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User Topic: Attention all bus riders!
foreverempty
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, March 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Burgers are looking good in here. Was feeling a little peckish and could do with something to focus my staying on the bus decision!


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 607 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
time2grow
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, March 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After a burger pie and ice-cream sounds good. Pies are one of many things I make in the restaurant.


Custard


Strawberry-Rhubarb


Blueberry & Cherry Chocolate going in the oven.


What sounds good?


Posts: 1719 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Missouri
Caretaker1
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Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, March 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What is this post about?

Posts: 234 | Registered: Mar 2014
time2grow
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Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Caretaker1 - This thread is for "bus riders". A "bus rider" is one who has been celibate for a minimum of 6 months.

Posts: 1719 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Missouri
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Enough people have asked that I finally added a little description of The Bus in the first post on the thread.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25060 | Registered: Aug 2011
CheshCat
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ROFL... Thanks!!!

I have the feeling the description was self evident based on posts at the time.

I just had the old joke stuck in my head :

"Dating? Men are like busses. You wait and wait and wait, and and wait and wait and wait.... And then four of the suckers come at once!"

Which didn't quite make sense.

Chesh >^..^<


"Another conversation killed awkwardly! Yes! Point to my side." - Chesh's Brother

Moi : BS MH 30mumble
Him : WS Abuse Adultery Addict Six-figure Sociopath = Aaass
... I picked a winner!
DDay - 2006 ad naseam
Divorced! 2013


Posts: 571 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: West Coast US
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep....I'm going on 4 times the requirement of being a "bus rider".... BOO! All I gotta say is...my daughter's sperm donor was really REALLY good in bed....so I'm in no hurry to be disappointed by the next guy..... (big shoes to fill...quite literally! )


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2717 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
newnormal
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, April 11th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Who's still on this bus with me? Is the bartender with the great margaritas still here?


BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo


Posts: 1033 | Registered: Dec 2008
time2grow
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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, April 11th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm still here.

I enjoy my life without alcohol, I'll have a компот (Kompot) instead, please!


Posts: 1719 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Missouri
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, April 11th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did somebody say Margaritas?????
I was at the back taking a nap.
I'll take mine on the rocks with salt and an extra twist of limes.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2213 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
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Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, April 11th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can I have one of those skinny margaritas? I tried one recently with a friend and it was really good!!

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, April 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm still here!!!

Enjoying the view, not enough to give up my seat.

Who's driving?


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5017 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, April 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Six months!? Meh, lightweights!

Six years here and not budging anytime soon. I'm enjoying the ride, it's smooth, scenic and uncomplicated.

What is a skinny margarita?

I discovered gin last month. When the gift certificate that I won finally arrives, I'll be in the schmancy cocktail bar sampling their wares.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 11:45 AM, April 12th (Saturday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17341 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
burnedcanuckEMS
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Default  Posted: 9:42 PM, April 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am solidly in a comfy position on the bus too! Its been just over one year for me. Just after New Years I decided it was time to start looking at whats out there and joined eHarmony. That has turned out to be a raging disappointment, I have had a few inquisitive matches but none that I even remotely want to meet so i took all of my info off and now back to not looking! And I don't even seem to care!! You could say I am saving myself for the right kind of guy and until he comes along I am staying on the bus!


Me: BW 38, Him: WH 37
M: 07/07/07
DDay: 06/09/12
Divorce Granted on December 5, 2012 - fasted divorce ever (thanks to my good lawyer) and I am not looking back with ANY regrets!!

"And this above all else, to thine own self be true"


Posts: 236 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Alberta
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, April 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Kajem, I was driving but I'm not now! More fun to drink in the back!

What is a skinny margarita?

I discovered gin last month.

I think a skinny margarita has artificial sweetener of some sort, probably something I wouldn't have if I knew what it was. But it's way less calories!

Gin! So many great ones out there!


Posts: 1243 | Registered: Aug 2010
Crashtestdummy
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Default  Posted: 10:31 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Finally hit a bus stop after 6 times the bus fare (36 months). I did enjoy the company of the fellow bus riders, but am sure glad I am finally off and hope not to need a seat on this bus again.


If I found a bus stop then there are other stops out there for all of you.

Take care

Crash


BH-Me 51
XWW-her.... 54
2 Wonderful Sons: 32 & 21
D-Day: 09/22/09
Married 20 years
Divorce Final: 08/12 Enjoying Life!

"I Don't Suffer From Insanity, I Rather Enjoy It". Serge A Storms


Posts: 82 | Registered: Nov 2009
luvbug0915
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Default  Posted: 7:45 AM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Looks like that seat opened up just in time for me, thanks for keeping it warm crash!


"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle


Posts: 1038 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Metro Atlanta
npain
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Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm on this bus for the long haul..33 months and counting with no end in sight...

And no desire to get off of it right now either...Enjoying the peace and solitude


S,beginning D

Posts: 508 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: New York
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:26 PM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Strapping myself into my seat!!!!!

Hormones are going crazy lately. Not dating and definitely don't want a ONS. So strapping myself to my seat.

This too shall pass......


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5017 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thursday will be the second birthday in a row on the bus for me. I find myself prone to unfortunate outbursts these days.

[This message edited by h0peless at 11:26 PM, April 21st (Monday)]


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