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User Topic: Attention all bus riders!
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

22 months and counting... the next bus stop is NOWHERE in sight... and now I also want some peanut butter cups.


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3607 | Registered: Oct 2011
Compartmented
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Member # 29410
Default  Posted: 11:05 PM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was thinking about the bus last night when a really OLD guy was hitting on me. He had trouble remembering what the name of the city is where one of his three houses is, and trouble walking down the steps. Uhhhh, NOPE! Still on the bus!!

Posts: 1266 | Registered: Aug 2010
tesla
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 2:42 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey bus! Been chillin' back here for 19 months. Gonna need a stop soon. Real soon. Sigh. Pass the PB cups and a couple of pints of Guinness please.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4655 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 35402 | Registered: Mar 2011
Abbondad
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Member # 37898
Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ummm...five months. Feels like five years. Can I at least hitch my skateboard to the bumper?


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1622 | Registered: Dec 2012
h0peless
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Member # 36697
Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm coming up on 14 months here. My callouses have callouses.

Posts: 1694 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 7:28 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

2001

I win.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9714 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh NG, I'm not sure you should call that a win. Four years here. Sigh. Even FWB is starting to sound good and that is soooo not me. Kind of like how everyone looks good the closer you get to closing time.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5191 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh NG, I'm not sure you should call that a win. Four years here

I know, right?????


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9714 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
seriouslylostit
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Default  Posted: 11:26 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is a friend with benefits out of the question? It seems it might empty the bus!

Posts: 843 | Registered: May 2009
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 11:38 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All you newcomers to the bus, just look up & you'll see me:


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9714 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
kernel
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Default  Posted: 5:55 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5191 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
7yrsflushed
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Default  Posted: 9:25 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

15 months and still counting.

Saw a pic somewhere that said it's like air, you never think about it until you aren't getting any.

[This message edited by 7yrsflushed at 1:58 PM, September 10th (Tuesday)]


D-day 5/24/11
BH = Me
2 children
The first true sense of calm I felt in YEARS was when I filed for D...
Divorced 9/2/14 and loving life!

Posts: 1905 | Registered: May 2011 | From: VA
curiouswiz
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Member # 34405
Default  Posted: 10:49 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG..I just realized what this bus ride is!!! Oh, just oh...I'm beginning to feel as though I'll never get off the bus. I've been turned back into a virgin too! It's been more than 3 years for me maybe closer to 4???

I'd love a hug and a kiss and maybe a bite! grrrr....


God bless us, everyone.

Posts: 633 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Boston
better4me
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Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My fellow bus riders, I bid you adieu...after 14 months B4me is exiting the bus. Although I'm not really sad to say goodbye, I did enjoy your company and it was so good to know I wasn't the only one not getting any...

satisfaction.

(a few more details can be found on my "where's the bus" post)

[This message edited by better4me at 4:39 PM, September 10th (Tuesday)]


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3156 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
TrulyReconciled
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Member # 3031
Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This will put the squeeze on you bus riders!


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21173 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
Faithsurviver
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Member # 30860
Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey fellow riders, does this count? I met a great guy, were dating 2 months, we ended up between the sheets but the rocket failed to launch, twice! Ouch!! We are still dating but haven't tried since. I really care for him but I'm afraid its going to happen again (he has some health issues)


BW (me) 51
XWH 53, but acts like a 15 y/o
M 18 yrs
DS 16, DD 14 (on D-day)
EA,PA with OW, 30 yrs his jr.
DDay 11/30/09 (DS's B-day), WH moved out 4 days later.
I filed for D-1/29/10,
DIVORCED 10/22/10
You can't reason with an NPD!!!

Posts: 337 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Midwest
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

*waves goodbye to b4me*

Good for you, honey.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25518 | Registered: Aug 2011
gma56
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Member # 19595
DOH!  Posted: 1:47 AM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All I Can Say, I Hate Riding The Bus !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thought I was off for good but Noooooooo.....that was just a tease Gma.

I've been alone for 5 yrs and I'm so ready for my normal . I told my family if I'm missing I'll be in Alabama for a month !
It sucks when I'm in CA and we're both so damn busy.

The bad part is I'm not interested in anyone but HIM ! God needs to to give me time off and send me to Alabama. I will take it as a Christmas Blessing. I'll take my holiday blessing early God!
Ugggggggggh !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think this state is holding me hostage.


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20377 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
EvenKeel
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Member # 24210
Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sooo glad I bought a lifetime bus pass!!!

I took a short detour off the bus but I am back again.

I am mighty happy to be here too! I finally reached the stage of being content of where I am at this point of life.

Cheers!


Eyes are useless if the mind is blind.


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