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User Topic: Attention all bus riders!
torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, September 7th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jeez, I am on the dam bus too.
Not even a Bob here.

I hate riding in the back! It makes me sick.


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 10:44 PM, September 7th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't even know who the driver is anymore. But I do know I now have a hankering for margaritas and nachos.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15449 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
gma56
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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, September 7th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh how fun ! The party bus is getting bigger.

Torn- if ya don't like the back of the bus with us partiers, just move forward or upstairs. (but we ARE the fun ones)

Need some good music, drinks, food, and a fun weekend road trip.

[This message edited by gma56 at 10:53 PM, September 7th (Friday)]


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
noone
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Default  Posted: 12:23 AM, September 8th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo...lets forget the ONS about 6 weeks ago after a year on the bus that lost me a friend, k? I'll share my riesling...


what the caterpillar believes is the end of life, the butterfly knows is just the beginning

Posts: 451 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Hell
tired_and_broken
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Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, September 8th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

POLO! Damn it to hell....


Christmas Day. With X. Barf. That one shouldn't even count.


Divorced 04/12/12
I am FREE!



Posts: 641 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Was in Florida/Now in Texas
Chili
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Default  Posted: 8:29 AM, September 9th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

noone and tired: I haven't been here long enough to have anything resembling a vote, but I'm saying neither of those count. So there. Whoever is driving this damn thing just keep your eyes on the road and keep stopping to pick up us hitchhikers from time to time...


Me: BSO
Him: Assclown
Too many years tied up with him.
April-May 2012 pretty much sucked.
"I'd love to give a dog a bone, but I'm not gonna stick around to help you" - Jack White

Posts: 242 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Reality
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Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, September 9th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I volunteered to drive because I want to honk the horn. I picked "Thelma and Louise" for the movie just for fun - I'm not driving off a cliff! But we can stop at bars and cheap hotels if everybody wants.

What are the driver duties, anyway? Do I get to pick destinations, or is there a selection committee? Right now, it's round and round in circles until somebody's sick.


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gma56
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Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, September 9th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What are the driver duties, anyway? Do I get to pick destinations, or is there a selection committee?
Well when I was the fulltime driver for many years.......now just back on for the ride.
I let everyone go where ever they wanted and if no requests, it was driver's choice.

On this bus driver can eat, talk on phone, and drink. No rules because we make the rules.

Horn sounds like your favorite song/music. FYI.

Enjoy the drive.
gma

[This message edited by gma56 at 8:43 PM, September 9th (Sunday)]


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
macakipa
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, September 9th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Make room for a another passenger!

December 12, 2011 was the day I started earning enough badges to be on this bus.

sigh

I miss TRUE intimacy!


M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 4:35 PM, September 10th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo!!!

Can we go to Margueritaville?.... I miss drinks on the beach.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5744 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
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Default  Posted: 7:42 AM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I miss drinks on the beach.

Beach it is! Outer Banks, North Carolina, here we come!


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:52 AM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yea! Bus roadtrip!


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Three months down.

Just curious - is anyone else on the bus still on birth control? Or is that just me being wishful, especially now that it's free after the health care reform?


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ama, I am. Don't plan to go off it either.


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2624 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ditto here. Although in all fairness, its primary purpose is regulating perimenopausal hormonal madness.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm on permanent birth control - I got snipped after the last banana. So yes and yes.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Outer Banks... Yay I have NEVER been there....


permanent birth control here... although might have to check the condom dates...can never be too careful. Some germs just don't wash off.

Where are the marghueritas... I'll have a tall one. Do they have cabana boys in the outer banks???


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5744 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
brokenapart
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Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

[This message edited by brokenapart at 6:01 PM, September 11th (Tuesday)]


me- BS
2 great kids
Divorced & living again.

"Let go or get dragged" - beaner

Life is Good


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 7:47 PM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So much fun!!!!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5744 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
HappilyUnMarried
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Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bus rider here! 3 months and counting. But I have trustworthy BOB sitting with me... he never lets me down.

Just curious - is anyone else on the bus still on birth control?

Maybe it's just wishful thinking... But I hit my deductible already so I opted for a IUD. I'm 48, it lasts 5 years, so theoretically this may be the last time I will have to worry about it. Even if I stay on the bus for the whole 5 years I also get the benefit of little to no periods... so it's worth it! But BOB doesn't mind one way or another... he's such a great guy to share a seat with!


True happiness comes from within, not from someone else.† Donít make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy

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