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User Topic: Attention all bus riders!
tesla
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Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, September 6th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think I'm officially allowed on the bus as it's been 8 months now.
so...hello bus!

I'm bringing some warm apple pie and homemade whip cream....seriously, it's a foodgasm...


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4745 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
gma56
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Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, September 6th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

---->Care
I hope you are doing a happy dance.

gma

[This message edited by gma56 at 7:22 PM, September 6th (Thursday)]


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, September 6th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo hoo! Thanks, Tesla.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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tlartclark
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Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, September 6th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

riding along with you, happy for the great company

opportunity knocked recently, but as much as tried, I was just so not into him, reminded me too much of ex


Me - BW - divorced, recovered and happy
Him - who cares
2 amazing sons
D-day 6/2008
Divorced 1/5/11
Sometimes the path of least resistance just makes the road longer.
Sometimes you have to head straight on into the pain to come out the other side

Posts: 2698 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Connecticut
ManBearDivorce
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Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, September 6th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello everybody, Was just wondering before I board the bus if the majority of males get off the bus earlier? But for me I'm going to ride this bus for a while. Been since march for me so it makes it 5 months. I was searching for some but cold turkey is the best. I went cold turkey to get off cigarettes. I have been smoke free for 4 years now. So, I know I can be good with the bus.

I'll take the 7 row seat to the left. Favorite seat in school.


Posts: 342 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: St.Paul Minnesota
cayc
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, September 6th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does the bus have wi-fi?

I guess it doesn't matter since I'm on it anyway


"I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning how to sail my ship." - Louisa May Alcott

Posts: 3157 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
gma56
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Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, September 6th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MBD- I don't think the men get off the bus any sooner.
Tesla brought pie ?
Tlart-it's always good company on the bus. Definitely more laughs and less drama.


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, September 6th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo!! I'm not a Newbie, NIK, just been quietly huddled in the back, hoping to pick up hints on the best way to tuck and roll when the bus stops.

I'm a chocoloholic, so I brought fixin's for chocolate martinis and some high-end chocolates. The chocolate martinis are great - only takes a couple to knock me out and lots of time can pass before I'm awake again! Makes the time on the bus pass much more quickly when you are unaware!!

BTW, Nature_Girl, if you have been on the bus for years and years, your 3 kids must be all close to 10 now..... I haven't had so many chocolate martinis that I can't do simple math.... yet.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2476 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
LoveHerStill
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Default  Posted: 5:47 AM, September 7th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo with a capital P.

2 years, 5 Months for me.

I feel like a homeless person who rides all over town to stay warm.

Last time was a few days before dday with XWW.

I kinda already feel sorry for the first lucky lady. She won't be able to sit down for a while after I get off the bus!


Me BH-45
Her WW-44
Married-20yrs
Together-26yrs
D-Day 4/11/10
Divorced 9/13/2010
XWW Married OM 5/23/2011

There is hope. Once you truly commit to focusing on yourself and letting go, it comes back, and you will appreciate it like never before.


Posts: 532 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Seattle, WA
Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 7:55 AM, September 7th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

**Waves Hi to everyone**

It's been 15 months for me.
No prospects and not looking.

Tesla made pie!?!?!?!?

Yum.

ETA: took advice from here when I was lurking and BOB is now living in my house

[This message edited by Lola2kids at 7:56 AM, September 7th (Friday)]


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1457 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, September 7th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo. For SO long. I hope it's true it's like riding a bike; I'm afraid I've forgotten how.


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 9044 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, September 7th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo.

2/11 was last time. With STBXWH.


Posts: 1306 | Registered: Feb 2010
AlmostFree
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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, September 7th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG, it's been 3 1/2 years for me. Hadn't thought about it until I saw the thread. I want to be near the beer cooler.


Me BW 44, Him STBXAWH 42
DS 10, DD 7
I threw him out 9/2009, D-Day 10/2009
Married 12yrs, Divorcing

When they show you who they are, believe them.


Posts: 222 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: PA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:11 PM, September 7th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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Chili
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Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, September 7th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

5.5 months and not much interested in tent poles. Can I get a training wheel punch card or something?

Booze seem taken care of, but I have to say for a bunch of wonky celibates, your food choices are kinda aphrodisiac-ish. Well..all except for the soft gummy bear thing...that just ain't doin' it...even for the window lickers I suspect.

I have batteries to contribute since it sure seems like ya'll need 'em.

Oh - and I will soon have a quilt to throw in the mix...or rather throw somewhere. Given its likely history, we might have to hang it from the luggage rack as our "colors."


Me: BSO
Him: Assclown
Too many years tied up with him.
April-May 2012 pretty much sucked.
"I'd love to give a dog a bone, but I'm not gonna stick around to help you" - Jack White

Posts: 242 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Reality
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Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, September 7th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Almost fourteen months! Wasn't sure what this bus was all about until I started to read. I was just stopping in to New Beginnings and spied it....I've looked around a little in this forum before and didn't know we had this bus!

I'm almost divorced, and not sure where my new beginning directions will take me but I am So Very Happy to be almost done with the divorce part.

I want to sit up close to the front and honk the horn!!


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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, September 7th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Compartmented, we're always looking for drivers.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15435 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
kernel
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Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, September 7th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think this bus needs some nachos to go with the margaritas, so I'll have them brought in from the Mexican place in town. What's the movie tonight?


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5336 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, September 7th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ooooo, wildbananas! I can drive?? Are there rules on where?? I've always hunkered after a "Thelma and Louise" style trip!

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ManBearDivorce
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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, September 7th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks gma

But there is a over welming amount of woman here compared to men. Maybe the guys just lurk and stay quite. Positives for me, I get free food from the nice ladies.


Posts: 342 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: St.Paul Minnesota
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