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User Topic: Attention all bus riders!
SouthernGal
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Default  Posted: 7:24 AM, May 13th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's Sunday and Mother's Day.

The bar is open. Who wants a mimosa or a bloody Mary?


BS (Me) XWH (him) M nearly 16 yrs
1 DD (teens)
D-day #1 12/09, #2 2/10
Divorced 10/6/10

Posts: 3862 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: The Deep (Fried) South
willowiris
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, May 13th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm on. 6 months with no current signs of a bus stop.


D-day 09/2004
Filed for divorce 9/2006

We accept the love we think we deserve. "The Perks of Being a Wallflower."


Posts: 12326 | Registered: Sep 2004 | From: Margaritaville
better4me
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, May 13th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's Sunday and Mother's Day.
The bar is open. Who wants a mimosa or a bloody Mary?
Funny how drinking and Mother's day sound like they go together so well! I'll take a Bloody Mary with a beer chaser. Thanks SG.


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3156 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 8:50 AM, May 13th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll take a mimosa, SG... I've never had one but what the hell. I deserve some alcohol for raising the bunch solo.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15403 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
SouthernGal
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Default  Posted: 9:51 AM, May 13th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Better4Me - I think it is because Mother's Day makes me think of brunch ... which makes me think of drinking. LOL

WB - I hear ya, girl. Wanna banana daiquiri?


BS (Me) XWH (him) M nearly 16 yrs
1 DD (teens)
D-day #1 12/09, #2 2/10
Divorced 10/6/10

Posts: 3862 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: The Deep (Fried) South
Meadhbh
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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, May 13th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Absolutely Polo! Though I have to say I'm rather enjoying the bus ride!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor is just an idiot in tin foil."

Posts: 1074 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Middle USA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, May 13th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oooh - Me Me Me! I'll take a banana daquiri!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, May 13th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No not in his truck not for your first time off the bus ... it is very fun tho makes ya feel young again ...

LOL bb! That is SO not what I meant!! I'm much too old for that!

Also, this isn't my first time off the bus. I had a fling for a few weeks after 1 year on, and now, I've been on the bus for 2 years since.

Except I found my stop last night. I'm off the bus. At least, for a while.


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5513 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, May 13th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Except I found my stop last night. I'm off the bus. At least, for a while.

Squee!!!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25530 | Registered: Aug 2011
want a new life
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Default  Posted: 4:54 PM, May 13th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope there's room on this bus for me!!I'm on 1 1/2 yrs and ready for a long trip.


Me BS - 57
D 6/2010
It's been a long journey but I think I'm finally arriving at my happy place:)


Posts: 232 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: midwest
Harriet
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, May 13th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm headed over to our family BBQ to get a margartita...my brother makes the best. It's a good thing we're all on the bus and not behind the wheel, with all this drinking going on!


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 469 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
need_hope
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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, May 13th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been on the bus since early January, so it's been 4 months. I've had a couple of f-buddy offers that I've turned down. And a couple of dating opportunities that I've turned down as well. I just wasn't ready for starting to date again or even just have NSA sex.

But I sure as hell wasn't made for bus-riding. And I'm starting to get a bit restless. *sigh*


Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.


Posts: 1732 | Registered: May 2009 | From: East Coast
kernel
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Default  Posted: 12:39 AM, May 14th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo, dammit, and the last time was with X and it was about as lousy as it could get. Going to be 3 years soon. I'm gonna have to dip a toe in the dating waters. I am sooooo chicken.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5191 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, May 14th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

eh, I'm here. Kind of indifferent either way right now, too much other stuff going on.

But I would like a cocktail, if they are being served


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2594 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
purplefinch
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, May 14th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo - its been just about a year for me - last time was with XWH and it was all about him.

I'm scared too, but margaritas make me brave. Hmmmmmmm.


Married 28 years, together 32; DD age 23
Me BW: 52
XWH: 54, liar
DDay 6/3/2011
skank-a-saurus: 48 yo FORMER friend of 30 years.
status: Divorced January 25, 2012!!

Posts: 674 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Massachusetts
Faithsurviver
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, May 14th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo...

Its been 2 yrs, 4 months and I'm REALLY getting tired of riding, sorry guys

I have a male friend who could possibly persuade me off the bus, but he's on the ride too and wants to ride until his D is finalized. After that, who knows??


BW (me) 51
XWH 53, but acts like a 15 y/o
M 18 yrs
DS 16, DD 14 (on D-day)
EA,PA with OW, 30 yrs his jr.
DDay 11/30/09 (DS's B-day), WH moved out 4 days later.
I filed for D-1/29/10,
DIVORCED 10/22/10
You can't reason with an NPD!!!

Posts: 337 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Midwest
Oh the Irony
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Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, May 14th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was on for three years. Got off for a fling. Just found out I know have HPV genital warts. Wish I'd stayed on the bus...

Back on.


Two gorgeous boys, 14 and 8.
D-day Sept. 15, 2006.
Me, BS 43
Him, WS 50
Her, OG (Guess she is 27 or 28 now! 19-21 at the time...)
Separated. Divorcing. Happily working on myself.

Posts: 735 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: thankful for truth
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 5:39 PM, May 14th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a question for all bus riders: does it get easier with time? Do you find that your desire decreases over time? Does BOB helps or just make you want it worse?

I've heard that if you go without for long enough, you stop craving, and I was curious if it was true.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13756 | Registered: Jul 2011
yewtree
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, May 14th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

5 years 9 months. But who is counting...

Sad, I'm glad you are driving, because my seat has the perfect groove around my butt, and I am not sharing with nobody.

Can we at least change the radio station????


Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.


Posts: 4676 | Registered: Oct 2007
SouthernGal
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, May 14th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AMA,

I think there may be something to that. I think sex drive has a use it or lose it quality. I am definitely findi f it easier now than even a year ago.


BS (Me) XWH (him) M nearly 16 yrs
1 DD (teens)
D-day #1 12/09, #2 2/10
Divorced 10/6/10

Posts: 3862 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: The Deep (Fried) South
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