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User Topic: Dear Remorseful WSes… It's your choice, too...
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Default  Posted: 10:06 AM, August 9th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just wish to hell I had chosen differently.

Compartmentalization only prolongs the inevitable. Just look at the Titanic.

Posts: 91 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Somewhere with my head up my rear
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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, August 9th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, Trytoforgive,
I also needed this. Have been having a particularly tough few weeks.
I needed the reminder.

In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!

Posts: 888 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Northeast
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am bumping this post because it has really helped me at times, and some of the posts I have read lately make me wonder if it wouldn't help others too.

Posts: 9 | Registered: Nov 2011
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Default  Posted: 11:33 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

trytoforgive, Thank you! 3 years out and still going for it.

WW (me) 48
BH (him) 52
Married 25 years
DDay #1 12/20/10
DDay #2 1/10/11

Posts: 107 | Registered: Mar 2011
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Default  Posted: 12:17 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As a BS I honestly say I admire the WS on here. For knowing that you made the mistake, and taking the harder road of looking within and trying to make your relationship a better place. Have no fear, the easiest road would have been to walk away. On behalf of myself, a BS who wishes her WH would acknowledge the wrong and want to make it right, thankyou.

On any given day you have the power to say "my story is not going to end like this"
Me 41 BS
Him 41 WH
6 kids...7 weeks, 5,7,9,11&13
D day jan 29th 2014

Posts: 536 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Land down under
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