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tesla
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Member # 34697 |  Posted: 10:21 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 |     |
Sigh...polo...
Only 4 months...seems like 4 m-effin years.
Settling in for a long ride...nice to see I've got such great company.
Ish kabibble.
Posts: 2818 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana |
Jpapageorge
♂ Member
Member # 31800 | | Posted: 11:45 AM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
Polo.
Still lickin' the windows at the back of the bus. I do have some Gummy Bears though if anyone wants some. They have been in my pocket so they are nice and soft.
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Me: FBBF
Posts: 1362 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California |
Must Survive
♀ Member
Member # 34533 | | Posted: 12:15 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
Guess I am riding this bus too! Six months for me. Mentally I think I want to stay on this bus forever, my body says I can't! 
Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged to OW#3
Posts: 256 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive |
Chrysalis123
♀ Member
Member # 27148 | | Posted: 1:22 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
polo...4 years 
Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.
Posts: 1385 | Registered: Jan 2010 |
trying_2_recover
♀ Member
Member # 28778 | | Posted: 1:44 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
OMG a few more months and it'll be 7yrs. I'm not sure how that happened.
BW-48 was married 25yrs, been divorced for 5. I was married to a man with narcissistic and passive aggressive tendencies.
Posts: 158 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: Washington |
sunfish
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Member # 33153 | | Posted: 2:27 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
Its been...4 weeks - OMG... Years, really? I am so scared. I guess my "toy box" is going to get upgraded!
...polo?
And if I have to be on this bus, I am so glad its with all of you. I love these kinds of posts. I will pass on the gummy bears, thanks. 
Me BS (48)
Him (STBXH (48)
DDay#1 07/10
DDay #2 08/10
DDay#3 09/10
02/11 He moved in for R
4/4/12 - he wants a Divorce...
4/18/12 - he moved out
"...because you don't move to a small town to cheat..." ~stbxwh
Posts: 157 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Left Coast |
Harriet
♀ New Member
Member # 34543 | | Posted: 2:35 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
Polo. It's been a long time since I checked in here - I used to go to the "just found out" but it was too raw and depressing for me. You guys who are moving on (like me) are much more fun, in spite of the pain I know we are all going through. Oh, and I guess it's been...holy sh** almost a year!
D-Day Spring 2008
Divorce Final 6/7/12
Posts: 19 | Registered: Jan 2012 |
booger bear
♀ Member
Member # 26584 | | Posted: 3:19 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
there's just this gent that would like to have me join him *in his truck* for a while....having dinner with him tonight.
No not in his truck not for your first time off the bus ... it is very fun tho makes ya feel young again ...
I will be 3yrs in Nov ... so I guess I am not the driver which is ok ... I have some road rage and ad that to lack of some good loving and I am very dangerous with a full lethal weapon ...
maybe we could be the new karma bus ... how funny would that be ... get run over by a bus load of us it would be a violent funny ending ...
"How beautiful is it to stay silent when someone expects you to be enraged ? And how beautiful is it to laugh when someone thinks you are going to shed tears ...
Posts: 18426 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: My own little hobbit shire |
Nature_Girl
♀ Member
Member # 32554 | | Posted: 3:27 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
For those of us on this bus so long we've fossilized, will the newbies please take turns tying us oldies out on the "prow" of the bus? I think it would be fun to be a figurehead as we careen across the oceans & highways of celibacy. Just pick the bugs out of my teeth when you place me back on my bench.
Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = WS (abusive NPD SA)
3 elementary school-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
Separated & Divorcing
Posts: 5035 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA |
brokenapart
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Member # 8309 | | Posted: 3:35 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
Its been...4 weeks -
You are SO not on the bus yet.
The rule used to be six months. A few people sought a 3 month waiver. But 4 weeks?
come for a visit, but don't take a seat yet. And bring snacks!
2.5 years here.
 [This message edited by brokenapart at 6:54 PM, May 13th (Sunday)]
me- BS
2 great kids = DS18 & DD17
Divorced & living again.
"Let go or get dragged" - beaner
Life is Good
Posts: 10635 | Registered: Sep 2005 |
LoveHerStill
♂ Member
Member # 31504 | | Posted: 4:21 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
Polo,
Last time was with XWW. 
It still works just fine, reminded every morning with the tent pole!
Moving in two Weeks! Gonna settle in, then we shall see!
No hurry, but I have never been a fan of riding the bus, both in reality, and figuratively!
I paid my fare, just not sure what stop to get off!
Hahaha, I said get off!
Me BH-46
Her WW-45
Married-20yrs
Together-26yrs
D-Day 4/11/10
Divorced 9/13/2010
XWW Married OM 5/23/2011
Care for yourself, Heal yourself, BELIEVE in YOURSELF!
Posts: 338 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Seattle, WA |
lost and lonely
♀ Member
Member # 17205 | | Posted: 4:29 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
Polo
6 months.....6 long, lonely months!
Me: 36
WxH: 37
Together 16yrs, married 12yrs (we were 16 and 17 when we met...high school sweethearts)
2 sons
Separated 6/09, Divorced 2/11
Posts: 706 | Registered: Nov 2007 |
Sad in AZ
♀ Member
Member # 24239 | | Posted: 5:33 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
Polo; it's been about 8 years for me. Since gma got off, I'm driving now.
We're on the highway to hell, and I'm the bus driver... 
My scars are pretty deep and will remind me of my ordeal for a long time, but they have healed over and are no longer a threat to my existence.
Me: FBW 58 (no longer betrayed nor a wife)
D-day: 6/12/2007
D: 3/21/2011
Posts: 17075 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: East Texas |
lied2
♀ Member
Member # 1807 | | Posted: 6:08 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
Polo
It has been 8 yrs for me I had to think about it. I have my own seat too but iding on the hood for a while actually sounds like it would be fun.
I have to say I am glad I am not on the bus alone. I wish none of us where on here but it is nice to have company. [This message edited by lied2 at 6:08 PM, May 12th (Saturday)]
The grass isn't greener on the other side of the fence. It is astro turf.
The essence of love is not what we think or do or provide for others, but how much we give of ourselves.
A clean house is the sign of a broken computer.
Posts: 8195 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Ontario, Canada |
risingfromashes
♀ Member
Member # 3903 | | Posted: 6:14 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
For those of us on this bus so long we've fossilized, will the newbies please take turns tying us oldies out on the "prow" of the bus? I think it would be fun to be a figurehead as we careen across the oceans & highways of celibacy. Just pick the bugs out of my teeth when you place me back on my bench.
I could be a snow plow!!!!!
But I do have hope. I am not dead.
***Cannot figure out how to make the quote in bold letters...sorry...Nature Girl! [This message edited by risingfromashes at 6:18 PM, May 12th (Saturday)]
Forgive exass? I am working on forgiving myself for staying so long!
Posts: 1135 | Registered: Mar 2004 |
tryingagain74
♀ Member
Member # 33698 | | Posted: 8:20 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
Polo! Seven months-- good thing I packed my slippers, bathrobe, and a few great books, because I think it's going to be a LONG ride!
BS (Me) 38
Signed off and awaiting D papers!
Two DS and One DD
"Let us move on / For this is short / And it will pass." --Dido, "Let Us Move On"
Posts: 2457 | Registered: Oct 2011 |
booger bear
♀ Member
Member # 26584 | | Posted: 8:48 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
I have my own seat too but iding on the hood for a while actually sounds like it would be fun.
"How beautiful is it to stay silent when someone expects you to be enraged ? And how beautiful is it to laugh when someone thinks you are going to shed tears ...
Posts: 18426 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: My own little hobbit shire |
caregiver9000
♀ Member
Member # 28622 | | Posted: 10:05 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
allright...
Pollo! (not misspelled. That would be po-yo. Spanish for CHICKEN... cause that is what I am.)
2.5 years and I think it is a fine ride. Climate controlled, I got the remote to the on board movies, and no one seems to care about directions or speed. I'm good.
Me: 42, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 12 DS 9
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
Posts: 3966 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place |
treegirls
♀ Member
Member # 17330 | | Posted: 10:45 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
Polo! Gosh, just figured it out - at 5 years 2 months.
Is there a map to help with directions on how to reach a destination and that also explains what to do when you get there?
Me 46 years old
M 13 years, together 17 years
Two girls, ages 13 and 7
WH died July 1, 2009 at age 46 from pancreatic cancer diagnosed July 2005. Affair began Nov. 2006 when cancer metastasized.
Posts: 419 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Illinois |
wildbananas
♀ Member
Member # 10552 | | Posted: 11:14 PM, May 12th (Saturday), 2012 | |
We're on the highway to hell
Great, now I'm singing AC/DC...
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 14688 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Just a Cali girl |
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