last month I have been dwelling on it. Something really stupid triggered me and now I feel like it just happened.We are still together.

My WH was, and is a really great man. We had been married for 8 years and had 4 children ( the youngest being under a year old with health problems that took up most of my time) when he cheated with a skanky married co-worker. He says it wasn't about me, it was about how low he felt about himself. He took a low paying job and felt bad that we couldn't make ends meet.I was also preoccupied with taking care of 4 young children and not giving him the attention he needed, even though I had no idea he was bothered by it. He said that they met outside of work a few times (only after she told me this) and had sex once, which he claims he couldn't even finish because it felt so wrong. I have always had a difficult time believing that. Why go through all the trouble of sneaking around only to stop short of what you were there for? He says he ended it right after that and eventually quit that job to get away from her. The OW was planning to leave her husband for my husband but my husband told her was never leaving me and never considered leaving me.

Two months before he quit,(from the time line I've put together, the affair was over by this point) the OW's husband confronted my husband. My husband denied doing anything and told me that the OW's husband wanted to talk to me. I was confused, but called him anyway. The OW's husband told me that the OW told him that there was a guy at work that she was attracted to but he was unavailable. I asked to talk to the OW, of course at this point in time I had no idea she was the OW, I thought she was some nut who was interested in my husband.I asked her is she was wanted my husband and she told me no. I had no reason to believe that anything had gone on between my WH and the OW so I got a good laugh out of it and forgot all about it. How stupid was I? I was so sure that my husband was the one person that would never do that.

Two months later my husband quit. Within two days of him quitting, the OW's husband is calling me and telling me that my husband and his wife had met up a few times and kissed. My husband denied this. I was still incredibly stupid because I believed him and decided to confront the OW and find out why she was telling her husband these lies. I arrogantly marched down to where she worked and demanded to now why she was telling her husband these things. She told me because it was the truth. I asked her when and she said months ago. I asked her where and she gave me the location. At that moment I knew it was true. During this confrontation two of her coworker friends were present. The OW was smirking at me and looking at the other two people and they were all smirking. I looked at them and said, "what's so funny, this bitch is kissing my husband." They told me it was over and done with and let it go. I was humiliated and shocked.

I go home and tell my WH that I know it's true. His reaction was to leave the house. He left me there with the kids after hearing the most devastating news possible and I try hard to keep it together for the kids. He returned later after going to my brothers house and we had what I have since learned is hysterical bonding. I needed to claim back what was mine.

During the first several months, I am begging WH to tell me everything and I'm getting only bits of information after I drag it out of him.Some of it makes no sense and other portions he changes the story. I am forced to contact the OW and her husband to try to find out what is true. The OW assures me that they only met a few times and only kissed. Devastating nonetheless. So that was an ugly period and I couldn't believe my wonderful husband wold do that. WH tries to do all he can to assure me that she meant nothing and that he was sorry and all that. We go to MC and soon I am released and he continues on individually.

Time goes on and I try to cope with this. For the most part I go through my days completely shattered and not knowing how to stop feeling so bad.I constantly replay it in my mind. I obsessively go through calenders and pay stubs trying to figure out which days they were together. WH can't or won't give me details like dates. I look back and try to see if there was something huge going on between me and WH. I remember great times me and WH had during this time and can't make sense of it. It consumes my every thought and waking moment. All the while I try to pretend that nothing happened and go about taking care of the kids. Dying inside the whole time.

6 months after D-day I get pregnant. When I am 4 months pregnant I get yet another call from the OW's husband (oddly enough is the exact date, one year later that I got that I first heard the names of the OW and her husband) so he can tell me that he found out more (isn't he helpful?). He found out that some oral sex was involved. I immediately call WH at work and he denies it. he was working night shift at the time.I called my best friend and cried to her. When WH comes home on the morning he immediately tells me that it's true and that they had sex once. I leave and go to my best friends house and as soon as she opens the door I lose it.

We are right back where we were a year before. Only this time what I learned was worse. The OW's husband continues to call us and drive by our house. We go to the police and he is charged with harassment. WH calls the OW and tells her off. he tells her that his wife is pregnant and doesn't need this and she is on the phone going, "aww" like a real bitch.

I did my best to not torture my WH with nonstop questions. Most of the time I failed. I would start to fell like I was going to be ok, and something, usually trivial would bring it all right back to me. Every year around the time that the affair was going on and I found out would put me into such a depression. the smell of the air that time of year would cause a downward spiral. This went on every year for months at a time for about 17 years. There were a few years here an there where I didn't sink.

I do believe my husband loves me and he does all he can to show me that he does. I also believe that he felt bad about himself at that time which made him easy prey to this snake. It doesn't help me get the images out of my head. I don't want to dwell anymore. This has taken up so much of my life. How can I not let a trigger destroy me for weeks or months at a time?

Sorry this was so long winded. I'm trying to live in the now and not in the past. It's hard and I don;t know how to stop dwelling.


Posts: 1 | Registered: Sep 2013
Notmetoo2011
♀ Member
Member # 32912
Default  Posted: 9:12 AM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tamm
Sorry that you are still in such pain from this.. I'm no expert, but it sounds like you still haven't processed your grief from the original DDay 19 years ago. Do you talk to your H about how you're feeling or do you just rug sweep? Have you tried IC? If not I would suggest you find a counsellor to help you deal with your feelings so that you can heal.
(((Tamm)))


Me-BW 49
SAWH 51
Married 27 years.
4 children
D-Day 26/07/11
Multiple PAs, ONS, Porn
In limbo land

Posts: 271 | Registered: Jul 2011
strongerdaybyday
♀ Member
Member # 40264
Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So I'm in Limbo. I've officially moved out. The loneliness is unbearable, I think I miss him so much, but then I wonder is it love or fear of the unknown/being alone? Does that make sense?


Me-BW Him - WH
Married 6 years, together 13+ years
D-Day Summer 2013
children-3
If it is what it is then what is it?

**If I edit I'm correcting a typo!**


Posts: 384 | Registered: Aug 2013
Topic Posts: 437
Pages: 1 · 2 · 3 · 4 · 5 · 6 · 7 · 8 · 9 · 10 · 11 · 12 · 13 · 14 · 15 · 16 · 17 · 18 · 19 · 20 · 21 · 22

Return to Forum: I Can Relate Post Reply to this Topic
adultry
Go to :
madness  
© 2002 - 2014 SurvivingInfidelity.com. All Rights Reserved.