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User Topic: Attention all bus riders!
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:03 PM, January 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Who's driving?


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5070 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
SBB
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, January 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

6m here and I don't know that I'll be staying on much longer without having a little day trip soon.

Yoga just aint cutting it.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5557 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
hurtinky
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Default  Posted: 10:17 PM, January 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been so long for me that I quit keeping up with how long its been.

Last time was sometime in September 2005.

I don't even think about it anymore. Kind of like I'm asexual or something.


Me --> BS
D-Day 10-1988
D-Day 9-12-2005
S 9-13-2005
D 3-6-12



Posts: 1500 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: Kentucky
Survivor3512
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, January 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been six months- am I a bus rider yet? I think I'll be on the bus for a long while...


Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

Posts: 293 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Southeastern U.S.
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 1:38 AM, January 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

19 months (I had to go back in this thread to figure it out)

No signs of getting off the bus any time soon. Not dating, still kinda a mess.

Oh but hey! I have beer. A whole cooler full of Arrogant Bastard in the 22oz bottles. We can fling the empties at bridge abutments and scream YOU'RE NOT WORTHY!!!!!

http://www.arrogantbastard.com

Who has snacks?


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1177 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 6:00 AM, January 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

18 months here. Not missing it as much as I thought I would. Although, didn't someone in some thread say that a-d meds can make you like that?? I'm trying to wean off them. So maybe I should reconsider.. .... oh, no, there goes the whole plan! I will either have to find a way off the bus or stay on the a-d meds! Well, I KNOW which one I would RATHER do!!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2329 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, January 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been six months- am I a bus rider yet?
Welcome aboard, Survivor.

Newbies have to pick up the tab for the veterans. It's 2-fer Tuesday today.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25313 | Registered: Aug 2011
Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, January 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

20 months here.
Coming up on d-day anniversary number 2 and feeling like i'll be on the bus forever.


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1386 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, January 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did not mean to embarrass myself twice!!!! Geesh.

[This message edited by Lola2kids at 5:12 PM, January 29th (Tuesday)]


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1386 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, January 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, who wants my seat?

Okay, I'm not off the bus yet. I'm just really, really tired of being on it.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15393 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
better4me
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Default  Posted: 6:10 PM, January 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Who's driving?

I believe Compartmented started bus driving duties back in September. I just earned my 6 month badge so I'm back on. Seems I missed the outer banks, California and Margaritaville. Have we made it to Australia yet? I've popped open a Foster's just in case!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3130 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 6:23 PM, January 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aside from a one-night hop-off in Italy in September , I am 7 months on the bus.

I'm glad we are rolling again though!!!

I'll fix some martinis.

Where are we headed now? Did we give up on Australia??


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

Posts: 1252 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, January 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NT if you're doing Chocolate martini's... I'll have one.

Is Australia having hot weather right now?


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5070 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 6:14 AM, January 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very hot in Queensland, Australia right now and some flooded areas to detour the bus. Might need some off-road tires and a snorkel.

I'll take a chocolate martini or two too, please.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2329 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
SBB
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Default  Posted: 6:29 AM, January 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did we give up on Australia??

No - the damn bus made it to Australia.

t/j I've never actually seen a Fosters in Australia - only in the US end t/j

I'll take an Extra Dirty Martini Please. Old Fashioned. Whilst I think of day trips.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5557 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
EvenKeel
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Default  Posted: 9:29 AM, January 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I temporary hopped off the bus for a wild time. Hey, if you are going to jump off the bus, you might as well go all out!

It was great..while it lasted.

[Shakes head hard to clear memories]

But now I hit the 6 month mark (again) so I can officially re-board the bus.

~Snuggling in~


Eyes are useless if the mind is blind.


Posts: 2100 | Registered: May 2009 | From: Pa
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, January 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been so long for me that I can't be sure of my last 'event' but I think it was in 2006, so hurtinky is probably the bus driver, but I'm at least the conductor.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20154 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
npain
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Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, January 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

18months on this wretched bus so far, with the ride being no end in sight...O well, gotta enjoy what I got!!!


S,beginning D

Posts: 508 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: New York
jilted12
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Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, January 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is there space for one more?

One year for me. D still not final, still nursing the baby, and can't even fathom dating right now so I will probably be here a while.


Me: BS 40
Him: WS 39
Married 10 yrs, together 13
DS-8, DD-5, DS-2
D-Day 5/9/12, 2 days before #3 was born
Filed for D 8/12; D final 4/13

"I used to be married but I'm better now"


Posts: 188 | Registered: May 2012
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 11:18 PM, January 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

jilted, there's always room for one more. And as the newest rider, you get to buy a round.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15393 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
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