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User Topic: Betrayed Men- Part 8
jjct
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Default  Posted: 4:18 AM, September 8th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So guys! ummm...how's yer nose?
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Posts: 5998 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
stilllovingher
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Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, September 9th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

mines been down by that ole grindstone, i hear WAL's has been too.


The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

Posts: 2383 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: still BFE, but now BFE, CA
Mypoorboys
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, September 10th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Damn jjct, Where's the girl in that pic? You hiding her in the bedroom? lol.
Update for me; closing on my house is now Sept. 14th. Will have almost 2 weeks to get it ready for the boys when I have my first custody time with them. Really sucks, but the ex slut says she will cooperate and try to make them as available as possible. We will see.
Still going back to court in Dec., (when I gain access to her 1099 form). Then file a motion to show case to reduce her alimony and child support payments. F her! she will be making at least $40,000 more a year by then.
Knew she would do this, she went back to work another two days, so I'm not paying her alimony in the amount stated by the asshole judge for 3 years, when she is quite capable of making more money than I, if she works full time.
Life's a bitch, when reality starts to bite at your hind quarters. F her and F her asshole Father.
Remember Medic, and all the rest of my brothers here; timing, timing, timing!!!
Started buying all the house needs, since she got all the household furnishings,(a result of settling the civil suit her Father filed against her and I). I know, what the F is he talking about. Most here know my story. If you don't, then it may be worth just glancing at my blog. It might save you some pain and suffering.
Thanks again everyone for all your support the past almost 2 years! Yikes!
Hang in there and I will check back often.
God Bless,
MPBs

Posts: 176 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: New Brunswick, New Jersey
wincing_at_light
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, September 10th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My wife put on her nurse hat and wanted me to tell you that you shouldn't drink Diet Coke because it erodes the myelin sheath and has been shown to contribute to the onset of Alzheimers and early dementia.

I told her you didn't have to worry about that.

She said, "Why not?'

I said, "Because it's not his Diet Coke."

She said, "What do you mean? It's on his kitchen counter?"

I said, "It belongs to the 22 y.o. co-ed who's taking the picture."

She said, "What co-ed?"

I said, "Where jj is involved, there's always a co-ed. If she's not in the picture, it's only because someone had to hold the camera. Thus, the Diet Coke is hers. Q.E.D."

My wife answered, "Well, he should warn her, then."

So, make my wife happy and warn your co-ed about the dangers of Diet Coke.


Machiavellian idiot savant

Posts: 6687 | Registered: Apr 2007 | From: Indiana
wonderingbull
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, September 10th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

wonderingbull checking in...

Been dating a cool woman! I think she'll keep me around... Been dancing, concerts, dinners, tailgating...

Lordy.... It sure is nice to really have the infidelity crap behind me and be moving on...

Never really thought I'd date again... Really believed it would me, my dog and my friends...

Sure is great to have a woman to do things with again... Unlike the ex, this woman actually likes to have conversations about things other than her...

Went dancing friday nite, deck party at my place Saturday nite and then to go italian for football watching last nite at her place...

Her mom told her to thank me for being nice to her daughter...

Out of town for three days starting tomorrow and then we're off to the tailgating house for the weekend for football and goofing off...

It took me 5 1/2 years to really recover from the affects of what the ex did... But when I realized that the past is the past and sorted and filed the crap away I was finally ready to peak over the walls I'd built...

I never really had been in a relationship where absolutely nothing is off limits to talk about... Pretty damn refreshing...

Hang in there guys... It's a process... I got my happy back and the price of the pain I paid was enormous but now it's a price that has paid off...

WB


The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor


Posts: 5893 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: A better place
Mypoorboys
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Default  Posted: 7:15 AM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My God WAL,
Completely forgot about the co-ed that was holding the diet coke!lol.Should've have known just by looking at jjct's smile.
Wonderingbull,
So happy for you man. I actually started dating a few weeks ago. Just one lady, she is elegant and seems sincere, but not yet in a position to let down my guard long enough to allow a sword thrust to the heart again.
5 and 1/2 years is a very long time buddy. I hope to be a fast learner and trump that number.
Enjoy life everyone. I'm just starting to.
MPBs

Posts: 176 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: New Brunswick, New Jersey
old dipstick
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Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What in the hell is that strange hook device growing out of jjct's head?


Her WW 60
Me BH 60
M 36 yr
D-day#1 fall of 76 OM#1 2NS
D-day#2 summer of 89 OM#2 LTA 8 yrs OM#3 Short Term A


Posts: 751 | Registered: Sep 2009
64fleet
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Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I dunno why he has a banana holder on his head.

Potassium low, JJ?


time wounds all heels

Posts: 5359 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: deliverance land
Tred
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Default  Posted: 1:18 PM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I thought it was for hanging mistletoe.


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3296 | Registered: Dec 2011
deeppurple
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Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm guessing as all of JJ'S shirts are drying on the line, Co-ed uses the hook to dry her intimates.


Me - BS 49
Her - WS 43
Married 16 yrs (together 17 yrs)
DD13 DS10 DS8 DS6
DDay 1 6.4.2010 dday 2 7.25.2010
Heading for divorce.
"Never look down on someone unless you are helping them up"

Posts: 522 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: Where the sun is shining & the surf is pumping
jjct
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Default  Posted: 6:28 AM, September 12th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I am so tempted to let the 22 y o co-ed meme play out. But, since we own our own shit here, I'll tell the troof -
It's a good SI-buddy taking the pic, from a Texas gtg awhile back.
I've been wondering why the top of my head has been bothering me. I'm gonna hafta have the banana hanger removed!
Very astute diet coke observation btw...
True. It's hers. Trust me, the warning's been given (about the effects)...

Y'all holler at me if you ever want to make it to a gtg down here...
We're still planning a menz only gtg at the beach for next summer? I like the outer banks - lotsa big houses with bunks for rent. Save yer nickles! (Hey, what are we doing with our noses to the grindstones anyway? Gotta carve out some fun for ourselves!)

LOVE bull's post!

I got my happy back and the price of the pain I paid was enormous but now it's a price that has paid off.

I see the "price" as an investment we make in ourselves - especially with all the great help from the guys here (m & w) at SI.

Just about every one of us comes stumbling in here, pretty much feeling destroyed, for sure...but if we follow the healing advice into ourselves, well...read bull's post again: there's the outcome!

I pray, we are all so much better from internalizing the wisdom here & healing...

Find your happy fellas.
Find your awesome!


Posts: 5998 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Mypoorboys
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Default  Posted: 7:11 AM, September 12th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

jjct,
Literation at it's best!
Short of taking the paint right off your classic 1962 corvette stingray, coke will not harm you anymore than breathing the air we must.
Of course, everything in moderation, (except the women, as in jjct's harem).
The get together at the outer banks, sounds like a great idea! Can I bring my fishing gear?
Sorry, jjct, didn't mean to start a, 'hailstorm', of comments regarding your headgear. Just so use to seeing you with a babe by your side or kissing your humble cheek!
Go man, Go, (from Dr. Suess), or something to that effect.
I'm on the path to rediscovery and so far it has been slow, but interesting. Maybe even refreshing.
All out there, as many have said, 'we all deserve better', and will prevail.
Thanks again, as always, to my mentors on this thread, too many to mention, but they have come and gone and inspired me to hold on, ignore the obvious, concentrate on the important and above all, Never, ever give up, give in, or compromise our dignity, honor and self worth.
Congrats to all who have moved on. Keep the snow fresh cause I'm following right in your footsteps!
God Bless All Betrayed Spouses.
MPBs

Posts: 176 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: New Brunswick, New Jersey
WallsAreUp
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, September 13th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This thread is great and I've spent hours reading through it. Just wanted to say hi from another guy new to this unfortunate club.


BH (me) 36
11 year old stepdaughter, 3 year old son
DDay: 9/1/12
Status: Divorced on 1/23/14!

Posts: 66 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Buckeye State
wert
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Default  Posted: 10:45 AM, September 14th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Deleted. Felt better to write than to share.

[This message edited by wert at 11:01 AM, September 14th (Friday)]



Posts: 1364 | Registered: Jan 2012
jjct
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Default  Posted: 10:55 PM, September 14th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome Walls)))!
New guy brings the beer.

Hope you're working on the 180 and getting stronger. Keep in mind, the 180 is for you - not to make her do such and such.

I liked the suggestion of getting a little VAR & keeping it on you (from your thread in JFO), any spy stores in your area?

No remorse in her. You can't put it there, either. Sorry pard - it sucks. If you can limit your interactions with her, I think it will help you mightily. She might come around, she might not. Either way, you'll have been working on getting strong and healing all on your own, thank you very much.

If you click on your profile - there's a search box for members. Type in the name: "Bigger" and read his excellent advice in JFO. He really helps in getting our heads together with a PLAN and finding our balls. Some of the best stuff on here.
*Glad* you found us.


Posts: 5998 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
jjct
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Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, September 14th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

wert)))
Here man, have one on me
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Posts: 5998 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
jjct
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Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, September 14th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

oops

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, September 14th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

shiite!

Posts: 5998 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
jjct
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Default  Posted: 11:04 PM, September 14th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i messed up

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 11:04 PM, September 14th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

the thread

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