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 Time Ticks On (original poster member #33772) posted at 7:33 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

Hi,

As I go through this now myself, I found myself thinking about my brother. He was working two full time jobs to support his wife and three year old. He found out his wife was cheating with someone she met online.

He confronted her and after going back and forth, he said I wish I could just kill myself. That bitch went to the kitchen grabbed her gun off the fridge, through it on the bed, and said"just do it then". Before she got to the door he shot himself in the head. He was 23 years old.

She told everyone what happened. buried my brother, moved her AP into the house and slept in the bed he died on. Karma has still not hit her but I keep hoping.

FBW- 50
FWH-51
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 25 years- together 27

What doesn't kill me, scars me.

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neverbelieve ( member #32711) posted at 7:37 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

Oh my God. I'm so sorry. What a heartless bitch. There is no karma bad enough for her.

When the infrastructure of a building is gone the collapse is inevitable.

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why2008 ( member #18378) posted at 7:40 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

(((Feelthrownaway)))

I am so sorry for the loss of your brother.

I'm also sorry that your niece/nephew has to live with such a monster.

Me - BS - 46
Him - WS - 44
Two daughters / 10 and 7

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Opheliapain ( member #33596) posted at 7:44 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

HOLY COW! Can someone sue for custody of that 3 year old?

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Me - BW 38
Him - WH 33
Don't fuck with me fellas! This ain't my first time at the rodeo!
DD - 3/28/11

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horizen ( member #32981) posted at 7:45 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

Wow, that's horrible. I'm sorry.

Don't give priority to someone that only considers you an option.

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 Time Ticks On (original poster member #33772) posted at 7:46 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

Thank you. No, it isn't a crime here to do what she did though it is in some states. The police dept really wanted to be able to charge her. They were as horrified as we were.

FBW- 50
FWH-51
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 25 years- together 27

What doesn't kill me, scars me.

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horseluvr ( member #30097) posted at 7:46 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

what a cold hearted bitch..Im so sorry you have lost your brother and a child has lost a father. Maybe karma is saving up something extra special for that wretched woman.

BS me WS him...3 great kids
DD 10-09 OW younger but doesnt look it,face looks like a dried up cow pie..note to c**tface:sunscreen

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confusedkitty ( member #33824) posted at 7:47 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

What a callous bitch. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope karma hits here soon.

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squiffle ( member #13015) posted at 8:02 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

She sounds like a sociopath.

I have no words... except I'm so sorry for your loss.

Moved on. Moved away. Happily married to a good man. Life gets better after this shit.

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2ndbest ( member #32446) posted at 8:02 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

I'm so sorry. There will be a special room in hell for her.

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Betty Betty ( member #31714) posted at 8:30 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

O

M

G

She is beyond sociopath. WHO does this? I am so sorry. She sounds not human.

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Tearsoflove ( member #8271) posted at 8:57 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

Do you get to see the child?

"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson

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heart_in_a_blend ( member #24191) posted at 9:01 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

That's like okay, I'm going to shoot myself in the head to get even with you.

What a tragic experience, but thanks for sharing.

In life, much of what one grieves one never had.

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 Time Ticks On (original poster member #33772) posted at 9:28 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

He didn't do it to get even. He suffered from depression since he was 13 and found his father hanging from a tree.

No, I don't get to see his daughter.

FBW- 50
FWH-51
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 25 years- together 27

What doesn't kill me, scars me.

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Ellejay ( member #30498) posted at 9:41 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

Yes, that is definitely the worst thing I've heard regarding all this crap so far. I am so sorry, I don't know what else to say. Even the crying icons don't express it enough.

Hugs & Peace to you

Ellejay

Married 25 years now divorced.
D-Day: 20/11/10
Me: 48.5 plus 10% GST
Him: mental age 6 (apologies to all 6 year olds)
Betrayal: Who cares anymore?

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Ghostwalker ( member #31991) posted at 9:42 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

Oh sweet Lord, how horrible! I am so sorry for your loss. How does she live with herself?!?!!

This is the Hour of Lead --
Remembered, if outlived,
As Freezing persons, recollect the Snow --
First -- Chill -- then Stupor -- then the letting go --

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Louise2011 ( member #33383) posted at 9:45 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

The first thing I did when I realized (f?)WH was playing me and breaking NC was to make sure all the guns and ammo were in the safe. Then I locked it and gave the key to one of our neighbours who is a police officer to hold on to for us. Thank you for sharing your story. Your story is the perfect example of what I feared, mixing dangerous weapons with high emotions is never a combination I will ever trust regardless of who is involved or how well I think I know them. It's just not worth the risk. thank you.

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doesiteverend ( member #33511) posted at 9:53 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

I'm sorry for your loss. That is terrible.

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Tearsoflove ( member #8271) posted at 10:33 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

That's sad. Maybe she'll look up her dad's family one day.

"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson

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still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 11:00 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

You, and your family, have my deepest sympathy.

I have read some jaw-dropping stories here, but this has got to be the worst!!!!

I pray that she gets hers someday. (and we all know she will).

Prayers for his daughter.

Me: BS Him: WH DDay: more than 1
LTEA: at least a couple

Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen

D final 2/23

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