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User Topic: Attention all bus riders!
spincycle
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Default  Posted: 10:04 AM, October 14th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Months, I can't recall how many.
Frankly, I'm just not interested at the moment. Too complicating.


Me, 37 BH
WS, 32, and 6 (now 10) (now 12)separate affairs
DS 5, and DD 2.
D-DAY 11-18-04
Divorced 2-2012, if only I had listen to you all in 04, if only I had run away.

Posts: 1510 | Registered: Nov 2004 | From: Houston
time2grow
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Member # 35983
Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, October 15th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The last stop I saw was for the beach. I found my spot!



Posts: 1721 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Missouri
BrokenSpirit50
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Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, October 15th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Poloooooo.....ooo...oooo There is an echo in here. 10 mos and counting.

Someone mentioned the Grand Canyon. Can we get a map? I think we are in the Sahara Desert.

I'm so lost


Me BS 54
Him WH 55
M 32 yrs - together 40 yrs
Kids 0
D-Day 12-18-11 (WH didn't want to R)
Divorced 6-21-12 Done!

If the grass is greener on the other side....water your own lawn.


Posts: 239 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Midwest
gma56
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DOH!  Posted: 11:08 PM, October 15th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From Time2grow-This is depressing, itís been so long I donít know if things still work the way they should.
I think it's a matter of muscle memory...not to worry it, will be there when you're ready !

I'm going to be gone for a month but not getting off the bus. Should be a good time though.


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20383 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
nowiknow23
♀ Guide
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Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, October 15th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Heading somewhere fun, gma? Do tell!

Broken: how did you find that picture of NIK? I swear, she wears those damn pink boots everywhere.

Chili - you can have the damn boots, but they come with the bikini as a matched set.

Polo. 3 years, 10 months, 6 days (not counting or anything) but I think I am getting off of this bus tonight.
Damn, did we bounce tornasunder off the bus over the weekend? Man overboard!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25707 | Registered: Aug 2011
MortuusCor
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Default  Posted: 7:12 AM, October 16th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, this is embarrassing ... it took me until page 5 or 6 to actually understand what being a bus rider means.

Anyway .... um, shove over, so a gal can plant herself, ok?


Divorced. Very happy alone.

Posts: 149 | Registered: Sep 2012
Chili
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, October 16th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK:

I don't wanna the boots or the bikini that looks like it was made out of some unfortunate doilies or something. I mean really, if you're going to be on this bus - at least put some clothes on willya?

Please try to remember the nature of the bus? Or I'll tell on you to a guide or the person that started this thread.

Thank you and have a nice day.


Me: BSO
Him: Assclown
Too many years tied up with him.
April-May 2012 pretty much sucked.
"I'd love to give a dog a bone, but I'm not gonna stick around to help you" - Jack White

Posts: 242 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Reality
gma56
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DOH!  Posted: 10:40 PM, October 16th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

it took me until page 5 or 6 to actually understand what being a bus rider means.
Oh, MortuusCor, you are right, we should put a definition on the first page !!
WELCOME !!!


gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20383 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, October 17th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can y'all pick me up at the next stop? I need to get back on the bus, but I am ready to PAR-TAY!!!!


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

Posts: 1252 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness
cayc
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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, October 17th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This bus has a lot to recommend it!

Great company and I can indulge in some Manhattans without worry!


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3119 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
Chili
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Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, October 20th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What's the matter NIK? Hoping to get a blankie from somewhere to cover up that bikini? You're awfully quiet..well at least on this thread. You yakety yak everywhere else.

Where are we on this bus ride anyway?

Did we do a man overboard? Is circling around to rescue needed or is tornasunder gone for another 6 months?


Me: BSO
Him: Assclown
Too many years tied up with him.
April-May 2012 pretty much sucked.
"I'd love to give a dog a bone, but I'm not gonna stick around to help you" - Jack White

Posts: 242 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Reality
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, October 20th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can you come down this way and pick me up? We have lovely beaches and really nice weather this time of year!


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1358 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
gma56
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Default  Posted: 1:09 AM, October 21st (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can you come down this way and pick me up?

Oh, I think a trip down under is on the bus route ! Hell yes we can come enjoy some beaches,drinks, sun, drinks,sand, and drinks.

It's Saturday night and I have drinks on my mind.


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20383 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
rising.phoenix
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Default  Posted: 4:00 AM, October 21st (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

POLO

I am Marty McFly, dragging behind on my skateboard right now, 5 months. But I don't want to lose y'all, I have a feeling I'll be in the driver's seat one day! Is SouthernGal drinking and driving? Where's BOB? I want to sit by him!

[This message edited by rising.phoenix at 4:00 AM, October 21st (Sunday)]


The hardest decision you will ever make is knowing which bridge to cross and which bridge to burn.

Don't lie to me, just get your things. I've made up your mind~ Evanescence


Posts: 153 | Registered: Jun 2011
reallystruggling
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Default  Posted: 12:40 PM, October 21st (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

after 14 months on the bus, i thought maybe my maidenhead had grown back and i was a virgin again. Nope!


me- BS (40 something)
him- remarried and already a WS again
3 amazing kids
multiple D Days over 20 years
Divorced 2010

Posts: 284 | Registered: Apr 2009
Chili
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Default  Posted: 10:54 AM, October 25th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix:
I think there's quite a few BOB's on here - sure you can find one to sit...next to.


Me: BSO
Him: Assclown
Too many years tied up with him.
April-May 2012 pretty much sucked.
"I'd love to give a dog a bone, but I'm not gonna stick around to help you" - Jack White

Posts: 242 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Reality
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, October 25th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What's the matter NIK? Hoping to get a blankie from somewhere to cover up that bikini? You're awfully quiet..well at least on this thread.
Nah - I've been busy trying to get all those damn kids off my lawn.

And it's way too cold now for the bikini. I'm packing that away until we hit Australia...


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25707 | Registered: Aug 2011
need_hope
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, October 25th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like my SI peeps and you guys are fun and all but I have to admit, I do not want to be on this damn bus.

So, while I sit here scoping out all of the emergency exits can we at least drive on the edge of the road so we travel over the rumble strips? Please?


Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.


Posts: 1740 | Registered: May 2009 | From: East Coast
Chili
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Member # 35503
Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, October 25th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BSO
Him: Assclown
Too many years tied up with him.
April-May 2012 pretty much sucked.
"I'd love to give a dog a bone, but I'm not gonna stick around to help you" - Jack White

Posts: 242 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Reality
need_hope
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Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, October 25th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Chili!


Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.


Posts: 1740 | Registered: May 2009 | From: East Coast
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