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User Topic: Attention all bus riders!
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Back on the bus after a 4 months break.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
foreverempty
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Member # 34426
Default  Posted: 4:24 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm doing my best to hop back on, well over 4 months now, let me know when a seat comes free, this time I want to stay here for good. It's not all it's cracked up to be out there. Too much emotional crap and vulnerability....!


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 673 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
jilted12
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Member # 35640
Default  Posted: 9:01 PM, September 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

21 months for me and though I have zero desire to start dating, I would really love a FWB about now. Had a really young guy flirting with me a few weeks back & I was almost tempted to find out what this cougar thing is all about! Alas, common sense took over & I think I will be on the bus for quite some time.


Me: BS 40
Him: WS 39
Married 10 yrs, together 13
DS-8, DD-5, DS-2
D-Day 5/9/12, 2 days before #3 was born
Filed for D 8/12; D final 4/13

"I used to be married but I'm better now"


Posts: 188 | Registered: May 2012
newnormal
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Member # 21925
Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello fellow bus riders!
Im just happy sitting here in my seat. Im busy writing my "Single bucket list" of things I want to accomplish before I start dating. Anyone else with me?

Lets get this party started


BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo


Posts: 1033 | Registered: Dec 2008
welcome14
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Member # 26741
Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, I went to Destin by myself this year, something the ex and I did together. I was going to go to our places, and have cathartic tears, and take it back...so, I was looking at the outside bench where I sat crying for an hour cause I could tell he wasn't "there" with me, and he never came to check on me (was texting his whore). Waiting, waiting...no tears. Favorite restaurant? No tears. Then, I had the best vacation of my life. I got up when I wanted, had junk food for breakfast (i eat healthy at home), spent all day at the beach, came back to the room and napped, then went antiques and second hand store shopping, or to a bookstore, and got fresh shrimp from the seafood place... basically did what the hell I wanted. Best.vacay.ever. I met up with friends after four days down there alone, and wish that I hadn't, just stayed by myself cause I had so much fun. Now, single bucket list is Hawaii by myself! My daughter went last year, and my friend last month, and I want to go. I love vacationing by myself! It sucks that I am 50+ and just now getting the opportunity to find that out.


Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.


Posts: 1243 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: clarksville, tn/ Ft Campbell
ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been a bus rider for 2.5 years now and have no desire to leave. Really. not. interested.

I'd love to go to Hawaii!!! XH and I lived in Puerto Rico for a year and a half back in '88 when our son was a baby (turns out that's when the ONSs that I now know about started...). But my point is that I always thought going to Hawaii would be so cool, but XH refused because I hadn't enjoyed living in Puerto Rico... Apparently if they're tropical islands, they're all the same.

I wish I had more friends to pass my time with, but I'm very happily rooted to this bus-riding life.


Me: BW (55)
Him: WH (62)
7/14/11 - Divorced

Posts: 1907 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: another world
brokendude
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Default  Posted: 6:58 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wait wait wait... what is this bus everyone's talking about? The foreveralone bus? The bus of singledom?

Ok, I'm on the bus. :( For about a year minus one brief rest stop.


Posts: 8 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Seattle
burnedcanuckEMS
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Eight months here. Finally realizing the bus is ok and that its not such a bad place to be. Its not that I don't want a relationship, I do, but it has to be right. For once in my life I am putting myself first, and I have a very specific list of attributes I am looking for and until that happens I may as well get comfy. Looks like it might be a long ride. And I am ok with that!!


Me: BW 38, Him: WH 37
M: 07/07/07
DDay: 06/09/12
Divorce Granted on December 5, 2012 - fasted divorce ever (thanks to my good lawyer) and I am not looking back with ANY regrets!!

PS...sorry for any spelling errors or missing letters etc..... ty


Posts: 287 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Alberta
worried_lady
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Default  Posted: 7:14 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well I am going to be very truthful. I HATE THE FUCKING (no make that the NON FUCKING) Bus.

Oh well I am here and will be staying. I am picky and not willing to settle for anything less than I deserve. I am going to wait until I meet HIM and until then I will just sit in the back and pout.


Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over it became a butterfly.

Posts: 478 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Texas
newnormal
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Default  Posted: 6:12 AM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(spits coffee) worried lady, I think you just answered broken dudes question.

I think this is the point in rotation in this thread were we talk about bob.


BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo


Posts: 1033 | Registered: Dec 2008
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@welcome14: Vacationing alone is my FAVOURITE THING EVER!

Well into Year 5 here and quite happy thank you very much.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17796 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 8:37 AM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Who's driving the bus? We need a destination. Let's get this party started!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5744 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Bebba1171
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Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hopped on a few weeks ago..

Proud to be in such good company!


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 727 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: USA
welcome14
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Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@FaithFool- I'm kicking myself that I didn't try it before, and I bought into that "you must be part of a couple to have fun" bullshit.

As for everyone else-


Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.


Posts: 1243 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: clarksville, tn/ Ft Campbell
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 10:26 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^^^


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17796 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
newnormal
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Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, January 9th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Marco


BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo


Posts: 1033 | Registered: Dec 2008
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 8:41 PM, January 9th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm off at the yellow flag stop. I'll let you all know if I hop back on... Enjoy the ride, it is a lot less complicated!


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1254 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, January 9th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5744 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, January 9th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Back on. For a long time if you ask me. Had a few stops there in between but boy, for now I like my seat. Leaning back, with my book and earplugs, a few snacks and I am ready to go around the block for the next 12 months at least.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
whatdoto
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Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, January 9th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Polo!

First time on this bus. Been 12 months and think I'll stay for a while. Hi ya'll!


"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".

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