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20/20 Hindsight: What I should have done when I J F O
Good advice, good perspective, especially for newcomers to SI who are dazed and confused and clinging to a leaking PFD.
Swinging by and bumping.
Ditto to every point. It is so hard to realize this when you are in the midst of everything but these points are so valid.
bump. It's still true.
bump for newbies
wish I would have had this in April...
Wow. Just wow. Being almost a year from DDay #2, I soooo wish I would have had access to this 6 years ago.
BUT! There's no time like the present, right?
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bumping to page one again
Thank you for this wisdom. My WH says he is remorseful, but his actions say differently. He is tying to make me feel sorry for him and at some point it was working. I needed to hear this. I need to keep the course. Thank you.
Bump for newcomers ...
It still holds true for me.
Great to read, thank you. I'm going through that 'but if I make him mad, he'll leave me' stuff, even though I'm considering leaving HIM - old habits die hard.
This is such a wonderful post. I hope it gets bumped often. So many could use it.
It make me sad I didn't find this or a site like this sooner. I only found out about these sites a few years ago.
My second DDay was 9 years ago. But I put up with TT and withholding for 5 years and so much damage has been done that for the rest of my life I will wish I had married someone else. So sad, like my user name - I deserve more
[This message edited by IDeserveMore at 10:37 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday)]